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How should I ask this girl irl out?

We're only in 8th grade and have 1 class together, 6 period. I had a crush on her since 6th grade. But we dont know each other well. Im like sitting across the room from her and theres no chance my teacher will ever change our seats. So how should I ask her out. Should I try to become friends with her first, and then ask her out or should I just ask her out the chance I can. Also if I were to become friends, should I like introduce myself or something, or hey *blank* watcha doin and then talk about stuff cuz ive been in one of her class every year and this year is our last year. I dont wanna lose her since shes prob goin to a different high school than me. I really like her. The cances of my getting close to her was so low. I only got to sit next to her and my friend ruins it by making me look weak. I know basil gives good answers so Im asking you guys. Yhanks

January 13, 2013

24 Comments • Newest first

GrammarJew

[quote=killerxohappy]Hmmm..... So what I should do is become close friends with her. Then when I am/finish college, message her if you want to meet and then ask her out?[/quote]

If this does actually work, you'll have to reveal your master scheme to her and she'll find out that you've been pining over her for the past 10 years and that's just kind of obsessive, bro.

Reply January 14, 2013
Aristocratan

Hmmm..... So what I should do is become close friends with her. Then when I am/finish college, message her if you want to meet and then ask her out?

Reply January 14, 2013
Nashi

Don't worry about love and relationships now, your chance for a well-working relationship is maybe like 1-8%.
Don't ask someone out you barely know, relationships work out the best if you've been in a close friendship with them for at least a year or so (well, I was friends with my Fiance for almost 2 years and out of my own experience relationships never work out if you didn't know the person beforehand) but I'd suggest to start dating in college.

The more changes you have to go through -> switching to HS -> switching to college/uni, the less likely it is for you to even last through that, especially if you two change locations, and being with someone during such times is pretty risky as it will alter your decisions or maybe even hinder you from doing what you originally planned to do (e.g. if you used to aim for studying abroad you will think at least twice about that now cause who the hell would want to leave their partner behind? But studying abroad = better job chances.... Eventually you most likely wouldn't do it for your partner, screwing both of you over basically)

Besides, teenagers are little drama queens so in a few weeks or months you'd break up and there'd be a lot of whining and crap-talking... not worth it

Reply January 13, 2013
UsoppStyle

in my opinion, ask her for help in something she's really good, for example if both are good in math, pretend be an asshole in math and ask her for help, rest come's later

Reply January 13, 2013
Tweety

Lets just say you did ask her out, and she accepted. What are you going to do then? You can't drive, don't have a job(probably), and shy..So you can't be going around a lot,no money,and hard decision making.That would be leaving the choices of
-Eating the one dollar menu at mcdonalds
-Eating/spending time together with your/her mom (Mom=Driver)
-Walk everyday to her house
-Talking without much physical appearance (texting,etc)

So i just suggest you get a little older .

Reply January 13, 2013
3moRaccoon

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Reply January 13, 2013
123tonyni

We're only in 8th grade and have 1 class together, 6 period. I had a crush on her since 6th grade. But we dont know each other well. Im like sitting across the room from her and theres no chance my teacher will ever change our seats. So how should I ask her out. Should I try to become friends with her first, and then ask her out or should I just ask her out the chance I can. Also if I were to become friends, should I like introduce myself or something, or hey *blank* watcha doin and then talk about stuff cuz ive been in one of her class every year and this year is our last year. I dont wanna lose her since shes prob goin to a different high school than me. I really like her. The cances of my getting close to her was so low. I only got to sit next to her and my friend ruins it by making me look weak. I know basil gives good answers so Im asking you guys. Yhanks

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Reply January 13, 2013
Aristocratan

If I were to get closer to her, then I would have to get closer to her friends too? ends.ince shes always with her friiends.

Reply January 13, 2013
alexwee

easy punch her nose and suck all the blood off her face
#instant girlfriend
am i doing it right? >.>

Reply January 13, 2013
crazybass

Say hi want to eat lunch with me during lunch period?

Reply January 13, 2013
Laker1294

Get to know first before you ask her out. You should befriend her first, but don't get too close.

Reply January 13, 2013
cchpm

Talk to her
Say hi every time you see her in class
Ask her number
then slowly work your way in.

Reply January 13, 2013
xnightr

say 'did u fart because u just love my socks' it works everytime

Reply January 13, 2013
CherryPop

@AdventureClub: Actually my ID was meant as "Cherry soda". Pop = soda.

Reply January 13, 2013
SuberKieran

You're in grade 8 so it doesn't really mean anything. If you're really set on doing it then just ask her out, you have no previous relationship with her so if she rejected you it's not like it would ruin a friendship.

Reply January 13, 2013
CherryPop

You're in 8th grade. Middle school and High school relationships don't even last long. I've known people that lasted from a day to maybe 2 years.

Reply January 13, 2013
civfanatics

You're only in eighth grade... focus on your school for now...

Reply January 13, 2013
GrammarJew

[quote=killerxohappy] I only got to sit next to her and my friend ruins it [b]by making me look weak[/b]. [/quote]

Obviously you have to establish yourself as the alpha male. Sucker punch that bastard right in the face. And then piss all over him, never breaking eye contact. This establishes dominance.

[quote=killerxohappy]I know basil [b]gives good answers[/b] so Im asking you guys. Yhanks[/quote]

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Reply January 13, 2013
GrammarJew

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Reply January 13, 2013
pancakes030

You don't necessarily need to be her boyfriend, is that's what you're asking. Just go on a little date or something and get to know each other. Then see what happens.

Reply January 13, 2013
Merchanting

if you have mutual friends chat her up on fb, or talk about w.e class you have together. Over time you can talk to her more and more after you get better acquainted.

Reply January 13, 2013
Wordolio

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that is already getting old, because everyone uses it.

Reply January 13, 2013
Herosgate

Good answers? You must be joking...

OT: Don't even bother. Since relationships in the 8th grade don't really last long. If you really want to, start talking to her. Ask for her number, start texting her or snapchat her. Tell your friend, a guy to guy talk. Tell him you like her, and tell him that he's making you look bad and set some distance between your friend and her. . I'm sure your friend will understand.

Confidence is key. No girl wants a weak poooosay for a boyfriend. Show her that you're the alpha male. Be nice and gentle with her.

I hope you're loaded too, because all that cash is going towards gifts to your girlfriend.

Reply January 13, 2013
damonaire

you can pull off the ask out thing w/o being friends if look great doe,

otherwise just be her friend, you'll know more about her.

Reply January 13, 2013