Race and Relationships
Are people here racial locked to marry/date their own race? I feel that being Indian gives me a less chance to date Asian girls (type of girls I like)
August 13, 2012
Race and Relationships
Are people here racial locked to marry/date their own race? I feel that being Indian gives me a less chance to date Asian girls (type of girls I like)
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[quote=ImWada]Anyone who picks their girlfriend/boyfriend based on their race doesn't deserve to have one[/quote]
I hope this isnt a hate against me
@MrsYing: LOL. I hope thats me in the future and i hope your dentist is hot
im asian and i like to date other asian girls instead of viets i more interested in Korean, filipino and japanese girls but depends on her skin color if its light or average sure..
Im single....
[quote=cool123ter]Are people here racial locked to marry/date their own race? I feel that being Indian gives me a less chance to date Asian girls (type of girls I like)[/quote]
Omg, my dentist is Asian and her husband is Indian. Their children are beautiful!
@TroiSky: ye but she hates me and some others for making fun of her.
@cool123ter: o-o I was friends with her before she even knew, good friends too ~
@TroiSky: ye but i still didnt know you were gey. Thats why denise likes you more then the rest of us @KuroAnman
@cool123ter: LOL, there shouldn't be any .. "requirements" to be friends with a certain person
[quote=TroiSky]Well... I'm gay, so whatever I do, my parents will disapprove
(still closetted)
I wish you luck finding an Asian girl ! [/quote]
LOL? No wonder you are friends with denise.
My parents honestly don't care about race. I personally don't care either, I'm 100% Chinese and I think having a mixed kids in this family would be nice. Still can't go wrong with Asians, from what I see, alot of the Asian guys are pretty damn attractive.
Problem is, my city is pretty much filled with Asians, mostly Chinese soo... :I
Well... I'm gay, so whatever I do, my parents will disapprove
(still closetted)
I wish you luck finding an Asian girl !
I have 3 brothers and 2 sisters. Two of my brothers who are married have married blonde girls. My sisters are blonde. My mom is blonde. I like Asians. I will have a fun time when I'm married, but my family is full of love, I think it will just be interesting and not bad.
This is kind of off to the side...I don't know where some of you Indian guys live, but there's plenty of attractive Indian girls around....
@cool123ter: Well, the girl I have a crush on right now didn't even know me but I still went up to her and talked to her. Confidence really does make a difference, become friends with her for like a week and ask her to the movies or something. If you were to stay friends with her for too long you'd possibly be "friendzoned". I'd ask her before junior ball since she'd feel comfortable with you rather than asking out of the blue. I'm planning on asking the girl I have a crush on to prom so yeah, just the best thing you could do is ask her out, if she says no move on to someone else and she'll definately pay attention to you, as in saying hey and stuff which would be the perfect chance to ask her to the ball. Tbh, race doesn't matter, I'm also Indian and personality seems to matter more to girls than race. So, as long as you're not some moron that acts like you're the best person on this planet you have a chance.
I don't feel restricted from dating others girls that aren't Asian (which is my ethnicity.) Mine is just preferences based on personality and looks, etc. etc.
[quote=thailla]I don't really care about race, every one has its pros~ [/quote]
what are indians <3
I don't really care about race, every one has its pros~
There are ugly and attractive individuals in every race/ethnicity. Try to be one of the attractive ones and race won't matter for most people.
I'm Indian. I don't like Indian chicks, mainly because I never saw any attractive ones during my childhood and adolescence. I dated an Asian chick for six months in high school, and I've dated my current (white) girlfriend for five years now.
I'm White, and I know my parents don't care too much about what race I date as long as I'm dating a decent woman.
But I know for a fact my Dad would be pissed if he had mulatto grandchildren. So that kind of narrows my options.
@cool123ter: Haha. That is kind of why I said "Most likely." I still eat Indian food and stuff though. I've only seen one attractive Indian girl.
[quote=RajaAKshay]I am Indian too, but I prefer not to date an Indian girl. I've already announced to my parents that I would most likely not end up marrying an Indian girl. They seemed pretty okay with the idea. ( I am basically 110% white washed.) Quite honestly, I'm attracted to all races except my own. It feels kind of awkward...[/quote]
Yup i agree, but hey if i do find an indian im attracted to who knows. Im so white washed hate eating any indian food but chikka tikka masala, every time we go out for indian dinner its always CTM.
yeah
just because i'm white and i feel like asian guys aren't as accessible
i generally prefer non-white but i've never been picky.
I'm asian but I'm only attracted to guys similar to my race.
@Ftart: No i mean whatever im attracted to animals <3 <3 <3
I am Indian too, but I prefer not to date an Indian girl. I've already announced to my parents that I would most likely not end up marrying an Indian girl. They seemed pretty okay with the idea. ( I am basically 110% white washed.) Quite honestly, I'm attracted to all races except my own. It feels kind of awkward...
[quote=Yoshi7o7]No offense taken. Well, like I said just give it a few shots, you'll get the gist of it. If you're really shy about asking someone out, it's perfectly normal, try being friends with them first, then progress from there on your on accord.
That's a great time to ask someone out, but don't wimp out on the idea 'til the last few days. Then you'll find that most girls are taken, specially the one you wanted.[/equote]
Ye hopefully I start talking to girls more often and man up during junior ball. Your words definately made me more confident but I want to know if more asians HAVE dated an Indian
My mom's side of the family is very open while my dad's side isn't.
I just happen to be on the open side of the family so technically, I'd date any non-Asian or Asian (though there are preferences, I'm still all up for any race) men since I don't happen to be stubborn that way. Of course they have to fall under the general requirements (E.g. Faithful, trusting, not be an ass...etc), there are some other person-specific requirements as well.
Yeah, I'd only date Asian guys. Even better if they're the same nationality as me.
There are certain races that I'm just naturally not attracted to, but I never limited myself to just Asians.
Where I come from, if you marry a black person it's considered [b]REALLY[/b] bad. Parents also will flip out if a person brings a black bf or gf into their household.
Then again 80% of the world thinks like this so w/e. ;p
Edit: I date would date w/e race is thrown at me, if I could find a gf lool.
I thought indian people are asian unless you mean Native Americans
@cooler123ter omg Im also indian and I also wanna marry a asian my parents Dont mind xD So its all good
I'm mixed.
Mom wants me to date black women.
I honestly don't really care.
I'm italian and I find asian girls attractive.
It's kind of hard for me to stay within my ethnic background because I'm Mexican, Italian, and Native American. My mom doesn't care who I date unless of course he's a thug, jerk, or something else bad. I find a lot of Asian guys [b][i]insanely[/b][/i] attractive (especially the nerdy, nice ones), but a lot I know (and have crushed on) only have serious relationships with Asian girls and talk about how they have to marry an Asian girl.
Maybe I'm just too ugly for them (I think I am). </3
[quote=cool123ter]NA its not parents it's confidence. Although I'm sorta locked from one race which you should know. At the same time I want to see a hot Asian girl dating an Indian. I'm completely not dissing you or your GF Sorry [/quote]
No offense taken. Well, like I said just give it a few shots, you'll get the gist of it. If you're really shy about asking someone out, it's perfectly normal, try being friends with them first, then progress from there on your on accord.
[quote=cool123ter] Ye I agree. But hearing some words doesn't make me confident proof does. E end though I wont man up and ask someone this yea, next year at.junior ball would be good?[/quote]
That's a great time to ask someone out, but don't wimp out on the idea 'til the last few days. Then you'll find that most girls are taken, specially the one you wanted.
You are free to date whatever race you like. Give your parents the finger and be done with it
[quote=ninjasmasher]Well, it depends on what you think is hot. If I had any pictures of me and my ex I'd show you them but I never was one to take pictures. I gotta say though, if you have to confidence and the right words, any girl would go out with you no matter what race you are.[/quote]
Ye I agree. But hearing some words doesn't make me confident proof does. E end though I wont man up and ask someone this yea, next year at.junior ball would be good?
Filipina,Jamaican,Latina,Italian,German.
Anything up above is my selection.
Any girl is beautiful other than race though, just more attracted to this circle lmfao!
[quote=cool123ter]NA its not parents it's confidence. Although I'm sorta locked from one race which you should know. At the same time I want to see a hot Asian girl dating an Indian. I'm completely not dissing you or your GF Sorry [/quote]
Well, it depends on what you think is hot. If I had any pictures of me and my ex I'd show you them but I never was one to take pictures. I gotta say though, if you have to confidence and the right words, any girl would go out with you no matter what race you are.
My parents want me to date a Chinese guy or be shun forever .
I find white and asian guys attractive, but I barely find any guys close to my ethnic background attractive.
[quote=Yoshi7o7]I'm Indian and I've been going out with my girlfriend who's Vietnamese for just over 4 years now. If it's a problem with you not having the guts to ask them out then just give it a go a few times you'll get more and more confident each time around. It's not as hard as you think it is. Although, if you mean the whole "parents want you to marry an Indian girl" thing.....o.o.....Idk,that's a hard thing to convince them out of. I ;___;[/quote]
NA its not parents it's confidence. Although I'm sorta locked from one race which you should know. At the same time I want to see a hot Asian girl dating an Indian. I'm completely not dissing you or your GF Sorry
I dated an Vietnamese girl before and a Korean. Im 50% Hispanic and Hawaiian. My parents always tell me "marry a hawaiian girl or mexican".
[quote=cool123ter]Who is zayn Malik? And I'm sure I would but at the mall its always the white Bois that get all the Asian chicka[/quote]
He's in some boy band. I find that the "white bois" have more confidence and go for the girls much easier.. I suppose it could just be my point of view though. Everyone has their own type.. I'm sure there's Asian girls that have a thing for Indians .
I'm Dominican and for a while I've only like girls that are Hispanic, but now I don't care about race as long as I'm attracted to the girl.
[quote=cool123ter]Are people here racial locked to marry/date their own race? I feel that being Indian gives me a less chance to date Asian girls (type of girls I like)[/quote]
I'm Indian and I've been going out with my girlfriend who's Vietnamese for just over 4 years now. If it's a problem with you not having the guts to ask them out then just give it a go a few times you'll get more and more confident each time around. It's not as hard as you think it is. Although, if you mean the whole "parents want you to marry an Indian girl" thing.....o.o.....Idk,that's a hard thing to convince them out of. I ;___;
[quote=ChannelOrange]Have you ever considered that maybe you're not attractive...[/quote]
I don't think you have seen other people. I mean moat of my college+ cousins are all single...
@zoneflare2: we're bickering at each other for what to do next year for summer vacation. :v
OT: What I tend to notice is some parents have quite a bit of resentment at their kids from dating other ethnic groups..
[quote=Distinctive]Yeah.. that's the thing. I'm "yellow" and I grew up around "yellow" people. If I were to "check someone out" usually they're the same race. But think about it , TONS of aisan girls like Zayn Malik... & he's not Asian. Sometimes it's just about looks and personality ? Sounds so cliche.. </3 There are a lot of Indian/Chinese children these days any ways. I'm sure you have a chance.[/quote]
Zayn has Pakistan blood. Edit, but then again, that makes him "Southeast Asian."
Man, I dunno.
OT: There are a couple of Indians in my school that are totally attractive. They look like super models. But then again, they're like mixed with white or something. But they have the dark skin, o course.