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how to ask a friend out during holidays?

okay so basically i dont know how to ask my friend if she wants to do anything with me during the school holidays (currently first week) and since im such a loser im legit wondering how to even ask
like ive never done anything like this before and its just kinda difficult.
i pretty much know hardly anything about her so ya. lf> help
thanks in advance

September 22, 2015

25 Comments • Newest first

CutieKat

[quote=savaah]>shopping centres/malls
dear god the flashbacks of screaming babies heard from the other end[/quote]

haha true kids could be really annoying sometimes when they want something and their parents won't give them.

Reply September 24, 2015
StapleMory

give a call and say "Yooooooooooo dawwwwwg lets go to (enter place name here)! Or we could go somewhere else u jus hav to name it namsayn mannnnnnnn yooooooooooooooooo"

Reply September 23, 2015 - edited
Savaah

[quote=flya]Since your aussie please use these exact words [dooty doot censored]

Spoiler Alert Mods aren't aussie so they dont know the reference[/quote]
jesus christ lmao

Reply September 23, 2015 - edited
Flya

Since your aussie please use these exact words 'Oi Cuunt, wanna hangout? Come on don't be a shiit cuunt."

Spoiler Alert Mods aren't aussie so they dont know the reference

Reply September 23, 2015 - edited
iJayMS

Just be like ay, let's chill cuh. and she be like yuh leggo

Reply September 23, 2015 - edited
iiPandaBoo

Honestly I'm basically in the same situation(s) as you because </3
I don't know how to be a leader and coordinate stuff even though I like the thought of hanging out/socializing with close[r] friends.

EDIT: And I'm constantly like "I want to do something so I'm not at home doing nothing while my other friends are out on a cruise or going to the movies and I want to strengthen our bond, but what if they're busy? What if they don't even want to hang out with me?"
And then whenever I talk about it with my other friends, I feel like they think I'm crazy and exaggerate everything, but they don't know the life of introverted people >.<

Reply September 22, 2015 - edited
fradddd

@savaah: I think you just have to practice putting yourself in situations that force you to be less timid

Reply September 22, 2015 - edited
Savaah

@fradddd i suppose so being timid makes things like 1000x harder and it hurts my soul

Reply September 22, 2015 - edited
fradddd

@savaah well it's not about forgetting or remembering it's about being yourself, saying what you feel like saying, etc.

Reply September 22, 2015 - edited
Savaah

@fradddd: oooh i see. hopefully i dont forget lmao
and thankyou!

Reply September 22, 2015 - edited
fradddd

@savaah: Okay well in that case, I'm pretty sure friends don't have to designate an activity. You just do stuff. Maybe go eat somewhere and talk and figure it out.
You're very interesting by the way.

Reply September 22, 2015 - edited
Savaah

@fradddd: im female m8.
and thanks, im pretty excited about it cause ive never done anything like this in my entire life. we've already mentioned the days shes available, and already got one maybe. as for the activity/place to go, i have no idea since i dont know what girls these days do

Reply September 22, 2015 - edited
fradddd

@savaah wait are you a girl or guy? I'm assuming you're a guy.
Glad you asked if she wanted to hang out. You could maybe come up with an activity to do or a place to go, and ask her about what day she's available.

Reply September 22, 2015 - edited
Savaah

[quote=4evavoodoo]No offense but if you hav trouble asking your friends to hang out during holidays, are they your true friends
You should be comfortable around them yo[/quote]
>"like ive never done anything like this before and its just kinda difficult." as in, ive never asked anyone if theyve wanted to hang out with me during school holidays because im god of introverts

Reply September 22, 2015 - edited
4evavoodoo

No offense but if you hav trouble asking your friends to hang out during holidays, are they your true friends
You should be comfortable around them yo

Reply September 22, 2015 - edited
Savaah

[quote=cutiekat]Ask them if theyre free during the holidays or are they busy visiting their relatives or working or if they already have a plan. After you asked them planned out where you are going on holidays, what are you going to do over there blah blah blah etc... Do some shopping lots of girls loves to shop lol[/quote]
>shopping centres/malls
dear god the flashbacks of screaming babies heard from the other end

Reply September 22, 2015 - edited
CutieKat

Ask them if theyre free during the holidays or are they busy visiting their relatives or working or if they already have a plan. After you asked them planned out where you are going on holidays, what are you going to do over there blah blah blah etc... Do some shopping lots of girls loves to shop lol

Reply September 22, 2015 - edited
Savaah

@windowlegs: tbh i just dont wanna be known as that one loner who sits in her house all day and plays maple. also im very lonely
she responded with "sure probs on the last weekend though"(and a bit more) is this what it feels like to have a social life

Reply September 22, 2015 - edited
WindowLegs

[quote=savaah]@sillybats shes my only friend from school and we talk a lot
@bluemistar just did it and now im scared
EDIT: SHE SAID YES OH GOD[/quote]

oh....so you are wanting to be more than just friends?

how did she respond, was it just a one word answer?

Reply September 22, 2015 - edited
Savaah

@sillybats shes my only friend from school and we talk a lot
@bluemistar just did it and now im scared
EDIT: SHE SAID YES OH GOD

Reply September 22, 2015 - edited
SillyBats

Do you guys at least speak to each other? It'd be kinda weird if you ask out of the blue

Reply September 22, 2015 - edited
Bluemistar

Ask them if they're busy during the holidays, and if not, literally just be like, "hey, we should hang out with each other and do something during the holidays."

Reply September 22, 2015 - edited
Savaah

[quote=lennoxpixie]Ask them if they have any plans for the holidays perhaps?
If they do, and are busy, then you don't have to ask. o-o.

Idk, that's what I would do.[/quote]
i suppose ill try it. thanks!

Reply September 22, 2015 - edited
LennoxPixie

Ask them if they have any plans for the holidays perhaps?
If they do, and are busy, then you don't have to ask. o-o.

Idk, that's what I would do.

Reply September 22, 2015 - edited