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 Sooo, my girlfriend dumped me because she thinks she's starting to like another friend of ours (who I've never really liked at all, but put up with). She just said she didn't want to be with me when she likes two people at once. Also she emailed me and said "I never think before I act but guess I can't go back." in part of her email...today I asked her about it and she said she changed her mind so she didn't want to talk about it. I just keep saying sorry because I wasn't there to talk with her enough, just because of awkwardness. I usually like to help her, but like for example on aim, I know that she's talking with "our" friend, and that makes it so hard to talk to her... What do I do...I've had her for 10 months and I don't wanna give up till I know I'm out.. New Blog: I'm feeling depressed
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She basically dumped you because she likes someone else. Even though it's hard, I'd just get over her. Give myself some time before I want to start dating again.
Cut her out of your life for a little while and try to get over this. Her feelings have changed, and it's no use "being friends" right now when you still have feelings for her. Trying to just "be friends" right after a breakup never works out. Your feelings get twisted around and you often get hurt seeing your ex with someone else.
She's making things too difficult. If she liked you, she would have come back to you already.
Nuwen: She basically dumped you because she likes someone else. Even though it's hard, I'd just get over her. Give myself some time before I want to start dating again. I hate to sound like I'm in denial, but she said she likes both of us. :/ And she would've picked up her phone if she had it on her and wasn't busy. 10 months, just to watch a guy who's AIM status was "spray on cond0ms" stealing the one person I need. @ Close: She likes to make drama I think...I don't know why. It does get annoying sometimes...Like she'll tell me one thing without giving any details, then I have to wait for who-knows-how-long for a reply. New Blog: I'm feeling depressed
david it sounds like that "friend" of your's is a pervert and a guy that only wants to have sex/lose his virginity to some girl. i mean really someone should smack some sense into that boy.
xIdentity: I hate to sound like I'm in denial, but she said she likes both of us. :/ And she would've picked up her phone if she had it on her and wasn't busy. 10 months, just to watch a guy who's AIM status was "spray on cond0ms" stealing the one person I need. @ Close: She likes to make drama I think...I don't know why. It does get annoying sometimes...Like she'll tell me one thing without giving any details, then I have to wait for who-knows-how-long for a reply. i feel ya man. I let the girl i liked cry on my shoulder and complain about the guy she liked, while he was interested in three different girls at once. oink98: i feel ya man. I let the girl i liked cry on my shoulder and complain about the guy she liked, while he was interested in three different girls at once. Friendzone. @ Famous: He's a total ass to be honest. He flirts with her right in front of me, and she's aware of it. We even talked about it too, and now...I just want to kill him. >_>
@ Oink: I did that for like 3 months, then I won her over. Now it's like I've been replaced just because I felt too scared to say anything for a few days. New Blog: I'm feeling depressed
Girls like the perverts. True story dudes. Obviously she isn't the right one for you.
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xIdentity: I hate to sound like I'm in denial, but she said she likes both of us. :/ And she would've picked up her phone if she had it on her and wasn't busy. 10 months, just to watch a guy who's AIM status was "spray on cond0ms" stealing the one person I need. @ Close: She likes to make drama I think...I don't know why. It does get annoying sometimes...Like she'll tell me one thing without giving any details, then I have to wait for who-knows-how-long for a reply. I know exactly what you mean. I've had girlfriends that create drama the exact same way. And I know it's difficult, but you'll have to get over her. She obviously likes this other guy. I sympathize with you, I really do. It's happened to me before. It's the worst feeling in the world. It may take several weeks to months, but you'll get over it, trust me. Hang in there. @blahs: I know what you mean, man. I treat girls like absolute goddesses, then they'll turn around and go with a guy who has no respect for them and will almost certainly dump them after he gets what he wants. Talk to her in person and pour out your feelings; or do what I did:
I wrote an extremely blunt & emotional letter and dropped it off at her house and hid it. >:3 Good luck! Ok so the betch dumped you. So what? Don't fall for her "o please don't hate me, it's just a MISUNDERSTANDING" crap. That's what girls say so they don't end up feeling all d0uchy inside.
Just drop her. It's the best action to do. If she doesn't want you then why the f should you even care about her? Go get someone better and nicer and with more of a brain. Yea, don't get into drama. Just go find a girl who'll treat you better. She's probably (not saying she is but sounds like) one of those girls that thinks she can get the guy(s) she wants.
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That's happened to me before.
Trust me, don't take her back. I know you want to, but you shouldn't. She's just going to keep juggling between liking you and liking some other guy. It's not worth the trouble. Just try your best to get over her and move on. Register / login
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