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noodlenoodle Level 38 Windia Aran 1
I just wanted to talk about something that's been bothering me so I wanted to discuss it on this forum because I want to hear others opinions on it. I've been watching videos on youtube which are about woman who are talking about why they are single. Some of these reasons are solely because they don't want to be mistreated by men. On the comments of the videos there are woman bashing men and saying all they want is sex. Which isn't true for all men. Whatever race some one is including if they are a man or woman can just want some one for sex. I've also come across this video about interaccial relationships and the comments were from black woman who were saying that they don't date black men because they don't want to be mistreated. I've been watching the rest of this persons videos and they had one about catching feelings for a sexual partner. Some of the comments were about a woman saying how she only wanted this man for sex and confused it for love but chose to keep it to herself. But when men do this or use a woman for sex he gets put down. Both sexes get put down on this issue; however, they seem to bash the opposite sex and call them derogatory terms. So why is it okay for a woman to call a man a "f-boy" when they can do the same thing. Is it because they get called "hoes" etc. which causes them to be turned away from men? These same men who talk about woman having sexual freedom as in not being disrespected refer to their woman as "pussy". Same with woman referring to their men as "dick". Both ways I think those words are basically referring to some one as a sex toy or an object. I've also seen videos of men calling woman hoes for sleeping around when they do the same thing which is watched by mostly men. (Same thing with woman making videos and mostly woman watching). Both sexes seem completely oblivious of what they are saying about each other and ignore the fact that it goes both ways. Why can't we just come to an agreement and accept that every body no matter their race/sex/gender can be an a-hole? Discuss.
Posted: July 2017 Permalink


I don't quite understand what you're trying to get at, the rant seems all over the place.

"But when men do this or use a woman for sex he gets put down."
Not to some other men they don't.

"Why can't we just come to an agreement and accept that every body no matter their race/sex/gender can be an a-hole?"
... Because they're a-holes?

I would also be wary of trying to generalize one particular group of people as if they all are doing one thing and as if absolutely everybody from the other side is doing another thing.
Jul 14 2017
chema Level 69 Windia Priest See what games, anime & art chema is intoChema
You REALLY have mommy issues
Jul 14 2017
noodlenoodle Level 38 Windia Aran 1
@readers: If you read the thread title you would understand what I'm talking about. The title is, "conflict between men and woman" which means that's what the whole thread is about. It shouldn't be that hard to decipher the point I'm trying to make if you read the whole thread. Also I never said that other men don't put down another for using woman for sex. Also yes I have every right to refer to some one as an a-hole. I never generalized anyone in the first place as I state, "this isn't true for ALL men". I also state, "SOME of these reasons are solely because they don't want to be mistreated by men". Another quote is, "however they SEEM to bash the opposite sex on this issue." Also I never generalized anyone as a whole. I explain how men and woman equally can do the same thing. Please understand that I was clearly not trying to generalize woman and men as a whole. If that was my intention then I wouldn't have included the words "some", "seem", and "all. "

Why does me talking about an issue involving men and woman automatically mean that I have "mommy issues"? If anything this whole thread has nothing to do with me and my personal life. What's so bad about me explaining how I feel about this subject when my intentions are to raise awareness of how people actually are? If anything I feel as if we need to talk about subject like this more. Sorry if this thread tickles you the wrong way or if talking about serious subjects makes you angry.
Jul 14 2017
@noodlenoodle: Well, "conflicts" between men and women is a very general thing that can refer to anything.

If you're referring to just 'some' people feeling this way, they have their reasons. But these "some" such reasons still go back to the point I've made earlier about not generalizing groups; that's something these people should be heeding as well. It is not the case always that all black men will mistreat, or that what all men want is just sex, or etc., if those are some of the reasons given.

Besides that I don't see what's there to discuss. If there are other reasons that fall outside of this sort of category, those are probably more likely to be contextual and personal to the individual and I don't think I can make any comment beyond that.
Jul 14 2017
noodlenoodle Level 38 Windia Aran 1
@readers: Whether or not this is a general topic it's still a conflict involving men and woman. I never generalized any group at all which I said in my previous comment. I never said that those were the only reasons. I based those reasons specifically on what comments and videos I've seen where people bluntly say that this is how they feel about so and so. If you see that there's nothing to discuss then theres nothing I can do to help you. You don't have to make an input if you feel there's nothing to say on it. Nobody's stopping you.
Jul 14 2017
andreaverilia Level 209 Windia Evan 10th Growth
Just do what @Beefly does.
Be transgender


Jul 14 2017
cantstopme Level 197 Windia Night Lord
i find this thread offensive b/c it doesnt mention other genders besides male and female
as a xe i call discrimination
Jul 14 2017
upcomingnerd Level 102 Scania Beast Tamer Shared
People like to complain, that's it. It helps them feel better about themselves to throw themselves into a larger group with similar "issues". That way they can justify their problems as actual problems. When the truth is, words are just words really. They only hold power if you allow them to. Being called so and so, really doesn't mean anything unless you think there's truth behind it. If someone really cares that a person calls them a derogatory name, that's just silly to me.
Jul 14 2017

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