Please help me with this girl
Hi, Here is the story between me and this girl:
We knew each other since last year, and at the beginning I wanted to befriend with her; thus I added her on facebook but all I did was talking pointlessly such as"Hey, how are you doing today?""What did you feel about the exam?" or stuff like that, because I never had the guts to talk to her in person.
So one year past by, now the new school year began, I still could not manage to walk up and talk to her when I see her either in the hallway or inside the gym.
A few days ago, I had a dream in which I sincerely apologized to her for being timid and weird, and we started our relationship. The morning I woke up I started crying... my eyes are also wet now..
Please help me, I want this girl so bad that I listen to my heart will go on everyday to get myself motivated to succeed and be with her.
Thank you!
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Aw, that seems sweet... Well it's simple really, talk to her! Fear is simply your mind's defense mechanism to protect yourself from failure. Knowing this, think about it; the worse possible thing she could do is say no, right? She's not going to scream in disgust, swell up, and explode, will she? Relax, listen to some smooth jazz, brew up some herbal tea, close your eyes, sleep, wake up, ask her out, and live your life without the fear of failure XD. Don't carry the weight of regret or have your mind swollen with thoughts like "What if I had done this differently...?" You'll probably never know if she likes you if you don't ask, right?
Just casually talk to her in school, not on the internet, and work from there..?
If it's that difficult for you ask those simple questions you do on FB in school, like "How was your day", "What are your plans this weekend", etc. Give it a few days a week max and this stuff will come flying out of your mouth with no hesitation. It will get easier the moment you first try.
[quote=NinjaFridge]Maybe hes a very passionate person, have you ever seen/read Romeo and Juliet?[/quote]
Exactly my point.
They were very passionate, yes.
But not very rational of the mind.
[quote=NinjaFridge]Maybe hes a very passionate person, have you ever seen/read Romeo and Juliet?[/quote]
Whut? R&J shows it's not healthy either. I mean, it's a tragedy. wtf
First, Calm down.... Honestly. Second, Get out there and talk to her. You gotta have confidence in yourself man. Crying in your bed isn't Getting you anywhere.
First, get help.
Really, wanting someone that badly isn't healthy.
You
her
bed
3 simple words used in conjunction with each other, fool proof and it works all the time.
OT: You're not gonna get a serious answer from us as you can clearly see from the first Post and my post. Good luck though, Hope you get what you want.
LOOL how can we even help u o.o
Basil can't help you growing your balls.