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I finally asked the girl i liked out and the first thing she did was smile and blush. i asked soo?.... she said she would tell me after school. after 3 classes of waiting she told me she wanted an open relationship.
thing is, its very awkward now. it has been only a few days and whenever we see eachother in person, we don't talk much.
i wanted a full on relationship, but she might not. her friends told me that she really likes me but im not sure.
she said that "a lot of things are going on" in her life right now. she also has a reputation of being a little flirt. but not like a sl*t of anything.
what do i do? should i wait? ditch? or talk to her about it?

October 30, 2010

6 Comments • Newest first

SerenadeBass

What the hell is an open relationship?

Reply October 30, 2010
MSLovelyIdiot

And here I thought it was "every guys' dream" to have an open relationship .. I mean having the girl you like and at the same time not being tied ?

Anyway, you should talk with her. Communication is the number one key in every relationship.

Reply October 30, 2010
Valentino

[quote=ElitistMan]What kinda BS is that, that's basically her saying no. Find someone else dude.[/quote]

Naugh, what she's saying is:
"Your okay and all but if I find no one better soon I guess I'll settle for you."

Reply October 30, 2010
dappersnake

she likes someone else more than you and is keeping you on the line in case that other person doesn't work out

Reply October 30, 2010
Deciduous

well you could wait it out a little bit and see if she changes her mind. personally i'm not against open/casual relationships...but they usually end in one person getting the short end of the stick or being hurt.

so i'd just keep that in mind. :I

Reply October 30, 2010
TopMushroom

lulz, you have your first-date-heebie-jeebies

it'll go away after you chillax with each other more

Reply October 30, 2010