I'm hoping those 'Good' details, are perhaps good news.
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All the same, you did it. Holy hell you finally did it. Perhaps not quite the answer hoped but, find solace in the fact that you confessed something that was two years building- for you that's huge. A weight has been lifted, No more what if's. She gave you a way to move on, and she's going to college states away so there's no awkward tension. It's more a blessing than you know. It'll sting for a while but considering all the people you told, us included, you'll have a lot of people keeping you upright. Mourn her today, perhaps realize that you were both going two far different directions and just keep on keeping on. You did it, and hopefully it will be easier the next time. For now, you're in college, so long as you don't waste away on Basil you'll find someone. So, Onto the next girl.. May she be easier to confess to and more suited to you. It's been a good ride.
Hey thank you all for the kind words! I feel like my crush on her (I better start referring to her as A) has been a part, even if just a little part, of Basil's past year and a half or so. I like you guys.
Today was an emotional rollercoaster of course but it has ended on a pretty good note.
Details on the way!
EDIT: details arrived.
Alright, I just need to ask: if I edit a comment and tag someone, will they even get the notification for that?
@stoker I think I mentioned somewhere that I'm not gonna mention every detail that describes our conversing or interacting because it's already implied that we are comfortable with each other. We have known each other for 2 years, we're good friends, we've hung out multiple times.
Yes, I know the actual telling-her part was awkward, but yeah, it was my first time EVER attempting anything like that to a girl. And she knows it was awkward and so do I.
Yo man you did it. You displayed yourself to her at your most vulnerable and that takes some balls. Regardless of the outcome (which I think is pretty solid), you've come out a better and stronger man.
Well good to know there's a happy note to end off on much of this whole thing at least!...
Ah I'm getting nostalgic over two girls I once had a crushes on... only both ended depressingly. ... Sorry getting a little off topic. Regardless I'm sure this wouldn't be considered the "final" part this is in actuality the 2nd halve as I like the call it!
huh what a pleasant surprise. good job frad buddy even tho it didn't work out the way you wanted, i would hold up your attitude over this as an example to dudes everywhere who complain about "the friend zone" or whatever
Your dumb a. shouldn't have waited till she got in the car. You should have done it up close and personal in her face, and leaned in for a kiss after you said it. What kind of moron closes like that. She didn't friend zone you, you friend zoned yourself. Hmm she didn't know what to say..well obv because that's the point at which you kiss and remove all doubt. You two are close, that kiss would have been amazing, prob a lil awkward cause it's you but amazing nonetheless.
Look at these . on basil telling you, you did a good job. You didn't. Go see her again and kiss her before she leaves. Give her something to remember you by, something that she can go home and tell her female friends about. The signature move that takes you from being a boy to a man. I don't mean some mama peck, make her heart race.
When she went home, she prob texted her female besty and told her about what happened. How you didn't even try to close after making the moment awkward asf with your stalling. How despite her giving you ample chances to finish like a man, you finished like a b. 2 f years, you don't think you owed it to each other to see how a kiss would have felt? Even if you had to use some cliche bs line like, " maybe this will : f cliche lines. You should have just kissed her especially after she didn't know what to say.
You know, you may think I'm being an ah but I really wanted you to succeed or at least give it 100%. Words are just words, sometimes actions mean more. And the act of using words lol, is not what I mean. Wait, did she straight up tell you she didn't want to date right now? Cause I didn't see you say that in your post. I say ask her out again and kiss her, that's my old man advice. It may or may not work but you'll never know till you try.
I just read your last post. Cool guy at school, prob just wanted puh. You and her have a connection of being good friends. I wouldn't use that one way or the other, unless I heard from her specifically that she doesn't want to date at this time.