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How to get closer to a girl I like

I know this is pretty sad asking this on Basilmarket,
but here's how it went down:

Last summer, I asked a girl out.
I'm a Senior, Asian.
She's a Junior, Caucasian.

She said yes AND no.
When I asked she replied that she didn't want a relationship during the summer,
but she's okay with being with me during the school year.

I only have classes after lunch (a whole poopload of spares)
She likes locking arms with me and holding my hands/sitting together in the library.
She likes the things I like.

However, I don't have the balls to ask her out again, because I have no clue what to do.
I live in a pretty small town (I think the population is like 5k)
and I don't know what I'm supposed to do after I get in a relationship.
She didn't friendzone me, and neither have I, but sometimes it's really hard to start a conversation.

Is there anything I can do to get closer to her?

All I did with her so far besides school was:
Chill at library together.
Meet up at the carnival, that comes once a year.
Bought her a hamburger, because lolz.

Oh and she said she wants to be my grad escort, so I'm pretty sure she doesn't hate me.

Some info that might be useful:
1) I live right next to the school, in a hotel suite, because I'm that guy.
2) parents aren't against it, but I have a feeling they're gonna interrupt every moment.
3) Potatoes.

September 22, 2012

9 Comments • Newest first

Oyster

o.o You says, "she likes locking arms with me and holding my hands/sitting together in the library"...but you are too scared to ask her out again, as far as I'm concerned, you don't lock arms/hold hands with someone you [b]don't[/b] like, by doing so, doesn't that already [i]implies[/i] that you two are already dating?
Just ask her out again, lol..and if she says no- then ask her why she holds your hand like that, she's falsely leading you on o.o

Reply September 22, 2012
FriedSnake

f- that
she's a witch
Devour her soul and become a death scythe
and join the death scythe club

Bros be4 hoes

Reply September 22, 2012
Dorks

I feel like you're only setting yourself up for disaster. What about when you graduate? Do you plan on continuing that relationship? Are you going to let her indirectly stop you from achieving better things in the future?

Reply September 22, 2012
FirezRage

lol if she likes what u like then how can it be hard starting a conversation? just talk about the things u like.

ur still young and shes still a junior so dont look too deeply into it jst try relax and be honest and talk to her with things u have in common like i said. and yes it is pretty sad askin this on basil considerin how many stupid comments have already been posted which are completely irrelevant to the topic at hand but thats what u have to expect

Reply September 22, 2012
HouseRedoran

edit: Help her get wet

Reply September 22, 2012 - edited
Omegathorion

Potatoes?

Buy her a potato.

Reply September 22, 2012 - edited
Laker1294

Hmm try getting to know her better talk/spend to her more but don't be clingy.

Reply September 22, 2012 - edited
xNightAngelx13

Well just be like "remember that question I asked you during the summer? Well can I ask you that again? " and if she says "Whst was the question?" Be all romantic and deep because btchs love romantic and deep guys.

Reply September 22, 2012 - edited
HabibShu

sniff her

Reply September 22, 2012 - edited