Dammit I effed up on a girl
So today is valentines day, I wanted to get this girl a rose or a teddy bear. But I was stupid enough not to prepare before hand and so I couldn't buy her one . Anyway, today in Math class she was sitting behind me on the left side, and she was repetitively saying 'Come sit next to me ' although I'm not sure if it's in self pity because I always sit by myself in a corner of a room. I also writ on my desk (My name + her name) but then I crossed it out encase someone saw it, and as the lesson ended and I was packing my bag she stops and inspects me desk and at this rate I'm like, oh no... -Quickly walks off- and so yeah. It was valentines day and I effed up == Don't do the same mistake I did, and fess up to your crush, I'm also in my final year of high school So we won't have another valentines together.
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[quote=Candiia]I dont see where you screwed up. Honestly, if someone wrote that they love me on their desk, it would be like the sweetest thing ever! How can you be so sure that she didn't like it? o:[/quote]
Like I said, I crossed out both of our names . She she'd probably find it hard to make out the words.
I dont see where you screwed up. Honestly, if someone wrote that they love me on their desk, it would be like the sweetest thing ever! How can you be so sure that she didn't like it? o:
@Dorks Well, I have to get around to it on the weekend . Sadly I already wallowed into depression
@killercool9 Haha true, but I want to do this now because I don't have them on facebook or anything :l
@NonSonoFronz What? I don't speak stupid.. sorry
OP confirmed for massive beta.
[quote=doodorz]stop being such a puss and just ask her out or something[/quote]
Easier said than done, I'll put money down that you've done something similar in his situation.
OT: @Zentai Though it's cliche, it's only High school bruh. Relationships that are taken from High School to College are a joke 90% of the time anyway. It's your senior year man, go nuts! Ask out 5 different girls, go to school sports games, eat fast food on friday with your friends and play terrible video games while drunk!
You better get her 2 yellow roses tomorrow. Yeah it's after Valentine's but since you planned to apologize to her today but couldn't do it without the rose, then you better make up for it quick before you wallow into depression or something.
[quote=zentai]I was bored or in love I guess, yeah I know I'm sounding like a absolute re+@ard right now. Can't find right words so yeah...[/quote]
Do you like her? Do you want her to be ur gf? If not,then you can just say sorry to her on what you did to her 5 yrs ago. A simple sorry can go a long way.
[quote=demonko33]That wasnt what you wrote on top.
why are you writing your name+her name on desk?Also,you mention dont make the same mistake that i did and confess to your love.[/quote]
I was bored or in love I guess, yeah I know I'm sounding like a absolute re+@ard right now. Can't find right words so yeah...
[quote=zentai]Ok, you guys got a bit misleaded. I'm not confessing my love for her, today's was valentines day I was meant to get a yellow rose as an apology for something I did 5 years a go when we met online but never saw each other in real life until now.[/quote]That wasnt what you wrote on top. >.<
why are you writing your name+her name on desk?Also,you mention dont make the same mistake that i did and confess to your love.
[quote=demonko33]Valentine Day is not the only day you can confess to a girl about your love for her.
You just got to build them confident by saying to yourself that you can do it.[/quote]
Ok, you guys got a bit misleaded. I'm not confessing my love for her, today's was valentines day I was meant to get a yellow rose as an apology for something I did 5 years a go when we met online but never saw each other in real life until now.
Valentine Day is not the only day you can confess to a girl about your love for her.
You just got to build them confident by saying to yourself that you can do it.
[quote=xoqtprincessxo]So more importantly, why you so down on yourself mate?[/quote]
Well, I'm pretty skinny , I'm not smart, I don't play any sports or instruments
She is smart and fit, play's tennis and violin.
And there's like better looking , smarter , stronger guys who are asian in the school in my grade that are still single.
@Wolfz end result? :o
[quote=zentai]Yeah well, I don't care what everyone else says because they are right , she deserves better then me in all honesty. I'm not quiet sure if she even has a bf because if she does then I'll just feel plain terrible but some what happy because knowing shes in better hands.
@LibTech ok... more like 120 cm ruler's length.[/quote]
Before you love someone you have to learn to love yourself.
So more importantly, why you so down on yourself mate?
[quote=RiverStar]Although not everyone is saying nice things about you, they're kind of right. You need to man up
And don't think just because there won't be another Valentine's day for you to spend with her means you will never have to chance to do something that makes her feels special. If she likes surprises, do something special for her when she leasts expects it. Like everyone else has probably done something cute for their bf/gf at school today, but you could do something cute tomorrow or maybe even next week. You'll stand out and she'll feel extra special Unless she doesn't like you, then that's just awkward. But she seems to (or at least wants to be your friend) since she's asked you to sit next to her.[/quote]
Yeah well, I don't care what everyone else says because they are right , she deserves better then me in all honesty. I'm not quiet sure if she even has a bf because if she does then I'll just feel plain terrible but some what happy because knowing shes in better hands.
@LibTech ok... more like 120 cm ruler's length.
Although not everyone is saying nice things about you, they're kind of right. You need to man up
And don't think just because there won't be another Valentine's day for you to spend with her means you will never have to chance to do something that makes her feels special. If she likes surprises, do something special for her when she leasts expects it. Like everyone else has probably done something cute for their bf/gf at school today, but you could do something cute tomorrow or maybe even next week. You'll stand out and she'll feel extra special Unless she doesn't like you, then that's just awkward. But she seems to (or at least wants to be your friend) since she's asked you to sit next to her.
[quote=Wolfz]I myself am set I already ordered a rose, I wrote her a poem, and she already agreed to go out with me this friday[/quote]
Dam good work, wish I had as much courage as you
[quote=YouAzle]lmao how old r u 11?
"she stops and inspects me desk" who the hell writes your name + ur crushes name anymore...[/quote]
I know, I'm immature
lmao how old r u 11?
"she stops and inspects me desk" who the hell writes your name + ur crushes name anymore...
[quote=foomps]protip: next time she asks you to sit beside her, do it. Need help starting a convo? Ask for a pencil then talk about something. As soon as you two start talking she will continue the convo n bring up new topics to talk about (trust me girls like to talk, only time they dont want to talk is if they dont like you). Somewhere along the convo ask if she wants to grab a latte/frap/coffee with you at starbuck/tim horton/whatever coffee shop thats near. BAM i just got u a date[/quote]
haha you sound like such a pro , but there's like a 35 cm gap so I don't really know if she'll continue the convo. How ever asking for a pen is a good idea and Yes i'll sit next to her the next time she asks.
stfu
[quote=metaghost4]Today is valentine's day? I thought it was on the 14th...[/quote]
I'm Australian mate, it's 14th here today
dude. You still have the chance, even though you missed her today, go ask her out tomorrow; if you wait too long, she'll be out of your grasp and just do it; you only have so much time; you might never see her again so take the chance while u have it okay?
[quote=WorkOfArt]What kind of senior in high school writes (me + her) on a desk? Stop doing that, there's no reason to and there's absolutely no benefit to it whatsoever, and there's nothing you can write on a desk that you can't write on a piece of paper.[/quote]
a stupid senior that's besides the point though, I like her now or so I think.
@foomps Well, I am socially re+@arted. I can't start a conversation with someone unless it's face to face and they start it first.
[quote=zentai]woah.... that's a true point. But I mainly wanted to get her a yellow rose to say 'I'm sorry' about something 5 years a go when we met online.[/quote]
That's cool, but you should just talk to her. Less money and embarrassing moments to go through.
why do people wait until valentines day to profess their love?
What kind of senior in high school writes (me + her) on a desk? Stop doing that, there's no reason to and there's absolutely no benefit to it whatsoever, and there's nothing you can write on a desk that you can't write on a piece of paper.
[quote=manchester8]Hey if she wanted to be you're Valentines she would have BOUGHT a gift for you instead.[/quote]
woah.... that's a true point. But I mainly wanted to get her a yellow rose to say 'I'm sorry' about something 5 years a go when we met online.
Hey if she wanted to be you're Valentines she would have BOUGHT a gift for you instead.
[quote=Patole]What was her reaction? How sure are you that you effed up? She might of liked what youw rote on your desk.[/quote]
I think she had a blank reaction, because I like fully crossed out her name so she couldn't read it.
@doodorz I'm a wuss I have low self esteem, also pretty stupid and skinny for an asian
I sorta feel you i mean its Valentine days i guess (12:30 AM) and i realized i shouldve bought a rose and teddy bear a head of time