What Attracts You?
There's a lot of speculation in this forum lately about appearances and I really want to know.
When looking for a friend/hook-up/love-interest/FWB, what's the first feature you notice, and what do you think makes you attractive?
IMO: lash length is something I always always always notice. The longer the lashes, the more attractive I think a person is. However, with a hook up, definitely height and weight. The bigger the better.
March 18, 2016
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she need a nice ass
Short answer: Eyes. They tell a lot.
Longer answer: I'm not usually the one to bring in the cliche stuff, but personality takes up a HUGE part of what makes someone attractive. Someone can look "average", but once you get to know their personality, everything about them just instantly becomes ten times more attractive.
originality
stankaf anus
@stoker: Dude we'd be good together <3
Height and build. Then the face... I'm weird xDD
must be an anime character
Definitely sarcasm. I can't connect with someone with a no-sarcasm attitude. Maybe I can work with them, maybe I can chat with them, but I could never be myself around them.
Their face.
I'm kind of into the whole 'normal' girl look. The face is a biggie for me. Honestly can't talk to someone I don't find attractive there.
Oh baby! https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/736x/21/84/5d/21845db944a6f46d4dcf3e18a7ad2a33.jpg
nice sounding voice, interesting/funny dialogue, :v
Friend: mostly that we have something fun to talk about and that they are not mean spirited
Hook-Up: Decently attractive and into me. Whenever someone clearly finds you attractive and funny it's hard fo r me to pass it up.
Love Interest: Oh man. I'm a pretty weird person as it is. Someone who doesn't mind my eccentricities, enjoys intelligent conversation, is creative and enjoys rough sex.
FWB: just that we can hang out and I'm not just fronting to get in theirs pants
Going out of the way when she shoulda went home.
Nothing.
Wit, tenacity and insight tend to be the big three.
Physically, nothing completely unrealistic, but being well-kept definitely draws an eye (i.e. not a slob of any kind). Really, the only two deal-breakers in terms of physical appearance are signs of being a complete slob and just generally unhealthy physique (use your imagination).
I think for each of those categories, I would look for different things.
Friend: doesn't really matter, I do notice how people react to what I say [I say random things sometimes]
Hook Up: [never had one] but I assume I'd be checking their body yowwwww
Love Interest: It's usually their personality that would attract me but I love when people have nice smiles, even though I do have a thing for geeky looking guys with glasses, tall and if they tell me they like DC comics swoooon x) oh and the way they carry themselves, I mean a guy with confidence but not being too cocky about themselves is great
FWB: that just happens over time if they're a friend but if they like to get down and dirty sure why not x)