So is there anyone that lives with or who currently see's their grandparents on like a weekly basis? I live with my grandma and shes got mild Alzheimer's but honestly she's got the nastiest personality.....it's gotten worse as she's now forgetting things and honestly I get that and understand it's not her fault....but there's night's where she'll refuse to sleep and she's up till 4am....and everyone in the house suffers because of it in the morning as we're going to school/work and dealing with our regular life. Sometimes when you try and correct her she'll have a fit and blast you and toss things around without really giving a dam she'll cuss at you and say some really messed up stuff and you kinda just stand there and go did that just come out of your mouth? (shes 87)....when she doesn't wanna eat she'll legit toss her food to the floor =____= and food takes awhile to prepare....we all try and help to our best ability....and now the talk is coming where a lot of us are being affected by it...other family members won't help out and what else are we to do? I know my parents would feel bad putting her in a nursing home...but...even I am starting to loose my cool now >_< and we've gotten into some serious fights...anyone in the same boat? Or can offer and advise?