Should I come out of the closet?
I am 14 year old and I'm gay. I really want to come out to my family, but I don't think I can. Here is why: My sister and my parents. My sister is generally friendly to me, but she is homophobic. I feel that she will make fun of me or use it against me(she can be very mean and she is hot-headed.)
I am from Thailand. 99.9999% of gays there wear colorful clothing and make up. I am not, and will not be like them. I fear that if I come out to my parents, they would start buying me girl clothes or make me do girl stuff </3
What should I do? Should I come out now or when I'm older? These factors make me feel extremely uncomfortable. My mother doesn't care if I'm gay, but my sister... She would make fun of me 24/7.
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I doubt your parents will actually force you to wear feminine clothing. Doesn't seem plausible, unless you agree to put it on. Who cares what your sister thinks, do what you want.
[quote=FriedSnake]I am 14 year old and I'm gay. [b]I really want to come out to my family[/b][/quote]
seems pretty straight forward to me
the sooner you reveal your true self, the more friends you will have that will [b]SUPPORT[/b] you and [b]LOVE[/b] you for
who you are.
think bout it this way..would u rather live ur life afraid of everything
or jut tell every one and be free
that sounded kinda stupid but if u hold it in u just might commit suicide
and u said ur mother doesnt care? well thats all u need...all u need is ur mother
and to be honest..ur sister sounds liek an ass
I would give yourself 2 years. If you have any doubts, they will be cleared up by then.
Also when your 16, you can look for a job, just incase of the worst scenario.
[quote=Giigo]You're not gay at 14 years old.
you're simply curious and confused.
Thank the media.[/quote]
I feel very aroused looking at men and turned-off looking at women