Does anyone have a sister like this?
My sister has been pissing me off for so many years that its not even funny...
Do any of you guys have a sister like this? (Yes; prepare for a wall of text.)
Let's get to know her a bit. She's 16. At school, she acts like she's innocent. At home, she just lets her true form come out. When we were younger, our parents favored her so much more because "she was too weak and sensitive". Too weak and sensitive my butt. We got into fights a lot, and we still do. They're more like arguments. She's always provoking me, which gets me really ticked off, and she knows I get mad too easily. There are times when I actually have control of not talking to her at all, but most of the times it's so...ugh.
To make this less confusing, I have two sisters I'll be mentioning. The sister that's bugging me is named [b]Jennie[/b]. My other sister will be [b]Kay[/b]. I also have a brother, Ivan, and he's 5 years old.
So a few hours ago, I [b]was[/b] sleeping. But I woke up at least 5 times, 10 at most, because my idiotic sister kept yelling at my brother. I don't even know why she was yelling at him. She just continued yelling at him every now and then with the "Shut the -bad word- up!" and all that crap. It even woke up my other sister (we shared rooms.) She was yelling so much that that Kay had to get out of the room and tell her to "watch her language and stop acting like such a witch." What was Jennie's response? "Why don't you stop acting like such a witch." I don't even understand why she would say that when she's the one doing all of the crap. Soon after, she says "I'm trying to work on this thing" (most likely her homework.) So it drags on and I wasn't really listening because I was trying to go back to sleep. As soon as I was about to fall back to sleep, she starts yelling [b]again[/b]. It made me annoyed, so I didn't even bother trying to go back to sleep and woke up and headed into the bathroom. My brother's playing with his blocks, as well as running around. Because he's making too much noise, my sister tells him to stop making so much noise and to sit down. I told her that he's only playing, but she said that she's sick and it gives her a headache. [i]Uhm, yea. I could tell her a lot of things that I had to deal with when I had a headache. For example, her horrible shouting every single day.[/i]
Ah, but that's probably not the only thing. There's plenty of things. But there was a time when she [b]really[/b] ticked me off.
Two summers ago, we lived in a different house. In that house, we shared rooms. Oh, the fun that was. Having to listen to her complaining every single day was a big pain in the butt. No lie.
One day, my dad gets really annoyed and stressed. I think it was around the time when we figured out that my mom was mentally ill. So anyway, my dad is annoyed and stressed. To make matters worse, my brother was acting like a huge baby that day. He was constantly crying. When I got him to stop crying, a minute later, Jennie would somehow make him start crying again. Yea. How immature. So anyway, it kept going on for about an hour or two, and that's when Jennie finally decided to do something really idiotic. She told, er, [i]yelled[/i] at him, saying that she's going to keep sitting on him if he doesn't stop crying. He's still crying, so she sits on him. To make it even worse, she starts jumping up and down (as she's sitting) and basically push him down on the floor with her weight. Me seeing, I told her to stop. Her reply? No. So I walked up to her and tried to push her off of him. I succeeded, but she hit me. Not one hit, not two hits, but by the time I stood up she was [b]still[/b] hitting me. In my defense, I tried to block her hits. But me with my bony arms, I couldn't, so I hit her instead. Then it got to a point where I just stopped and didn't want to deal with it anymore, so I just let her hit me. Well, lucky for me, my grandma and aunt came in. They tried to stop it, but as soon as they were about to even touch us, my dad comes in, sort of pushes them towards the side, and start kicking me. Yes, kicking me. For sitting on the floor and letting my stupid sister hit me. I wasn't even the one closest to him, so he wouldn't be kicking me only out of anger.
After that event, I didn't get a sorry. Guess who did? [b]Jennie[/b].
I have to deal with this sister every day, and it's not fun at all. I wish I could avoid her, but I can't. She hates staying in her own room for some reason. She has her own dang room, while me and Kay (who's currently in college) has to share a room. There's really something wrong with this situation. So because she doesn't like staying in her own room, she's out in the living room. I would move into her room, but she wouldn't let me. Guess I'm stuck in the living room, as well!
Yes. I'm still pissed right now. She's still yelling and shouting at my brother. I like it how when my mom just walked out of the room a few minutes ago, she stopped cussing. ._______.
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Story of my life.
I like really hate my sisters sometimes. Both.
School isn't the reason for any of this.
I hang out with her at school because we know the same people, and they all happen to hang out in one area. She just acts like nothing she is at home.
And as I said, I ignore her up to the point where she starts yelling cuss words, which just snaps me into listening to everything around me.
My sister is a piece of crap too. Everytime she goes out of a room she leaves everything on (tv, fan, lights, etc.) I tell her to turn them off and she replies with 'If it bothers you that much, go turn em off'. ZOMGGGGGGGGG RAGEEEEEEEEEEEE@@@@@@@@222222
I tell mom what she said and she just won't listen and just say "leave your sister alone, I am da boss in this house not you" (when dad's not home) and I'm like, but she's wasting energy and I get another 'that's not your problem, get out'. ORLY? F U.
my sister is annoying too, she's 11 though.
I have a little sister exactly like this.
I feel your pain.
I also had to be sent to my school counselor's office because I randomly was crying when someone else got hurt..
Just yell at her back, fight her (if needed), and make sure your MOM is around whenever this happens.
Good luck.
@kappoliffy : I honestly don't like hugs. But in this situation, it would be nice. ):
@OnceFrozen : Sir, you are correct.
@RJustice: True, I guess. But many Asian families around here live in overpopulated houses. I don't see how that's a problem.
@kenmanyu: Ooh. Woops. I was going to change her name to Linh to keep her in secret, but I realized that it wouldn't matter. I guess I forgot to edit that part. Thanks for pointing it out.
@sandylambb: well dang :l im sorry for you
[quote=sandylambb]What was [b]Linh's[/b] response? [/quote]
Who is Linh?
@sandylambb: By overpopulated, I mean, 6 family members. That's overpopulation to today's standard.
@ImALowStr, @Tsunami95603 : My parents [i]know[/i] that she's doing these stuff. There have been times when they told her to stop, but they let it go too much that she's gotten used to it.
To be honest, even if my parents stopped her from the start, she'd still continue doing it.
@iUnoriginal : That's what I did awhile ago, actually. She had to go to school for her project today, and Ivan was "being loud" again. So she started saying stuff that I could totally fire back at her, but I didn't. :X
@fead : It is, isn't it? (:
Edit :
@icedenz : I'm always on my laptop. I'm normally sucked into it. But considering that she's usually in the same room as me, her yelling (which is really loud, I must say) sort of snaps me back into reality, not matter how no life that may sound.
I would actually love to take classes of all sorts; piano, karate, etc. But currently, my parents wouldn't be able to pay for anything, so I just sit at home.
I do hang out, but again, my parents get annoyed when I hang out too much. Just last week, I was gone from 12 p.m. to 9 p.m. My mom told me that my dad was yelling because I was gone for too long and I shouldn't be hanging out so much at this age. -___________-
If you don't have a hobby or activity of some sort that relaxes you, makes you absolutely calm, something you have fun with 100% and helps you to forget stuff and ignore everything else, maybe there could be such an activity like that for you? If you don't then uh take up something you've had interest in but never done because you thought you couldn't be bothered or seemed too much effort/complicated. I was going through a pretty bad time some time ago and I was like hey how about I give dancing a go (just one of few things), it's always looked complicated but i'm going to spend hours every day learning anyway and then time flies and i'm doing something I like.
Basically, find the one activity or several activities (this sounds so full of lol, but I was able to find a few things) that will nullify everything negative from your mind/body/etc, and that way you can increase your tolerance with her + any people you meet in the future who will annoy you.
If not, resort to other tools like cameras and get some evidence :O. But I doubt that helps, parents are just like that. T_T
Just trying to help another person who has to tolerate annoying people.
I can't believe I read the wall of text....i didn't feel bad about reading it,just mad about you sister and you and your brother,and ...okay so everything :l you should just get a camera,hide it,and then record the events in the house to show your parents? man she must me ticking you off everyday
[quote=icedenz]Would you be able to stay away for most of the day. Like go to a public library and study there, and hang there and nap there, and bring along your work and books,mp3, laptop if you have one. Or any other sort of similar place where you can get most things done. Find places you can go to so you can do something different than being at home, like go to the gym or to the park or friends place or just find some place you can have to get away from her? If that's not possible with your parents being strict then ah that sucks. You're going to have to live through it until you can get away.[/quote]
I took a 5 day vacation with a friend to Lake Tahoe. It was nice, but it obviously didn't make her do anything different than how she normally is.
For the past few weeks, there has been at least a day where I was hanging out without her around. But my parents have been annoyed with how I'm hanging out "too much", so I'm going to stop or else they'll asdfjkl; about it.
Yea. You're right. I am stuck with it. I have been for years, it's just that it's at the point where it's been annoying me for months.
Would you be able to stay away for most of the day. Like go to a public library and study there, and hang there and nap there, and bring along your work and books,mp3, laptop if you have one. Or any other sort of similar place where you can get most things done. Find places you can go to so you can do something different than being at home, like go to the gym or to the park or friends place or just find some place you can have to get away from her? If that's not possible with your parents being strict then ah that sucks. You're going to have to live through it until you can get away.
@100Ways : I'm taller than her...but she's much bigger than me.
@ccsballazdre : I haven't done anything bad to her, honestly. She's the one that's pushing me away. Which is what causes all these conflicts, I guess.
@gokuryu : Oh, she's gotten plenty of love...
@100Ways : I'm 14, thanks.
@Fliss : Ah, that's what I forgot to mention. I [b]do[/b]. With her characteristics, anything not involving her goes in one ear and out the other.
@Court : Abusive dads do, apparently.
@gokuryu : It's not that I'm hating that I have this sister. I love my oldest sister (as a sister.)
I don't think dads kick their children.
@sinfall : Then if not interested, why are you here?
@ElQuarantine : Thanks for the link; I appreciate it dearly.
@MapleSaviors : Haha. I'm wondering how my brother will turn out, being treated like this and picking up her habits.
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@RJustice : The house being overpopulated? No, I don't think so. When we had family staying over for 3 months and before that, she didn't act like this.
@Bodyz : Tested...for what? o________o
@ChronoH : Are you sure about that? But eh, it's just two stories. Second big paragraph is just the thing that pissed me off the most.
I'd just like to tell you that the fact that your house is overpopulated could be a possible cause.