Is it better to be single or in a relationship?
Hey guys, SO I've been talking to this girl for about 2 months now. Everything is pretty chill. It's not like we're exclusive or anything. I was at the club tonight and I was dancing with her sorority sister. Then I got an angry text from her saying that she saw me dancing with her sister from across the club and how she was upset with me for cheating? I don't understand how that works. We were never together. The fact that she was at the same club I was without me knowing goes to show how "together" we really were. Anyways, this girl has given me an ultimatum and I have to choose either to commit to her alone or stop talking to her completely. Is it better to be single or be in a relationship? As of now I have the "99 problems" mentality but at the same time bar hopping and clubbing is getting old. What should I do?
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Yeah, both.
She sounds clingy, bad idea.
She either is drunk,
Desperate for a boyfriend,
Or weird.
I'd say stay single.
she seems very possessive to be just a 2 months friend, she better clear things up or you stop talking to her, gfs like that will bring you problems
Seems to me like she's gotten feelings for you. If you guys aren't exclusive and she acts that way, she's just jealous. To answer your question about whether or not you should be committed to her, is hard for anyone to answer but you. If you have feelings for her as well, then I guess you can be committed to her. If not, well then you'll have to let her know, and if she does care, she'll be okay with being friends.
As for me, I've been single for way too long, and there was a point where it was getting old. HOWEVER, my close friends describe their relationships, and let me tell you, I much rather have 99 problems than 1 feminine one.
She sounds over-possessive. Stay away.
@ Shalow40; **
defs. both.
I prefer being in a relationship, but it really doesn't seem that you like her too much.
Depends on the person you're with, but mostly I like being in a relationship.
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Also, not to sound cocky or anything, but I know I can do better. Heck I've done better. Seems like most of you voted single
I vote relationship, but it mostly depends on if you actually like the girl...
3 words, wreck her box
listening to your situation, i would say it doesn't seem like she's worth it.
but then again, it takes time to develop worth.
How can there technically be cheating in a platonic relationship. If we were to assume she thought it one.
Haha don't get into a relationship just for the sake of it.
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