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What do you basiler think about this, girls with kids.[b][i]I know a lot of people who have kids, and they are not even legally able to drink liquor[/i][/b]. Does that make these girls hoes, or is it the other way around because they didn't get abortions. I am not sure how to take this. The chicks I know with kids are independent, work very hard, and are generally very nice. Even if they have 3 kids. So what do you think, should girls with kids be looked at differently? Take note, the women are the ones that are still with their kids unlike the fathers. I FOR ONE, admire them, just for the simple fact that they care for their child.

November 7, 2013

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lettucing

[quote=xdarkshynobi]It's not even like that; to a degree, it's fine if you are not ready, but i know a chick who has had more then 3 abortions. I know of only 3 times. SHE IS ONLY 16 RIGHT NOW. Is she a hoe? When is the moral line crossed. It just makes me feel uneasy, to hear about girls who would rather do thing like this, but when a women decides to tighten up and have her child they get treated terrible. Even in this thread, I see people bad mouthing them. It really isn't right.[/quote]

someone needs to learn about birth control?

Reply November 8, 2013
Zoneflare4

[quote=acuppa]One of my friends had twin girls when she was 19. Didn't change my opinion of her at all (why would it?) but I was concerned about the money situation. Everything went well for them, though, and her daughters are 6 now. Cute kids, too.

...I think this thread was meant for teens.[/quote]
I got a bad version. My friend got knocked up when she was 16 by a 28 year old guy. Granted she doesn't blame her mistake on hormones or any other crap which is nice to hear but not too much respect her having 2 more kids with two other guys. She is a good mom but she need to grow upand start acting like an adult.

Reply November 8, 2013
xdarkshynobi

[quote=simaini]uh, how does getting an abortion make you a hoe?[/quote]

It's not even like that; to a degree, it's fine if you are not ready, but i know a chick who has had more then 3 abortions. I know of only 3 times. SHE IS ONLY 16 RIGHT NOW. Is she a hoe? When is the moral line crossed. It just makes me feel uneasy, to hear about girls who would rather do thing like this, but when a women decides to tighten up and have her child they get treated terrible. Even in this thread, I see people bad mouthing them. It really isn't right.

Reply November 8, 2013 - edited
nindow

the ones i dont like are the ones the abandon their kids. otherwise, my opinion of said single mother would depend on whatever happened in their life. then again, im not interested in dating single mothers.

Reply November 7, 2013 - edited
acuppa

One of my friends had twin girls when she was 19. Didn't change my opinion of her at all (why would it?) but I was concerned about the money situation. Everything went well for them, though, and her daughters are 6 now. Cute kids, too.

...I think this thread was meant for teens.

Reply November 7, 2013 - edited
voyance

As a potential romantic interest, I'd view them as "damaged goods". I'm not implying that my identity/person is perfect or high quality.
As a person, if they're truly independent, hard working, and responsible from the moment they had a child, then yes, I admire them.
If they're below 21 or someone who can't provide a nice, stable life for the kid and possibly still keep getting more kids, I pity them for their insane idiocy. They need to learn.

In general, I view them as irresponsible idiots who fudged up their opportunities.

Reply November 7, 2013 - edited
iDrinkOJ

i don't like the ones that are attached to their baby's dad aka the one that got her pregnant and she wants to date a new guy... what you expect 2 guys to share you....

Reply November 7, 2013 - edited
Zoneflare4

No chance in hell. Why should I settle for a chick who acted dumb as a teenager and brought something into this world that she wasn't prepared for? I've heard all the excuses and don't buy a single one.

Reply November 7, 2013 - edited
LuckyNinja

The question is why do they have the kid?
Then I would call them stupid for having the kid too early in their life.

However, what you saw is probably a stupid girl finally getting back to together and being better.
So for that, +1

Reply November 7, 2013 - edited
simaini

uh, how does getting an abortion make you a hoe?

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TheseNips

bunch of milfs! i want them!

Reply November 7, 2013 - edited
xdarkshynobi

[quote=djhfreak]I'd view them as being boneheaded, but I wouldn't be like "Damn, that retarded girl had a child before she was 21.".[/quote]

I feel like that is how everyone sees them. It doesn't seem right, that a girl should get such treatment for not having an abortion.

Reply November 7, 2013 - edited
djhfreak

I'd view them as being boneheaded, but I wouldn't be like "Damn, that retarded girl had a child before she was 21.".

Reply November 7, 2013 - edited
Gyroscope

[quote=Gmayn]You mean kids with kids?[/quote]

18+ are considered adults you know.

Reply November 7, 2013 - edited
Gmayn

You mean kids with kids?

Reply November 7, 2013 - edited
demonicrack

Well like you said, they shouldnt be looked as hoes if they work hard and tend for the child. But if they dont give a damn, then yeah.
EDIT: Nevertheless, they still had a baby before 21 so theyre pretty boneheaded there.

Reply November 7, 2013 - edited