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luckysausage Level 118 Windia Night Lord See what games, anime & art luckysausage is intoluckysausage
So I am a rising freshman and right now I live near college. When I see the college guys that hang around nearby I just keep thinking "jeez am I going to stand a chance" lol.

Long story short, towards the end of my HS it was obvious that this girl really liked me but we've never talked before. I found her pretty attractive but there were no classes or anything in common with us. I should've probably just walked up to her ahh. But at least I am more open now.

So how is college dating different from high school? Does it happen more in classes or outside? ---Besides money---
Posted: August 2017 Permalink

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tiesandbowties Level 50 Broa Assassin
ever since sophomore year of high school i kinda just assumed everyone is f'ing because i guess its kinda true? if ur a desirable dude, a girls wanna get inside your pants and viceversa so people are always gonna be having sex

so get laid in college cuz thats prob the best place to get laid lol. in real life (post-college), getting laid definitely requires wayyyy more effort cuz people are older and expect more.
Aug 12 2017
upcomingnerd Level 102 Scania Beast Tamer Shared
@tiesandbowties: I don't think that's true man, I'll be 31 this year and people are still people. Sex is still sex. The effort is about the same. Relationships though, definitely different if I date within my age group of what is expected.

Don't worry so much about looks man, be the guy that makes her laugh, touches her heart, listens. Women are more about emotion than men are, use that to your benefit. Thank that good looking jock, who sleeps with her and then never calls her back. That life lesson, is a plus to you. It makes them realize that looks are only skin deep. lol When you do it too, as that kind hearted guy she thought you were then you scar her.

I found the best place to meet girls is in the commons, not the library. As people there actually want to study, whereas the common area you can go to "study" but actually use it as a means to meet new people. Once a week, sit next to a random girl you find cute and introduce yourself. I really enjoyed college but life post college is about the same as far as meeting women.
Aug 12 2017
tiesandbowties Level 50 Broa Assassin
nahh its way easier to bang a 8+ in college because well its college, you don't need to dress up or take them out to a nice dinner beforehand just shoot them a couple squirt emojis and show up at their dorm. post-college, if you wanna bang at least an 8 thats not gonna fly, it's gonna take some effort because well, they're a lot more self-aware of what they can get out of a dude. i mean, if you're not picky about who you're banging, then yeah, college and post-college is prob the same but who's actively tryna bang below average girls? lol
Aug 12 2017
upcomingnerd Level 102 Scania Beast Tamer Shared
@tiesandbowties: lol Sounds more like a doormat than a male but I see what you're saying.
Aug 12 2017
tiesandbowties Level 50 Broa Assassin
gotta accept and power through being a good doormat for the quality girls- the possible future wifey. at the very least, you're having a pretty good one night stand with a hot girl and a decent dinner. worked for me all these years
Aug 12 2017
upcomingnerd Level 102 Scania Beast Tamer Shared
@tiesandbowties: Was never my style, prefer to be dominant on a date. Make her laugh or what not, but not taking any crap.

Days of wanting a wifey are over for me. Being free is something I'm no longer willing to give up. Dating is as far as I'll go.
Aug 12 2017
In high school, people gossip about who is with who all the time. (Or at least that was my experience, although it'd be weird to hear about a high school that wasn't like this.) In college, people don't really do that unless it's with friends or others you know well of that sort - the social circles are smaller. So a lot of that kind of stuff isn't really anybody else's business.

In college, the pool of potential mates is much greater than in high school.

Also, you have more freedoms in college, while in high school there are the nosy parents, who may be more controlling of your business depending on who they are, and maybe some other complicating factors to go along with that.
Aug 13 2017

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