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What is wrong with me

So I stumbled upon a certain tumblr and the girl captivated me from that point on. She is beautiful and her posts make so much sense. I can't stop thinking about her even though I have never met her. No other girl in my school even begins to compare to her. Is there something wrong with me to actually be attracted to her without knowing her?

November 2, 2012

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RiverStar

[quote=TrueAtheist]Infatuation, nothing more.[/quote]

I think what this guy said is right. Attraction is okay since it's on the lowest level of emotional connection. You like parts of her personality, that's normal. But in order to experience more than that you would have to get to know her on a more personal level; beyond what she posts on tumblr because it's easy to fake who you are online. Therefore I would disagree with all those people who are talking about love at first sight. I do not believe this exists. Love can only be found when you grow to know someone over time, it shouldn't be instantaneous. That's why so many people 'fall out of love' in the first place.

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bubba127

it's called infatuation

Reply November 2, 2012
killercool9

Don't ask basilers questions like this, you're only gonna get sh@t on lol.

Of course it's normal to like her, it's the same thing as having a crush on a celebrity. Anybody saying you're a stalker is either inexplicable narrow minded, or a basiler... Nvm that last part was a little redundant.

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TrueAtheist

Infatuation, nothing more.

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Herosgate

Yeah dude, Tumblr will do that to you.

Reply November 2, 2012
timmybitty

No there's nothing wrong with you.

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djmaxaaron

[quote=PonyCard]You're 14.[/quote]

15 and a half to be exact.

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Iwantodrawnowhu

[quote=djmaxaaron]It's true. I'm so sad.[/quote]

pathetic

http://www.google.com/imgres?num=10&hl=en&biw=1024&bih=673&tbm=isch&tbnid=BEfcL8kXcWphFM:&imgrefurl=http://funnymama.com/post/95675&docid=4NTqOTWq0GLuJM&imgurl=http://s.funnymama.com/store/120728/95675_v0_600x.jpg&w=600&h=648&ei=2lCTUIqaD6Pi0QGSyIGgCw&zoom=1&iact=hc&vpx=685&vpy=158&dur=767&hovh=233&hovw=216&tx=123&ty=170&sig=101579999647393462827&page=1&tbnh=156&tbnw=154&start=0&ndsp=15&ved=1t:429,i:111

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djmaxaaron

[quote=Iwantodrawnowhu]people just befriend you and then scam you[/quote]

It's true. I'm so sad.

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DaGhettoBoy

Love at first profile picture check Urbandictionary

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Iwantodrawnowhu

[quote=djmaxaaron]omg. What is wrong with me these days. I need someone to talk to.[/quote]

people just befriend you and then scam you

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sidleyhatesyou

Well, this is something you don't really share for starters...

Go out and hang out with some friends.. ugh children these days

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djmaxaaron

omg. What is wrong with me these days. I need someone to talk to.

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gvjko

Nothing wrong with being attracted o people you don't know, i mean look at all Justin Biebers fans

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Deciduous

wouldn't you say you know her via her posts though?
it's just like knowing/"knowing" somebody by their public facade

unless she mostly photo-blogs or reblogs, then yeah it's pretty weird.

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juliacat

Follow her until she loves you.

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HolyDragon

Its a psych thing. Basically a good part of this person is shown and your mind fills in the gaps.

Reply November 2, 2012
Liam

And that is what is called a creeper. and a potential stalker

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