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"i love laughing about the friend zone because it's so dumb like you know most of those dudes aren't even IN the "friend zone" they're in the "ugh god not this dude again" zone"

@NotZach: im just talking about the ones who are already friends that complain. To me its extremely annoying when a female starts trying to lay all her drama on me when I really don't care in the first place. like seriously call your girlfriends and complain to them about not being able to find a good guy and call me if you wanna chill. If the chick doesn't want to be with me then I simply move on, too many fish to worry about one.

[quote=Zoneflare4]If a female every says anything like that you dont give into her drama, you simple say "sucks to be you", change the subject or walk away.[/quote]

Or you could be a decent human being and not make her feel like crap just because she doesn't want to be in an intimate relationship with you.

@FriedSnake: OHSNAP

EDIT: I love how the entire thread is a bunch of guys comforting each other because a girl said no to them. This is priceless.

Friendzone?
More like can't handle rejection

[quote=Momo123]I'm currently friendzoned by this girl I work with. I remember when she first started working, she would always blush and come up to me and talk. I knew she liked me so one day I was just like yolo and asked her for her phone number. Things were going great, and one day I asked her to come over my house because parents were out of town and we could "chill" and smoke. She said yes (you should have seen her face, she was so excited).... Then at that night, parents called me and said they are coming home early so I told her lets do it another day. Ever since then, whenever I ask her to hang out or chill, she always replys i'm busy. She doesn't even smile around me at work anymore. It's been like 5 months since this happened, but it's just incredibly hard to move on since I barely meet girls in school (engineering major) or the ones at work are usually ugly. Whenever we text now, she would randomly stop replying to me or refer to me as "brah." I really wish I can act my age and get girls 24/7 like my other friends who go out partying every weekend and stuff... but I still live with parents and they are strict about me leaving the house.

So yea, being friendzoned sucks. Probably the 3rd time it happened to me I think...[/quote]

Oh boy it's one of my biggest pet peeves when a girl I'm hitting on calls me "bro" or "dude", complete turn off for some reason, I don't want to feel like I'm talking to one of my guy friends.

@metaghost4: dude there comes a time when letting go and forgetting is the best option. Especially when its been over a year

Idk. I've never been in it.

*make friends with a girl*
*later expects girl to like you back*

Ok now

@metaghost4 dear god get over it

I don't believe in the friendzone. If a girl that I'm interested in calls me her friend, I just stop talking to her. All that says to me is that she's not interested. And I really have no interest in being her friend and by that I don't mean completely ignore her, but don't ever initiate contact. Say hi if you see her, but don't stop to talk. It's pretty amazing how this makes a girl attracted to you.

I'm currently friendzoned by this girl I work with. I remember when she first started working, she would always blush and come up to me and talk. I knew she liked me so one day I was just like yolo and asked her for her phone number. Things were going great, and one day I asked her to come over my house because parents were out of town and we could "chill" and smoke. She said yes (you should have seen her face, she was so excited).... Then at that night, parents called me and said they are coming home early so I told her lets do it another day. Ever since then, whenever I ask her to hang out or chill, she always replys i'm busy. She doesn't even smile around me at work anymore. It's been like 5 months since this happened, but it's just incredibly hard to move on since I barely meet girls in school (engineering major) or the ones at work are usually ugly. Whenever we text now, she would randomly stop replying to me or refer to me as "brah." I really wish I can act my age and get girls 24/7 like my other friends who go out partying every weekend and stuff... but I still live with parents and they are strict about me leaving the house.

So yea, being friendzoned sucks. Probably the 3rd time it happened to me I think...

What is this Friendzone?
Seriously I friendzone all my ladies friends and then they come to me.
If I want to hook up I usually go out where there is ladies that want to hook up.

The funny thing is with GTA 5 out and stuff there is a less guys in clubs these days, so more ladies for me.
I am going to go out in 2 hours. Even last night I was on basil around 10 after that I went out with my best friend and had a good time.

You don't even need to go to clubs too. You can join any clubs, you will find ladies. I met this one chick at a Hot Yoga place last year and she was very good.

@TueAtheist speaks the truth.

@metaghost4 You seem to be putting all the blame on the guys for being homewreckers and not putting any blame on the girl.. If a girl dumps a guy for another guy it's completely her fault. She's the one in the relationship, she's the one with obligations to uphold. The "homewrecker" is just going after what he wants and you act like that's a bad thing.

You'll eventually learn that life isn't all daisies and roses and that unrealistic ideals are just that, unrealistic. Girls dump guys all the time for other guys, a lot of the time the new relationship is even more successful, believe it or not girls aren't robots who once in a relationship are obligated to get married to that guy, there's such a thing as finding someone you get along with better, it's completely normal and it happens every day and millions of successful life-long marriages have been born from this "homewrecking" you despise.

Also I don't know the whole situation about you and that girl, but if you want to get her chasing after her is literally the worst thing you can do, girls hate that. If you want her to respect you and if you ever want to remotely have a chance then show her that you've moved on.

[quote=metaghost4]@9Hades9: Not into that stuff.
@ox0Shad0w0xo & @SomeJello: No can do.
@Redefined: I know I will only get one more chance at this. So i'm waiting for the last possible moment, giving them as much time as they can to recover.[/quote]

@metaghost4 But you see? you end up punishing only yourself.
I can be almost certain that those girls aren't thinkinh about you as often as you think about them.
It's nice to be optimistic, but remember there were reasons for the breakup, most of them are probably still valid...

Please, stop punishing yourself by constantly remembering them, and hoping to be with them.
(Hope is a great thing, but with wrong use can lead to nothing but trouble)

("Waiting for the last moment" = constantly remembering them, and hoping to be with them)

Also, @metaghost4 im not sure if you're into online dating,
but this is a very nice and user friendly (also fully free! ) website called OkCupid.
This way, you might be able to fill that hole in your life

@metaghost4 Doubly agreed. I was also in a similar situation and once I moved on, I was able to find someone else. Learning to let go is the hardest part honestly. Once you get past that, it's a lot easier. But not seeing her or being around her, is the best way to get over her. The more you see her, or try to talk to her the harder it is to move on with your life.

@RandomAss I hope that's not really how you think. The whole home wrecker thing. I've been on both sides of that situation and it's not a good way to try to start a relationship, regardless of how good you may or may not be at it. You have to wonder if she's willing to leave someone she likes to be with you, what's to stop her from doing the same thing to you, once another guy comes along. You'd just be setting yourself up to fall. Plus it makes you look like an ass and you'll end up making a lot of enemies lol.

[quote=SomeJello]I don't know you or your problem, but it sounds like a situation I used to be in. Like literally reading that made me think of something that happened to me. I'm about to give you probably the greatest piece of advice that I've ever gotten in my life, and should have listened to a lot sooner. Just forget about it, forget about whoever the girl is, forget about being friends again, just move on and better yourself.[/quote]

I agree.
Was in sort of a similar situation, forgetting and moving on is not simple, but the best solution you can find.

Let's just be friends, okay?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IGK2KprU-To

Girls are not machines where sex pops out if you insert friendship-coins.

disillusions are just that.
If a female every says anything like that you dont give into her drama, you simple say "sucks to be you", change the subject or walk away.