Thoughts on pre-marital consummation
Hey guys, just wondering your thoughts on pre-marital intercourse (that's what consummation means); personally I think that it's definitely up to the couple (i.e. if both the guy and the girl agree on pre-marital intercourse that's totally cool, and if they agree on consummating after marriage that's cool too) - I mean there shouldn't be any pressure involved - if you don't respect your other half's wishes, then maybe you two aren't meant for each other, we all have to make compromises right?
(if your opinion doesn't fit in poll leave a comment, this topic makes me curious) thanks!
December 14, 2012
9 Comments • Newest first
Completely up to the couple. I myself know I wouldn't have the self-restraint to wait until after marrying someone.
Nor would I want to, since I would want to know for sure whether me and my potential mate have sexual compatibility before getting married to them.
If we don't then it wouldn't be something I would break up with them over, but I'd just want to work it out with them... since having sex with them would be the only sex I'd be getting for potentially the rest of my life, I would at least want to know what it's going to be like.
There is no logical or rational reason to wait until marriage to have sex unless you're religious or have outdated beliefs.
@spring786 You realize that statistically speaking you have a 50% chance of getting divorced, therefore you still have a 50% chance of doing it with someone you won't end up with even if you wait until marriage.
Mmm.. I think its up to the couple too.
Although personally I wouldn't do such a thing unless I for whatever reason truly felt like my significant other was someone.. significant enough to really be my other.. half.
I don't want to have intercourse with someone that won't stay..
mmm.. that's frighteningg.. ;__;
[quote=AColdWorld]Let's get married and have the sexy time[/quote]
on the move already
Or how about you do whatever you and your mate wants and stop meddling in others' business?
I don't want/plan to get married and I figure if I ever love someone/care about them enough then hey why not
I don't think it's much of a big deal unless you go around obnoxiously flaunting what you've done.
to each their own business
I don't believe in having premarital intercourse myself. I'd rather get married first then have intercourse. Most teenagers/young adults these days have intercourse..while they're in a relationships unless it's a hook up or fling.. It kind of discourages me to be in a relationship because I'm scared that they might expect to have sex. I'd feel bad for the kid if I were to become pregnant accidentally... I'd rather masterbaite if I have urges..then risk having a kid when I'm not ready. I also believe that it's the two people's choice whether to participate in having intercourse or not. I'm not going to stop them nor do I really care...unless they bring a kid into the world and the kid has to suffer...
[quote=zoneflare2]Why do you sounds like a school teacher?
Its whatever to me[/quote]
afraid of gettin banned
lul
It is up to the couple, and I wouldn't have any business there if someone close to me wanted to have sex with their significant other.
As for myself, I don't think it can last if I wanted to have sex after marriage. For one, I'm not getting married until I finish school and get a* job o___O