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Eh, I've known this girl for 2 weeks now. She is outstanding. However, she is shy. (I'm shy as well) She doesn't have [i]that[/i] many friends. I want to show her that she is really pretty. *If you're wondering, she's not dumb.* That's perfect <3 I'm going to try and get to know each other better before... you know, I ask her out. She loves to play volleyball and tennis... (I love tennis to the max) Do you think she'll want a boyfriend or not?

I may need some advice on how to get a girl to like me. I work out. I'm kind of a romantic type of guy. You know, a sunset, the waves crashing onto the rocks and kissing kind of romantic. All I'm doing is making her chuckle from funny moments in school. Also, do women like swag better or class?

September 20, 2012

12 Comments • Newest first

bossbau5s

[quote=Wolfz]If you both are shy then you're going to have one hell of an awkward time[/quote]

I'm not too shy now because I got lots of friends recently. But I just don't know what to talk about.

Reply September 22, 2012 - edited
bossbau5s

[quote=fraddBS]Women don't like labels like class and swag.
If they do, they're stupid.[/quote]
Wow, you sir... are right

@iShottedSnow
Yeah, it's almost stupid. She should be one of the most popular girls in school...

@Aervas
I'll make sure

Reply September 22, 2012 - edited
TheHero23

@PolarBass: if he gets friend zoned... he prolly screwed or has to trie to get out of it

Reply September 22, 2012 - edited
Laker1294

Class of course. You could help people if she's a good person she'd notice you. Also ask her if she likes anyone and spend time with her. Get to know her better.

Reply September 21, 2012 - edited
TheHero23

Get closer with her. Get more involved with her life. once you see her alot, then you can make your move. Tennis is a good way to relate to her.

Talk about guys to her and bring up (not rihht away) if she is into anybody and her type of guy.

After a while, ask her if she wants to goto the beach because of your romantic style. Watch the sunset, get in close. If she likes it, your in the zone. If she rejects.... go play maple

Source:

My 11 year old mind =P

Yes its true (i have 2 older bros XD)

Reply September 21, 2012 - edited
NonSonoFronz

Just try talking to her and getting to know her a little bit.
Try bringing up subtle things to see if she would be into getting a boyfriend or whatever you intended on getting out of that relationship.

If it makes you feel better, I'm trying to get to know this chick I've known for about two weeks in my EMT class who seems pretty cool.
After our first clinical and doing a lot together, she even moved to my end of the room and starting talking to me a lot more. Seems a little promising.

Reply September 21, 2012 - edited
Fiercerain

That's cute TS, honestly. Well... you can't really make a person like you, but what you can do is let the person see how much you appreciate their company.

Reply September 20, 2012 - edited
bossbau5s

[quote=gangar32]@bossbau5s: well does she enjoy your company?[/quote]

Well, I do make her chuckle/laugh when we sit together.

@TheHero23
Ahahaha, I have two older brothers too.

@spring786
Do girls really like it if I'm nice to them? Another question... is it true that most women like class than the term "swag"?

Reply September 20, 2012 - edited
Oyster

Shy girls like guys who are a little romantic- actually which girls doesn't
They also like it when guys pay special attention to her, like the things she says and you remember, or what she wears, the little stuff.
Maybe you should try and ask her out on a date/dinner, usually if a girl likes a guy, she'll most likely dress up for dinner and you see her, compliment her (stay away from the word-'cute', it's a confusing compliment-some girls take it as an insult; use 'beautiful' or 'gorgeous' instead).
Depending on the tone of how you said it, teasing a girl sometimes can get you friendzoned.
Good luck

Reply September 20, 2012 - edited
bossbau5s

[quote=gangar32]you wont get any closer by not talking to her[/quote]

I'm talking to her little by little
Which may not affect this situation.

Reply September 20, 2012 - edited
Mewtwo

With this small paragraph of not much detail about this girl us Basilers will be able to answer your question.

Reply September 20, 2012 - edited
bossbau5s

[quote=gangar32]talk to her and find out[/quote]

That's what I'm trying to do... But I need to get closer. So not yet.

Reply September 20, 2012 - edited