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ClipsNCurls Level 190 Windia Buccaneer
So my boyfriend and I made plans to hang today (its Friday so duh) and then he calls me saying he'd like today to study for exams instead. Fair enough, so we go ourways and then I call back hrs later to check in on him and apparently his friends showed up uninvited and they've been hanging for a few hrs now. Now he's saying its their fault for coming and but he's just as bad as saying yes to hanging. Like honestly I felt like he betrayed me. Guys am I overreacting or was this srsly unfair on my half?
Posted: April 2015 Permalink

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rockboarder Level 108 Demethos Priest
Dont mean to be that guy but wrong section...
Apr 10 2015
iStealRockz Level 165 Windia Phantom 4
If he did not want to hang out with you he should've just said it. That was wrong of him. Slay him.
Apr 10 2015
AntiSenpai Level 250 Broa Blade Master See what games, anime & art AntiSenpai is intoAntiSenpai
You're overreacting.

You two could possibly have your whole lives together and you're going to feel "betrayed" over something small as this?

If that's so then you're not ready for a relationship, honestly.
Apr 10 2015
create new character, problem solved.
Apr 10 2015
ClipsNCurls Level 190 Windia Buccaneer
Yea I know this was made in wrong thread section. My bad, its a mobile issue
Apr 10 2015
MeiGuiHua Level 160 Windia I/L Arch Mage
I dont think your own boyfriend would lie to you? And it is final exams time so of course studying should be first priority.
Apr 10 2015
Kirgamel Level 88 Windia Priest
Poor of him to do, over-reactive to feel betrayed over it. I'd settle for disappointed being a better word.

Maybe you learned a trick; pop-up uninvited and ask him to hang out and see what miracle wonders that would do.

Edit: While I don't want to go technical, it could also be related to how often he hangs with you compared to with his friends, sometimes I can sit-up people as well while accepting others because I just want to see other faces for a bit. It's not that odd unless he is seeing another chick.
Apr 10 2015
Hualicious Level 209 Scania Night Lord See what games, anime & art Hualicious is intoHualicious
He was wrong and it is okay to feel disappointed. Just talk about it with him and it should be fine. Hopefully it won't happen again the next time. I don't think you are overreacting and why would it be unfair on your half? He wanted to study, which you know it was important, so the date got cancelled, but he ended up hanging out with friends... He should have said no to them as well.

Anyway have a nice weekend
Apr 10 2015
hongfung Level 232 Galicia Mercedes 4
Why don't you study for your exams too?
Apr 10 2015
DistantSky Level 205 Khaini Marksman See what games, anime & art DistantSky is intoDistantSky
dump him, it means he has terrible self control.

Fast forward a few years
You: Hey Honey, have you paid the bills?
Him: Oh sorry LOL, a couple of friends came over and I blew it on gambling with them its k though, I'll go get welfare.
You: ..
Apr 10 2015
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