its not a love triangle
Long story short, I have a group of close knit friends A and me had a class together and we we're really close... she has a guy she's dealing with I think they're "boyfriend/girlfriend" but during our class she got really upset when I didn't give her the attention she wanted sort of. So along the deep conversation I said maybe we shouldn't be as clingy as we used to be cause we're really good friends. That was months ago and now it's second semester, she stopped talking to me as much with my other friends L and J. I do admit I give her more attention than my other friends because we are so alike, but she treats me worse now, she acts weird, and apparently she thinks I like her. I don't understand shes always uncomfortable talking about guys she like with me... and now my other friend verified they all think I like her. I just like flirting with her kinda because we're so close in our class and she's the one who said she likes being CLINGY. Instead of being bitter and giving all of them he silent treatment how do I come across as not interested without having a real talk conversation?
If I did like her I would tell her not to date the guy, but all i've been doing for months was encouraging her.. he makes me feel awkward though whenever they were together cause it seemed like I was thirdwheeling and he'd make random conversations with me. They are so naive like I do not like her! wthell why would I sacrifice my friendship over it.
SUMMARY FOR LAZY PEOPLE: My friend A thinks I like her but I don't and now they all treat me like crap.
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She's totes into you.
Plus you have bad friends.
If she's really you good friend, then she shouldn't treat you like that. Now take your time and think, if she's a good friend try to ask why and if she's a bad friend, just confront her " Hey A. I don't like you. Stop making assumption."
>long story short
More like
>long story less long
And idk.
Luckily, I've never found myself in this kind of situation.
@juliacat: teach me your ways
@Doutei: I was planning on saying I have a crush on a random girl... so they can all f off.
"Long story short" my ass
u gotz 2 drop dat drama ASAP
@demonstrate: that'd be another problem, 'crush' can be interpreted as a lie.
Unless you do tell em who the crush is, it could be anyone, including them = making it worst.
last option is abstinence.
[quote=Doutei]=-=;; this story sounds familiar...
just hook up with some next girl they don't know and that will solve most of your problems.
if they start talking trash afterwards... dump them for a new crew.[/quote]
I was thinking of telling them I have a crush.. so that implies I dont like any of THEM. Then we'll see if any of them gets jealous that I actually like someone for once. Once when I told A that I liked her old bestfriend (I really did) she seemed really bummed out and was like "wow I wish you told me" nothing happend between the girl i like because we stopped talking.
=-=;; this story sounds familiar...
just hook up with some next girl they don't know and that will solve most of your problems.
if they start talking trash afterwards... dump them for a new crew.