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Give me tips on how to go to my friends dormroom

Hey Basil. So basically, I want to go to my friend's dorm room but i don't know if I should text him first asking if he's in his room right now or to just go. He usually always has people over so I think it would be awkward to go without asking but how should I approach him and his room?

November 11, 2012

10 Comments • Newest first

Barquifa

[quote=swagonomics]So i asked him if he is in his room. And he said, "yeah haha". So i said can i come over? And he didn't reply yet and it's been like 20-30 minutes already..[/quote]

probably a sign he doesnt want you to go over

Reply November 11, 2012
swagonomics

So i asked him if he is in his room. And he said, "yeah haha". So i said can i come over? And he didn't reply yet and it's been like 20-30 minutes already..

Reply November 11, 2012
ItzATrapp

Just ask if he wants to hang out. If you guys are friends, then there should be no debate.

However, if you were debating whether to visit a girl's dorm, and you like them... different story.

Reply November 11, 2012
FatJason

"You're insecure."

Reply November 11, 2012
easyrolling

oh my god you're so awkward
just text him asking what's up
if he's having people over then just go and socialize
if he isn't, ask him if he wants to hang out

Reply November 11, 2012
ehnogi

@swagonomics:

On a serious note, send him a text or go on AIM and ask what he's up to.
"Want to go out for some coffee?"

Don't be shy about it either. Be open and proud.

Reply November 11, 2012
ClementZ

Why is this even a question?
Not even I'm this awkward.
And I'm pretty friggen awkward.

Just ask where he is, and if he wants to hang out, and just go.

Reply November 11, 2012
Deciduous

just ask if he wants to hang out seriously
it's nbd, doesn't soud desperate (which you seem worried about) and does also show you think he's a cool dood

Reply November 11, 2012
ehnogi

Let me hold your hand for you, Mr. Swagonomics.

Be liek:

YO bruh u wanna heng out or somethin

He be like : "No dude, I need to study for mid-terms."

And you be liek:

Ay, YOLO mayne.. .FISH ! Live a lil!

And he be like : "Dude leave me alone; this is like the 10th time. Stop texting me."

Reply November 11, 2012 - edited
swagonomics

No... I need a good reason why I'm going to his room so that I don't sound desperate. Should i tell him that i'm bored and if i could come over?

Reply November 11, 2012 - edited