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I have not spoken to a friend of mine in a few weeks. We used to be best friends. I feel like it is too late to reestablish the friendship, but I have not replaced them yet so I miss having then there. What should I do??

December 1, 2015

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4evavoodoo

you know someone is a true friend when
" no matter how far you go, when you see each other again its like you nvr left"
so idk ant help it goes where it goes

Reply December 5, 2015
WindowLegs

@tedster0319: i will try it once both of our school holidays start.

thanks everyone else for your input. it has helped me realise that i may as well give it a try

Reply December 2, 2015
Tedster0319

You didn't have a falling out with the person right? You just stopped talking to them for a while? If so, then just start talking to them. One of my good friends, she and I stopped talking to each other for 8 weeks. She randomly texted me a simple "Hey" and we started talking again today. Good friendships last a long time

Reply December 1, 2015
fradddd

@thezigen damn so that's essentially what will happen to me if I see anyone from high school?

I moved from California to Colorado the summer after 3rd grade, and I remember calling my old Cali best friend when I was in about 5th grade. It was super weird and it seemed like he barely remembered me. Didn't seem excited to talk to me at all. And trust me, we were really good friends in California.
So yeah, that made me realize that it's useless to contact old friends. With the modern exception of having maintained contact on Facebook or whatever.

Reply December 1, 2015
zigen

i tried to reconnect with a friend i stopped talking to like 6 months ago. i ran into him 1 day at school and he told me i seemed kind of out of it. we havent talked since

Reply December 1, 2015
fradddd

I haven't seen most of my friends since high school ended, besides my old coworkers including my crush, one of my best friends, and one of my pretty good friends. Doesn't really worry me, I mean I still talk to them on Facebook a little. And I have college friends now.

Reply December 1, 2015 - edited
ShamieeKill

Just hit him/her up.
Simply say something along the lines of how have you been or something.

Why are you scared to reestablish the friendship?

Reply December 1, 2015 - edited
norman897

If they were truly your best friends, things would not go awkward between you two from just a few weeks with no contact.

Reply December 1, 2015 - edited
Killeem

pray 2 jesus aint that what u do ask ur lord n savior 4 help ? ? ?

Reply December 1, 2015 - edited