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you don't just say "hey, i need to get over this person" and expect it to happen. you either find someone else, or just move on when you do. there isn't any shortcut really.

[quote=KronosShift]Yo how is she affecting your grades? Do you just stare at her and not take notes? Explain better and we can find a solution.[/quote]

No I simply cant answer any questions since I literally think about her.

Since you're a Slinger and Black on your avatar....Pop a cap in her ass....j/k
OT: The only way to get over her is to associate her with something you dislike very much, as many people posted above me.

Yo how is she affecting your grades? Do you just stare at her and not take notes? Explain better and we can find a solution.

There was someone I had a crush on all throughout high school, and time is really what did it for me. When you spend less and less time with them, you eventually just lose those strong feelings. They're not completely gone, but it's much less than what it used to be.

Almost impossible, but all I did was think about their flaws then I automatically did not like them.
Per say, I did have a hate towards them, then again. I stopped because it was illogical and stupid.
So, for now. It's just neutral. I don't hate them, nor like them. They're just another person in this world.

EDIT: aw, shnitzels. Someone beat me too it. oh well.

EDIT 2: If it's hard to find a flaw in the girl, I'd say, this is nearly impossible dood. lol. Just saying. But the thing is you can motivate yourself by doing your best in what you do then you can score the girl too. amirite? lol.
If not, just look at your future. She might live with cats. who knows.

stop contact them, any kinds of communication.
keep yourself busy, work on your school things.
you need A LOT of effort to do this...
cuhs over time, u'll have nothing about them to think/long for,
if you dont talk, then you can't really think about what they say right....?
i tried it and it worked.
i liked this guy for four years, so finally i decided i need to let him go.
after months of ignoring him and such, i got over him, then i explained to him things i did.
he thought i was being mean but after hearing me out, he understood and so, we're still friends. no harm done (:

[quote=blazi4ever]I always think up of negative things about the previous guys that I liked...although you do have to be careful about it; especially if you are friends.

Nearly all of them involved themselves being liars. =/

Overall, I'm quite proud to say "Ew, I can't believe I liked that moron; what the hell was I thinking?" [/quote]

We are friends but to friendly.

I always think up of negative things about the previous guys that I liked...although you do have to be careful about it; especially if you are friends.

Nearly all of them involved themselves being liars. =/

Overall, I'm quite proud to say "Ew, I can't believe I liked that moron; what the hell was I thinking?"

...Develop your love for men.

[quote=Appi]Think of all her flaws, and all the times she was mean to you or something. Always think about those things and you'll grow to dislike her.[/quote]

Cant think of any. I know she has them everyone has flaws.

[quote=SavageSyn]Just confess to her. Atleast that'll be one thing off your chest. May not stop you from liking the person, but It'll help you not to think of that person all the time.[/quote]

she likes me to.

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@c0sa: I'm sorry that I would rather help humanity rather then my self first.

bang her? O.o
or ask her out

you stop liking everybody - thats how

[quote=akibari]Punching my self in the nuts seems a little to much.[/quote]
I think @SuckMyKiss was joking, but he has the right idea. It's called psychological conditioning, if you pair two events together you eventually start associating them with each other. Ivan Pavlov conducted an experiment in which he fed a dog food right after ringing a bell. After a while, he would just ring the bell and the dog would start salivating even without the food. That's all you need to do to yourself. Every time you think about her, do five push-ups.

Just think about all the unattractive things about them. Find things that make them unattractive.

Blocking ppl on facebook automatically does that.

Can't really stop your emotions, I'm still trying to get over a guy from over a year ago, didn't even get to date the guy.

You can't. A girl will cry for days when a guy breaks her heart and then she'll get over it. A guy won't usually cry at all, keep it bottled up, and it'll slowly tear their life apart. o.o

[quote=ucanshavebby]ive been having the same trouble myself.. and its not just " snap just like that" like someone else. i wish things were that easy! im with you on this =D[/quote]

I know right? Most people here think its just that easy to do it when its not.

ive been having the same trouble myself.. and its not just " snap just like that" like someone else. i wish things were that easy! im with you on this =D

[quote=Potato122]This.
Keep on doing that everytime you think about her. Eventually, you will begin to associate her with pain and stop liking her altogether.[/quote]

Punching my self in the nuts seems a little to much.

[quote=Icekids00]Cut yourself, it helps me [/quote]

Yes. This will work. ><

Find out how they truly are, if their not your type/ absolutely not your type, its easier to stop.
Tell them how you feel, this works 100%, after a long time it suddenly stops (works with "crushes&quot

[quote=DualBlades] No, are you trying to get laid by a girl who probably is a slut who goes of telling other guys besides her boyfriend she likes them?[/quote]

Interesting, you clearly don't seem to understand I don't want to do anything with this girl. I want to get her OUT of my mind not go INTO hers pants.

Also other people: I DON'T WANT TO LIKE ANYONE ELSE I JUST WANT TO STOP LIKING HER.

like some other girl, keep yourself occupied with someone else

[quote=Ninjenk]@akibari: You can learn how to. Try creating situations of control. Or ask her to help. Like ask her to ignore you when your doing your hw or something.[/quote]

I'm much smarter then her, and she actaully does not ignore me and I have asked.

Realize all the time you're wasting.

[quote=Ninjenk]Honestly, the effort it will take to get over her, is alot more than you just learning balance.[/quote]

But I can't at all. I can put my mind at one thing and one thing only. IDK why.

You gotta use rule ninety-five: concentrate.

[quote=DualBlades]Show her your tiny peanus[/quote]

Are you trying to "re"masculate your self for having a tiny "peanus"?

And to the person who said "find someone knew" I don't want to like anyone at all till after university.

[quote=JanTama]YO YO YO BOYEEE.

Hmm... I'd have to say it's that hardest to achieve. It can't be done, unless you force yourself.[/quote]

How do I force my self?

YO YO YO BOYEEE.

Hmm... I'd have to say it's that hardest to achieve. It can't be done, unless you force yourself.

[quote=kamichamak]Pursue your hobbies and keep your mind more on studies over her.[/quote]

Cant and I study like an 1/2 hour or an hour a day and before I didn't do that and my marks are STILL being destroyed by a stupid little crush.

What I mean by cant since she is in 3 of my classes out of four I only pay attention to her, and my forth class the guy who IS dating her only talks about her so that doesn't help either.

Do what I do every time.

Do nothing about it and avoid her for a while.

Then run in for the friend-zone.

Don't make it obvious that you are avoiding her, you can talk to them sometimes to make it seem normal.

My avatar is gangsta isn't he .

impossible

[quote=Iceheart1111]....damn your avatar is gangsta[/quote]

that's what I was thinking
LOL

[quote=Iblisa]Op can't multi task?[/quote]

To be honest not well at all..I can only think of one thing at a time and say I'm thinking about optics in science class, and since the lesson is ON optics I will do well.

My grades were usually 80%+ with science and math being 90%+ and now most of them are 60-70% including science T.T.

Start liking other person whom can give you a positive effect on your grade.

[quote=haydus]Occupy yourself with other things.[/quote]

Can't she apparently likes me also, and is dating a person so I don't want to start anything since this will cause me to stop thinking about my school work and ill probably think about the current situation.

Occupy yourself with other things.

the eternal quest bro. ive liked this girl since grade 7 (im in grade 11 now) and its so hard to stop

....damn your avatar is gangsta