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What do you look for in a Boyfriend/Girlfriend?

Eventually we all have to ask ourselves what we look for in a potential partner so what do you look for?

I look for someone who's good conversation, humorous, is attractive, is kind of weird (normal people are boring), is outgoing and appreciates me.

January 19, 2013

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Laker1294

At least decent looking; fit and healthy
Understanding
Patient
Same beliefs and values
Mature (more mature than high schoolers -_- knows the meaning of love... Most high schoolers don't know crap about love) and is close to my age; I still consider myself too immature for a huge age gap since I want to have lots of fun. And willing to make an effort.
Intelligent (equal or greater)
Confident
Cares about me
Some similar interests and/or chemistry (We're compatible)
Knows what he wants in life
Loyal
Is able to handle me (I'm hard to handle at times.)
Taller than me, of course. >_> Not that hard since I'm short.
Not demanding or controlling
Loves me for who I am
Doesn't force me to do things that would make me uncomfortable
Family oriented...not into players/badboys.
Preferably introverted.

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NonSonoFronz

-Common interests/tastes
-Well rounded intelligence
-Gets my humor
-Realistic/doesn't cause drama
-Either smokes weed or is okay with me smoking it

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pinoymystic

@hooplah123: she's still mine doe.
ain't nobody gon' do anything about it.

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WontPostMuch

She has to have her life together, have good ambitions in life and drama-free. Those are like the top things. Also, if she wears scarves <3

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nuffinmich

Someone that will comb my beautimus stachio.

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pinoymystic

I really wasn't interested in finding someone since I felt like I would end up being single forever. I mean, I'm really not a great person until I fell for his one nerdy guy in my class.
He is charming, nice, funny. He is what I imagine to be my partner, really.
I feel pretty lucky that he also decided to pick me too, even though I think about why I'm really horrible, haha.

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SirJayGatsby

[quote=UrbanTrash]I'm kind of attracted to mean people, but likable ones if that makes any sense. Like there's this guy at my University who's the most sarcastic person I've ever heard speak but I think it's adorable. I like intelligence and someone that can make me laugh too. I'm kind of introverted, so I think an extroverted person would help me come out of my shell.[/quote]

I agree with you on the mean personality. It's not mean but more so playfully attacking if that's a thing. I think of it like watching tiger cubs try and bite each other, it's not like they're trying to kill each other but at the same time it can get ugly.

As an extrovert, I think I would an introvert but someone who is still spontaneous and willing to try new things. I hate reclusive people.

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civfanatics

- Sweet
- Funny
- Charming <3
- Intelligent

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xKhashi

cleavage and buttox

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blazi4ever

- Someone who isn't boring + has a sense of fun + humor
- Obvious relationship traits (faithful, kind, can keep up with a convo with anything random...etc)
- Open to trying out things
- Not involved with turnoffs (E.g. Smoking)
- As far as intelligence matters, I'd rather have him be at least average
- Not overly clingy; should try and keep a balance between relationship and spending time with friends

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Katana678

Well. everything like me, cause you know im so perfect

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xLikeNoOther

[quote=UrbanTrash]I'm kind of attracted to mean people, but likable ones if that makes any sense. Like there's this guy at my University who's the most sarcastic person I've ever heard speak but I think it's adorable. I like intelligence and someone that can make me laugh too. I'm kind of introverted, so I think an extroverted person would help me come out of my shell.[/quote]

man2man?

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UrbanTrash

I'm kind of attracted to mean people, but likable ones if that makes any sense. Like there's this guy at my University who's the most sarcastic person I've ever heard speak but I think it's adorable. I like intelligence and someone that can make me laugh too. I'm kind of introverted, so I think an extroverted person would help me come out of my shell.

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Zulucker

Hot and know how to make sandwiches

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SirJayGatsby

[quote=UsoppStyle]same. if you become woman callme[/quote]
Will do! Ahahahaha.

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UsoppStyle

[quote=SirJayGatsby]Eventually we all have to ask ourselves what we look for in a potential partner so what do you look for?

I look for someone who's good conversation, humorous, is attractive, is kind of weird (normal people are boring), is outgoing and appreciates me.[/quote]

same. if you become woman callme

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Tainysi

My girlfriend and I , we don't even talk sometimes and we just stare at eachother, it's not even the slightest awkward-ness-ish or whatever. I think it's pretty amazing
Anyways,
-Someone who laughs are my extremely dark and crude jokes
-Cute, not hot (hot girls for some reason have too many drama)
-Super cute/compatible personality
-loves to cuddle
-takes care of me (eauehaue)
-Super loyal (My girlfriend talks to no other guy except me , she's just extremely quiet even around her friends)
-Hardworker
-Glasses (i love glasses.)

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xVolcomStone

They are above a 3.

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oAZNvTOFUo

I look for how big their heart is....

like about 30cm or bigger will do. The bigger the better

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