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Does this girl like me?

I was wondering if this girl likes me, i've liked her for a bit and i'm debating on whether or not to ask her out, but as expected I have a unsound fear of rejection.
1) We talk a ton, over facebook alone we have 70k lines in between us. She starts the convo half the time
2) She kicks me quite a bit in public (which could be miscontrued for physical abuse, but its in a generally humorous manner)
3) If she's given the option to talk to her friends or talk to me (if i'm talking to her at the moment) she seems to choose to talk to me
4) she does say i'm cute, but honestly I can't tell if she's being sarcastic or not
5) she generally laughs at my jokes
However, a few things have thrown me off
1) she claims to have a "crush" (her definition of crush is a bit off, can't tell if its like a movie star crush) on some dude who goes to MIT, but when I ask her about him she refuses to give any names and says that all the guys who i've asked about are NOT him. I'm starting to think that she's lying about him because
1) she claims that he asked her out and she said yes: OVER FACEBOOK, a long distance relationship with a guy two years older than us (we're both juniors), and even more importantly over facebook? (Just had to reiterate that).
2) a week later when I bring it up she says that he conveniently hooked up with some other college girl

Probably half the responses in this thread will be some variation of "Gurlz JAJAJAJA Cooties", but I mostly made this as a way to get my thoughts out.
#trollshieldon

January 27, 2013

8 Comments • Newest first

iOooh

@icemage11 mkay i'll do it in a few weeks then. thread closed

Reply January 28, 2013
icemage11

Tell her you like her and ask her out At least you won't have to spend your energy wondering if she likes you.

Reply January 27, 2013
Amuro

[quote=AngelixNeo]Hmm you can try asking her out, but things can start to change right after like it might change the type of relationship you have with her[/quote]
It will be awkward if he's stubborn about it and doesn't drop it. Say he gets rejected. If he pretends it never happened and doesn't bring it up again, she will almost certainly do the same. Good friendships don't crumble that easily.

Reply January 27, 2013
Barquifa

agree with @amuro just tell her you like her, you got nothing to lose

Reply January 27, 2013
Amuro

[quote=iOooh]@Amuro I stated in the first line that I'm still not too sure.[/quote]
And I'm telling you to just do it. If she likes you romantically, you win. If she doesn't like you romantically, but she is your friend, there is no risk. A simple question like that isn't going to ruin everything.

Reply January 27, 2013
iOooh

@Cbass50 I have the ACT / Our final Swimming Conference in the upcoming two weeks, so I'll do it after wards
@Amuro I stated in the first line that I'm still not too sure.

Reply January 27, 2013
iFightWars

#trollshield swag

Reply January 27, 2013
Amuro

Why don't you just ask her out (in person) and see how she responds...?

Reply January 27, 2013