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Im scared that this guy is gonna kill himself

Theres this guy in my class who has HUGE eyebrows and eyelashes and he just looks funny with he's HUGE front teeths and weird deep voice sounds like he has a cold all the time.
We make fun of him a lot in school but not something serious. But when it stack up, it's seems like he has a lot of pain inside of him. I saw him today waiting for the buss alone and he looks sad in class... Since valentines day is about to come Im serously scared that he might kill himself (or out of rage just shave his eyebrows and eyelashes and take out his teeths or something)
And today I asked my friend if he feels like me and he said he laugh at him cuz he's annoying and everyone do it and because he's an idiot. Well... I just don't know how I can help since if I'll talk to him he might be really annoyed and leave. What now?

February 13, 2013

26 Comments • Newest first

abi232

Of all the people around him, how'd you end up being the only one wanting to be a hero? Personally, I'd let nature take its course. Let him make his choices, for better or for worse.

Reply February 14, 2013
Rondragon123

[quote=Dorks]"(or out of rage just shave his eyebrows and eyelashes and take out his teeths or something)"
Oh god that visual just dismantled your thing about him killing himself.

Have you ever actually tried talking to him? If he ends up not being too annoying or something perhaps you can be friends.[/quote]

So today I tried not annoying him and that's what happend
I say something, he start to say why I said it (the something is connected to history class and not to him) and then I say why I said what I said and prove that he's wrong and then he say I don't care about that thing u said.
I mean this is just stupid. If u didn't care for the first place why would u even talk? -_-

Reply February 14, 2013
Dorks

"(or out of rage just shave his eyebrows and eyelashes and take out his teeths or something)"
Oh god that visual just dismantled your thing about him killing himself.

Have you ever actually tried talking to him? If he ends up not being too annoying or something perhaps you can be friends.

Reply February 14, 2013
zentai

Why do people insist on making other people feel like crahp just for the way they look, I hope your school does get massacred.

Reply February 14, 2013
1337yourmom

If you feel that way then stop what you're doing lol. If you can't control others, control yourself.

Reply February 14, 2013
AoiHorizon

[quote=Rondragon123]I was in his situation and ppl. Laughed at me cuz I'm thin. I'm at the 10th grade but weigh about 88 pounds. And it was like that till we reached to the 7th grade or something.
I know how he feel so that's why Im the only one who feel bad for him. I can't be a leader cuz of my "rank" of how "cool" I am and if I'll help him I'll become the new target. And i don't want to go back to that dark place.[/quote]

You dont have to stand up for him, just dont pick on him. He'll have 1 less person messing with him.

Reply February 14, 2013
Rondragon123

[quote=evaporatedd]If you were bullied, what would you do? How would it feel to have no friends and get talked about in front of your face and behind your back? What would be one thing you wish to have? Use these questions to help yourself feel how the victim feels. Then, be the first one to stand up for that guy. If you just keep on bullying, you're just harming someone that can be the nicest thing ever. Besides, being a follower isn't good. Be a leader. Do what you think is right, and if you get caught bullying, you will suffer the consequences. Prevent all these things to happen. Save someone's life and grant their wish. Be their friend. Stand up for them. You will feel like you have accomplished something. Now, go think about how you want your future to be.[/quote]

I was in his situation and ppl. Laughed at me cuz I'm thin. I'm at the 10th grade but weigh about 88 pounds. And it was like that till we reached to the 7th grade or something.
I know how he feel so that's why Im the only one who feel bad for him. I can't be a leader cuz of my "rank" of how "cool" I am and if I'll help him I'll become the new target. And i don't want to go back to that dark place.

Reply February 14, 2013
evaporatedd

If you were bullied, what would you do? How would it feel to have no friends and get talked about in front of your face and behind your back? What would be one thing you wish to have? Use these questions to help yourself feel how the victim feels. Then, be the first one to stand up for that guy. If you just keep on bullying, you're just harming someone that can be the nicest thing ever. Besides, being a follower isn't good. Be a leader. Do what you think is right, and if you get caught bullying, you will suffer the consequences. Prevent all these things to happen. Save someone's life and grant their wish. Be their friend. Stand up for them. You will feel like you have accomplished something. Now, go think about how you want your future to be.

Reply February 14, 2013
Doutei

does he look like -Rock Lee-?

Reply February 13, 2013
mechibi

Send him flowers and chocolate. anonymously

Reply February 13, 2013
ultimo

How bout' you stop being a jerk to him and talk to him. Encourage your friends to stop, once you call them out they will stop. Put them on the spot.

Reply February 13, 2013
SriLankanKen

[quote=Rondragon123]Theres this guy in my class who has HUGE eyebrows and eyelashes and he just looks funny with he's HUGE front teeths and weird deep voice sounds like he has a cold all the time.
We make fun of him a lot in school but not something serious. But when it stack up, it's seems like he has a lot of pain inside of him. I saw him today waiting for the buss alone and he looks sad in class... Since valentines day is about to come Im serously scared that he might kill himself (or out of rage just shave his eyebrows and eyelashes and take out his teeths or something)
And today I asked my friend if he feels like me and he said he laugh at him cuz he's annoying and everyone do it and because he's an idiot. Well... I just don't know how I can help since if I'll talk to him he might be really annoyed and leave. What now?[/quote]

That guy sounds VERY MUCH like me, except for the physical features.

From a suicidal person personally, I will say this.

[i]If you push his limits more than what they can handle he will kill himself I have tried it once and failed, I would do it again if there was a painless way to die. ><[/i] So stop annoying him. Just leave him alone, do not talk to him. Do not approach him. We like to be left alone. Atleast I love to be left alone. I hate it when people come up to me in my AP Economics class and ask me why do I look I am about to die half of the time.

The most important thing is to just apologize and [b]LEAVE HIM ALONE.[/b]

Reply February 13, 2013 - edited
xlGunShotlx

Give him a dancing attire and introduce him to eyeliner.

Reply February 13, 2013 - edited
zentai

[quote=SoCalKing]Probably goes home and microwaves his hamsters.
Food for thought.

P.S don't be surprised when he brings a gun to school and goes on a massacre.
Sometimes the most silent people are also the most dangerous[/quote]

Yay I'm a very silent person! Better start my Valentimes Massacre <3

Reply February 13, 2013 - edited
flverdor

Dont worry, he will probaly just shoot up your school!

Reply February 13, 2013 - edited
suckapow

"we"? i am certain you make fun of this kid.
When that kid does decide to pull a columbine, you better run, better run.

Reply February 13, 2013 - edited
ImGonnaShoot

You're friends and you are jerks. o.o
If you're not going to be nice to them or something, don't talk to them at all. Especially don't bully them.

Reply February 13, 2013 - edited
RiriArchMage

You're a jerk for making fun of him. At least be friendly with him.

Reply February 13, 2013 - edited
tyuli

[quote=SoCalKing]Probably goes home and microwaves his hamsters.
Food for thought.

[b]P.S don't be surprised when he brings a gun to school and goes on a massacre.[/b]
Sometimes the most silent people are also the most dangerous[/quote]

That's a pretty common thing now.

Reply February 13, 2013 - edited
PwNpWnPwN

Is his name tyler? Someone in my school is kinda like that lol

Reply February 13, 2013 - edited
NoJustice

you could speak to a guidance counselor at the school and request that they speak with the kid one on one.

Reply February 13, 2013 - edited
xoqtprincessxo

Be his valentine OP
xoxo

Reply February 13, 2013 - edited
SaneleeBoring

it's on you if he kills himself without even trying to help him out

Reply February 13, 2013 - edited
TheDStar

[quote=SoCalKing]Probably goes home and microwaves his hamsters.
Food for thought.

P.S don't be surprised when he brings a gun to school and goes on a massacre.
[b]Sometimes the most silent people are also the most dangerous[/b][/quote]
Uh-oh.

Reply February 13, 2013 - edited
Chema

[quote=Rondragon123]What now?[/quote]

Point at him and laugh out loud

Reply February 13, 2013 - edited
SoCalKing

Probably goes home and microwaves his hamsters.
Food for thought.

P.S don't be surprised when he brings a gun to school and goes on a massacre.
Sometimes the most silent people are also the most dangerous

Reply February 13, 2013 - edited