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I have a problem with making guy friends

I'm a guy. I'm not gay. I'm new to this school. But all the friends I've made so far are girls.

I'm not super athletic (I ran cross country my freshman year, but that's about it). I'm really quiet.

I'm not fat (I'm actually really skinny), and I dont act like a duche bag.

I dont act gay. I dont sound gay. All my girl friends tell me I'm one of the nicest guys they've met.

But that may be the problem. How do I get guy friends?

I've been asked out twice already, but I'm not looking for a relationship yet (dont say hit it and quit it, not into that. I'll do that after I'm married.) since I want to establish a friend group first.

October 21, 2012

6 Comments • Newest first

sparkshooter

Well, if what you doin' don't work, do the opposite.
Act gay.

Reply October 21, 2012
dracox5234

talk to this guy
http://www.basilmarket.com/forum/2531676/0/It_is_so_hard_making_friends_who_are_girls.html

Reply October 21, 2012
Coordination

just play some sports or just talk to someone in class. usually thats how things build up.
1. meet someone in class and talk to them
2. meet his friends
3. meet his friend's friends
4. so on
try to stop hanging w/ because the more u hang w/ girls, people will think youre gay even though they're girls.

Reply October 21, 2012
punx

Talk to the guys? Seems like you surround yourself with girls

Reply October 21, 2012
kevin0617

Do what guys do

Reply October 21, 2012
Mejust

p. much the same way you get girlfriends? Talk to them and hang out with them?

Reply October 21, 2012