Love problems part 2
today the girl invited me for dinner so i kindly did, during dinner she keeps holding my hand and try to cuddle me. i felt weird and try to push her away but she hold on tight. after dinner we head to her bedroom to talk about what colleges we're going in. i told her i'm not sure. she told me we should go to the same college and major the same thing. in my head "that sounds a bad idea" before i get to say anything to her, she put her head on my lap and saying i want to be with you forever. i blush a bit since this is the first time happen to me but i didn't feel any love emotion, we stay quite for 10 mins till she feel asleep on my lap all i said in my mind "i'm not ready yet" over and over, later on i put her on bed and said goodbye and went home. like 5 mins ago while i was studying i got a text message from her saying happy early b-day, i smile a bit and reply "thank you". ever since dinner with her, my mind is telling me to date her but my heart says don't.
sorry for the great wall of text just need some help now. i'm to confuse now
4 Comments • Newest first
[quote=5hezam][i]Use her.[/i][/quote]
why i want to do that?
Even though if your heart says no, you might as well give her a chance if I were you. People tend to express themselves in time so maybe shes over reacting and being really obsessive with you but who knows it might get better farther down in the relationship. Just what I think.
If you're not interested, then don't. I'm not really seeing the difficulty here.
spend time with her more. if you don't like her, don't date her