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This girl and I have became friends with benefits

So basically, there's this female friend who has a crush on me. I have a little bit of feelings for her as well. Well, today I told her that I don't like dating, and she was like, "Yeah, me too! Being single FTW." Then we both talked and then agreed that we would just stay as friends with benefits.

Now the thing is, everyone thinks that we should date, but I don't want to date, and I look at this as an alternative. So, do you think this was a good idea? Still friends, with just the fun of a couple?

This is my thread of the day.

November 2, 2010

20 Comments • Newest first

AranKOC

It should work out as long as you don't get jealous easily.

Reply November 4, 2010
FrostyGun

Friends with benefits...Lmao

Reply November 4, 2010
WasabiAkira

[quote=FD17]can some1 just gimmie a clear answer already? perks? like stopping power, commando?[/quote]

penor in vee jay jay, mouth to mouth, mouth to penor, penor to booty, and all the such

Reply November 4, 2010
DexLesFoo

Im so jealous (no lie)

Reply November 3, 2010
aethynyc

Friends with the fun of a couple?
Having sex =/= fun of a couple

To me, a couple is two people who love each other and are each other's partners.
In your case... it's just plain sex.

Well you can try dating though, but if you absolutely want to stay away from drama and relationships (what's there to lose though?) then stay single and take advantage.
Eventually if both of you develop feelings for each other, you can always start dating each other.

P.S: Please have safe sex even if she says no condom (or you). You guys don't want a sudden child right...

Reply November 3, 2010 - edited
Lasorbeams

If you don't like dating then stay friends.

[i]Now wait for a hot chick to come by~[/i] Jks

But seriously i don't think asking basil will help problems. I make my own advice~

Reply November 2, 2010 - edited
gotshroomz510

I actually think this is fine. You to both agree on it, you can play the field and don't feel like dating. Just try to hit it.

Reply November 2, 2010 - edited
infiniteIQx

[quote=whocares666]i don't think so. more like imaginary friends with benefits. enjoy your right hand.[/quote]

I love your BasilID. I also love this post.

Reply November 2, 2010 - edited
iElite

You have won the battle and will probably lose the war.
Its good and dandy now but if one of you guys starts liking someone else, things will get complicated and someone will be screwed over because one of you is sure to become really infatuated with each other.

Reply November 2, 2010 - edited
dimo

Open relationships, while being fun, hardly ever because people get into them without realising what is actually involved. Most people are jealous by nature and this will be the downfall of an open relationship.

Reply November 2, 2010 - edited
SilverStrato

Lul I knew you'd make a thread about this.

HAVE FUN WHILE IT LASTS.
>>FUN

>>FUN

>SEXFUN.

Reply November 2, 2010 - edited
xNightAngelx13

My ex asked me if he wanted to be friends with benefits
and i almost back handed him.
for me its either be a couple or just friends.

Reply November 2, 2010 - edited
one23abc

[quote=OnceFrozen]To all those who don't know what "friends with benefits" is:
"Friends with benefits" is intercourse without being in a serious relationship.[/quote]

sounds like my kind of relationship

Reply November 2, 2010 - edited
Dusekkar

[quote=NapalmDe4th]It's Basilmarket, populated by Middle and High School kids. Do you really think "benefits"="sexual intercourse"? lulz.[/quote]
This being basil, yes.

Reply November 2, 2010 - edited
NoobCake

[quote=tuffghost]so when do the benefits start.[/quote]

She said today, when I got home...
So I think it truly starts tomorrow.

Reply November 2, 2010 - edited
tuffghost

so when do the benefits start.

Reply November 2, 2010 - edited
Aryls

Perfectly acceptable!
However, it WILL get complicated.. so be prepared.

Reply November 2, 2010 - edited
iNotNewbie

Friends With Benefits = Amazing. Trust me.

Reply November 2, 2010 - edited