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aerial Level 213 Scania Beginner
so where I work, there is this girl who seems to be about 17/18 and works at the coffee bar.

i talked to her once when I got coffee after my shift because I had to wait 20 minutes in the snow for the bus. That was about two months ago. Her shift begins at 12 and I only get coffee in the morning so I've never talked to her after that.

it was pretty obvious that she likes me. it's pretty easy to tell when a girl you've never met find you attractive by looking at their eyes when talking. their eyes tend to usually lit up with a hint of a smile after 5 seconds.

My lunch break is at 12 so I am eating lunch when she comes in. I can see her staring at me when I am on my phone. but I've never really bothered to really acknowledge her.

last week, she walks behind me and stays there for a few seconds. then walks around the table in front of me. I look up and when she realizes that I saw her, she takes a sit quickly right across me.

she just looks at the table. sits around with a very anxious look for two seconds, then awkwardly says "uhhhhhh" then quickly stands up and leave. it was so stupidly awkwardly cute.

obviously, that was her hoping that i talked to her or was actually very cringe lol

So I come to ask you guys a question. I am not that into her. she's not my type.

but as I am currently single, I have not much to lose. she's pretty and has a really nice ass and legs. (the reason why I looked up when she walked across me lol)

so if you were me, would you talk to her further to get something going even if you had no interest in dating her? because you know, flirting is fun no matter what.
Posted: February 2017 Permalink


kayfabe Level 95 Zenith Hermit See what games, anime & art kayfabe is intokayfabe
just b cuddle buddies
Feb 22 2017
upcomingnerd Level 102 Scania Beast Tamer Shared
Smash her.
Feb 22 2017
irlesley Level 200 Mardia Buccaneer
+2 Annihilate her.
Feb 22 2017
fradddd Level 170 Windia Hero
I dunno, I don't think you're supposed to flirt with the nurses, especially when you're in an an asylum rather than a normal medical hospital. She'll probably just be a little weirded out, but at the same time she's probably used to it. So, I'd say go for it, just know that other patients are trying to go for it too because of the same illusion that you have.
Stay strong.
Feb 22 2017
lightxtc Level 125 Windia I/L Arch Mage
Stop thinking and ask her out already.
Feb 22 2017
helpingly Level 214 Bera Buccaneer See what games, anime & art helpingly is intoHelpinglySheriff
I would go ahead and do it. But based off of these signals she's either just being nice or thinks your nice or thinks you're kind of weird and just smiles so things won't be awkward when you make eye contact.

Also, how old are you? Cause if she's 17 that's a one way ticket to the police.
tl;dr Stop overthinking things and just go for it like any normal guy would.
Feb 23 2017
aerial Level 213 Scania Beginner
@helpingly: I agree that the smile itself doesn't mean much on its own. Nice people do that all the time. I only realized that she was into me when she was constantly staring at me across the break room and when she did that whole trying to get my attention thing.

I just turned 20 and I think there's a law in Canada that says that as long as the person is within 5 years of your age, it's fine.
Feb 23 2017

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