Is it weird to never have a quotgirlfriendquot my whole life?
Girlfriend meaning a girl that is your friend for longer than 5 years
Im almost 20 now I cant recall ever having '"hang out" with any girl for more then 1 hour, unless you count a girl I"was crushing on in 11 grade and her friend decided to randomly hook me up, god bless her.I could never have a whole heart to heart conversation with anyone other then my mother.
Im not gay or anything, I thought I was before, but after a test I did, I can say that im not I know I like girls ALOT, but I have a very shy way of talking to girls(or anyone) I dont know for 5 mins. I also have a way of trying to complement pretty girls, and I have a way of life of not letting any girl I know cry, it make me sad to see that, I will make you laugh away the pain.
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@ZetraDedd: okay I swear you have said you're 17 a ton of times.
dont rush it, it will come to you eventually
[quote=fradddd]I've had a few who say in a friendly way "I love you", or hug me, or I talk to them a lot in classes...but yeah, I haven't really had any female friends who I'd hang out with a lot outside of school. I've hung out outside school with one girl once, and another girl twice. Never had a girlfriend either.
@ZetraDedd lol you say "meeting women" but you're 17. They're still girls/chicks.[/quote]
College students aren't girls
Edit: and I'm not 17, wtf?
Geez you're only 20! xD why worry about it already at this point? Wait until you've entered longterm work life. I didn't really care about guys at all whatsoever until 18 and didn't start hanging out with them outside of my duty-life (school/work) until I had a job and then it was coworkers I was hanging out with. I don't think it's weird at all to not hang out with the opposite gender until end of puberty.
You just hit your 20's, enjoy them and see where they lead you. To me they're the best years so far
Not having many female friends if you're a guy isn't weird at all dude. The only chick friends I have are my old highschool friends and girls I've met at bars who I'll see randomly from time to time. A female wouldn't get an hour of my time to "talk" unless I had intentions of getting with her.
[quote=SpyShroom0]I'm a guy, but I've always had the opposite problem. I've always had more girl friends than guy friends.
I think of myself as having 4 types of friends: best, close, regular friends, and acquaintances.
My best friends have always been guys, but there's only been like 4 or 5 of them.
Out of the other 3 groups, girl friends far outnumber guy friends, with most guys falling under acquaintances.
Sometimes I wish I had more guy friends, but all in all, friends are friends and you shouldn't really care what gender they are.[/quote]
I hope you realize that most guys would love to have a ton of female friends that they can consult about girl problems with. Ya know. Wing Girls.
I'm a guy, but I've always had the opposite problem. I've always had more girl friends than guy friends.
I think of myself as having 4 types of friends: best, close, regular friends, and acquaintances.
My best friends have always been guys, but there's only been like 4 or 5 of them.
Out of the other 3 groups, girl friends far outnumber guy friends, with most guys falling under acquaintances.
Sometimes I wish I had more guy friends, but all in all, friends are friends and you shouldn't really care what gender they are.
@Midget: Nah, some girls like fatter guys. More cushioning for them to rest on.
[quote=renaflor]It's okay.
I'm 17 and I have had 0 close guy friends irl.
Pretty much all of the guys I'm friends with at school have just been "normal-ranked" (acquaintances) friends, while all of my good/close friends are girls.
I kinda almost have this sorta "ranking" system for my friends in my head, and all of my guy friends have just been at a lower ranking. o-o
It goes like this from close to i-wont-remember-you-if-i-see-you-next-year:
-Best friend
-Close friend
-Good friend
-(School) friend
-Acquaintance
-Someone I'm cool with but don't really talk to as much as someone that's at least an acquaintance
Literally all of my guy friends have been at the "school friend" ranking at most, nothing higher.[/quote]
=.= Keep in mind, you are a girl, so these kinds of things would be easier for you, than for guys.
Although, I don't know to be bothered or impressed that you have a ranking system (and a good one at that).
It's okay.
I'm 17 and I have had 0 close guy friends irl.
Pretty much all of the guys I'm friends with at school have just been "normal-ranked" (acquaintances) friends, while all of my good/close friends are girls.
I kinda almost have this sorta "ranking" system for my friends in my head, and all of my guy friends have just been at a lower ranking. o-o
It goes like this from close to i-wont-remember-you-if-i-see-you-next-year:
-Best friend
-Close friend
-Good friend
-(School) friend
-Acquaintance
-Someone I'm cool with but don't really talk to as much as someone that's at least an acquaintance
Literally all of my guy friends have been at the "school friend" ranking at most, nothing higher.
[quote=UAPaladin]I'm almost 19 and I'm in the process of getting my first girlfriend right now, lol. Don't worry about it, it will come naturally in time. You'll meet someone and you'll just click.[/quote]
unless you're fat
A test? Did you have to do mathematical equations to figure out your preference? o.O
- All jokes aside don't worry the longer your single the more chance you will have at improving yourself and having extra cash.
I'm almost 19 and I'm in the process of getting my first girlfriend right now, lol. Don't worry about it, it will come naturally in time. You'll meet someone and you'll just click.
I've had a few who say in a friendly way "I love you", or hug me, or I talk to them a lot in classes...but yeah, I haven't really had any female friends who I'd hang out with a lot outside of school. I've hung out outside school with one girl once, and another girl twice. Never had a girlfriend either.
@ZetraDedd lol you say "meeting women" but you're 17. They're still girls/chicks.
Just focus on doing the best you can in life. Be a naturally good person and always improve yourself. Somewhere along the line girls will start coming your way.
I had that issue for the longest time, til I turned 17 I had like no social interaction with women. I had an enlightenment so to speak and ever since I've been much happier in life, and been meeting women. I now have an amazing girlfriend who I care greatly for. It'll come friend
yeah I'm 19 and have never been kissed/kissed a girl. Never hung out with one past 3pm at school. So no it's not weird, just not mainstream.
[quote=RitoPls]Your time will come, bud.
Keep doing you and the ladies will follow.[/quote]
The god has spoken. Advice like this makes me wonder what to do with life.
I've never really had any guy friends. My first guy friend was probably my actual boyfriend, whom I met shortly after I turned 18. All my friends are gals and it's always worked out for me.
You're okay
just make some jokes. If you wanna play it dirty, bring some food in class and all the girls will surround you. But the problem is that guys will hate you
Your time will come, bud.
Keep doing you and the ladies will follow.
Youre gay
Join the club