I cant get a girlfriend because Im ugly Seriously
I'm constantly rejected..
Girls always tell me im ugly. Confidence isn't an issue. I meet alot of girls and get their numbers but they all reject me.
I mustve been told at least 10-12 times by different friends that a girl told me im ugly.
It's not that I can't get girls, I just can't get the ones that I want.
Game isn't an issue, it's looks.
My latest scenario:
I was with a beautiful girl (but we weren't official yet) and she told me that I'm cute everyday without me even asking. She told me how she liked me and wanted to be with me. But then my friend, who she's also good friends with, told me how she said that she only likes my personality but im not attractive. In the end she left me for another one of my friends and denied to everyone any feelings she told me she had about me.
Then a month later her sister told me that she likes me and everything, but she just doesn't want me to be ugly.
Help me basil.
Im 16 btw
Edit: How do you make yourself more attractive
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We are all shallow. There might be few people in this world that aren't, but I haven't met one. We always want the beautiful person, and ignore that ugly guy or girl who can give us everything. This is why there's relationship problems all the time.
Face the reality here. Nothing you can do, but who cares? Being in a relationship isn't everything. Go have fun in life.
Pictures?
It'll be easier to assist you with what you need to be working on, on your appearance
get a new haircut, new clothes, no glasses or braces (if you have them) and get a good anti-acne cleanser (if you have acne)
[quote=BackToHatin]Show her your better in other areas.
>Wait till she gets assbag boyfriend.
>When he breaks her heart.
>You come in and show her a good time.
>Go to the park, the movies a museum girls love that crap.
>Get in the car drive to her house.
>Have great conversation.
>Get to her door.
>She asks if you want to come in.
>Say no.
>She asks if your sure.
>You say you might not have much time left until it happens.
>She ignores that and say come on.
>You go in. Sit on couch.
>Start making out.
>She gets into it brings you into bedroom.
>She lays on the bed clothes half off.
>Your about to dive in and get some.
>You turn into a Raptor and eat her.
>Blood is everywhere.
>You turn back into a human.
>Cry uncontrollably.
>Try and wipe up blood with your shirt.
>Get up and run outside.
>Get hit by car.
>Die.
TL'DR: She's just not that into you.[/quote]
Haha massive respect for you haha
Get hit in the face by accident with a door, like what happened to Squidward.
Stop trying to date girls out of your league.
Problem solved.
[quote=pr3stig3]Want girls? All you need is confidence.
[*]First, change your wardrobe. Whatever size you are wearing now, I can guarantee they are a size too big. Of course, you don't want to wear tight-ass clothing, but it's nice to wear slightly smaller clothing as to show off any muscles you may or may not have. Second, ditch the tshirts for button-ups, and the sweatpants for jeans. Pair a nice collared shirt with slim-fit jeans, and voila, easy and good looking. Also, try accessorizing your outfits. Don't wear a scarf? Try one. Add some rings to your fingers, or a necklace, etc... Also, make sure to think in layers, when it comes to outfits. Collared shirts should always stay on the inside, but the collars themselves should stay on the outside.
[*]Use cologne/deodorant. You may not think that scent matters, but to some females, it's a huge turn on when a guy smells good and fresh.
[*]Always be confident. I don't mean "act like a dbag," but always look people in the eyes when you're talking to them. Take the initiative when it comes to things. Always be active, never passive.
[*]Don't take "no" for an answer. Just because the first time you ask someone out, and they reject you, doesn't mean that it's game over. Ask them if they are free some other time. If they reject you, say "that's fine, but is there any other time that'd work for you". That way, it puts the onus on THEM, and it also lets them know that you are comfortable with yourself.
Good luck bro.[/quote]
Scarf = No. If you've ever seen a TV show or something, the gay guy is always wearing a scarf.
[quote=AzPerilX]Use one of those random beuty coupons[/quote]
I lol'd
Mail order from china n russia n india
Get a blind woman.
@Aznsky: Your friend is very smart. He made the right choice. I think he's nasty in LoL too. Chips are good.
a picture would always help, that way we could maybe tell you what to do in order to improve your physical appearance?
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[quote=BackToHatin]Show her your better in other areas.
>Wait till she gets assbag boyfriend.
>When he breaks her heart.
>You come in and show her a good time.
>Go to the park, the movies a museum girls love that crap.
>Get in the car drive to her house.
>Have great conversation.
>Get to her door.
>She asks if you want to come in.
>Say no.
>She asks if your sure.
>You say you might not have much time left until it happens.
>She ignores that and say come on.
>You go in. Sit on couch.
>Start making out.
>She gets into it brings you into bedroom.
>She lays on the bed clothes half off.
>Your about to dive in and get some.
>You turn into a Raptor and eat her.
>Blood is everywhere.
>You turn back into a human.
>Cry uncontrollably.
>Try and wipe up blood with your shirt.
>Get up and run outside.
>Get hit by car.
>Die.
TL'DR: She's just not that into you.[/quote]
Hey there again, you and your funny stories
OT: just use a paperbag over ur head solves all your problems and its cheap
Want girls? All you need is confidence.
[*]First, change your wardrobe. Whatever size you are wearing now, I can guarantee they are a size too big. Of course, you don't want to wear tight-ass clothing, but it's nice to wear slightly smaller clothing as to show off any muscles you may or may not have. Second, ditch the tshirts for button-ups, and the sweatpants for jeans. Pair a nice collared shirt with slim-fit jeans, and voila, easy and good looking. Also, try accessorizing your outfits. Don't wear a scarf? Try one. Add some rings to your fingers, or a necklace, etc... Also, make sure to think in layers, when it comes to outfits. Collared shirts should always stay on the inside, but the collars themselves should stay on the outside.
[*]Use cologne/deodorant. You may not think that scent matters, but to some females, it's a huge turn on when a guy smells good and fresh.
[*]Always be confident. I don't mean "act like a dbag," but always look people in the eyes when you're talking to them. Take the initiative when it comes to things. Always be active, never passive.
[*]Don't take "no" for an answer. Just because the first time you ask someone out, and they reject you, doesn't mean that it's game over. Ask them if they are free some other time. If they reject you, say "that's fine, but is there any other time that'd work for you". That way, it puts the onus on THEM, and it also lets them know that you are comfortable with yourself.
Good luck bro.
Bro, idunno whats wrong with you but look for a girl that has personality, and that looks at yours. I have been with my "gf" for 2 weeks now. And when i asked her why she fell for me she like "your the only guy who fell for my personality instead of my body" which is true. Hope i Helped somewhat. Im 15 btw if it matters.
[quote=BackToHatin]Show her your better in other areas.
>Wait till she gets assbag boyfriend.
>When he breaks her heart.
>You come in and show her a good time.
>Go to the park, the movies a museum girls love that crap.
>Get in the car drive to her house.
>Have great conversation.
>Get to her door.
>She asks if you want to come in.
>Say no.
>She asks if your sure.
>You say you might not have much time left until it happens.
>She ignores that and say come on.
>You go in. Sit on couch.
>Start making out.
>She gets into it brings you into bedroom.
>She lays on the bed clothes half off.
>Your about to dive in and get some.
>You turn into a Raptor and eat her.
>Blood is everywhere.
>You turn back into a human.
>Cry uncontrollably.
>Try and wipe up blood with your shirt.
>Get up and run outside.
>Get hit by car.
>Die.
TL'DR: She's just not that into you.[/quote]
thanks for the laugh
Post some pics man.
@CollegeDropout: Well your obviously not happy getting rejected constantly
This is why I never ask
+ that I don't even know the people I have/ had crush on </3
Though great looks are one of the primary factors in naturally socializing with other the opposite sex it doesn't always have to be up to the face.
Start working out! Women love men with a great body. Go to a hair-stylist and have them groom you well. Take pride in yourself as a man. You'll see when you get older that it really doesn't matter how ugly you look if you are physically great in other areas [unless you have a blatant mutation or deformity].
If it's bothering you this much, you'll take my advice.
[quote=Diezal]Just stick to your league then, you'll get rejected less[/quote]
But then I wont be happy. Who wants to be in a relationship where they aren't happy
[quote=SodiumOH]Get rich.[/quote]
She'll just want me for my money
[quote=NephewofMuto]If you're feelings are just as shallow as hers, how can you be mad at her? You just said you could get girls, just not the one you want. She probably felt the same way, she wanted a guy with your personality, but not your style. Maybe if you changed your perspective you might have some better luck.[/quote]
True. But that still wont get me the girls that I want. It'll just make me more accepting to less appealing women.
[quote=ShadowofMs]Not the one that lives here i know a couple and they all look like some dead horses ugly, and they get everyone that they can get their hands on.[/quote]
you have to be at least a solid 8 to date me (6 if we're hooking up)(now I'm just proving your point)
[quote=BackToHatin]
>Go to the park, the movies a museum girls love that crap.
[/quote]
Loled @ this
OT: Sorry but "girls going for personality and not looks" has always been bs, at least for the majority.
Just stick to your league then, you'll get rejected less
Get rich.
get an ugly, desperate gf
anyone can get a significant other, it's the quality and desirability that counts
[quote=ShadowofMs]Get a plastic surgery or turn gheey.[/quote]
I'm pretty sure gay people are more [b]anal[/b] about good looks than girls are.