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colinl101 Level 70 Windia Night Walker 3
If you have anything that is on your mind, and don't feel comfortable sharing them with anyone that is close to you, or if you feel it is easier talking about your problems to complete strangers, then go ahead and share them here!

I, along with any other basilers that would also like to help out if they want, will try our very best to help you out and/or give you advice on any situation that you may be facing that you, yourself, may not how to deal with.

There was also an old thread like this long ago by @PookyMooky but that thread has been locked, so I figured I'd try to start another one.
Posted: September 2015 Permalink

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kayfabe Level 95 Zenith Hermit See what games, anime & art kayfabe is intokayfabe
no money
no cute gf
Sep 05 2015
carlyxox Level 245 Windia Blade Master
I had to get my university ID card and the lady that took the picture chose the picture with my double chin creeping out. rt if u cry
Sep 05 2015
colinl101 Level 70 Windia Night Walker 3
I've been really stressing about choosing my major and getting the classes I need.

Also a computer I ordered 2 weeks ago was supposed to be shipped today, but it's shipping mid next week. I hate you cyberpower.[/quote]

Just as @thenoob01 said, it is better to choose a major that you are going to enjoy doing and would want to continue pursuing later on in life. If there isn't an area you are definitely interested in, spend your first semester getting some general education requirements out of the way and filling up extra space with elective classes that you find interesting. Time your time to discover what really interests you, and then pursue it.

Also, I hate shipping too. They're always late for me >.<

Time to let it out.

Design is a pain. Prior knowledge doesn't really help and there was only one class outlining what the project is supposed to be. Four months to build a simple arm that follows what the movement of an actual arm. Most people are doing fine in design because they form huge cliques and mimic each other's designs. Being extremely antisocial, there was no way I could do this class with my current schedule so I dropped it and made my schedule lighter to take it this year. I can just imagine the sneer on my professor's face if he recognizes me. Since he also taught the controls course and was someone I received help from, it's a good chance this will happen.

I'm in Co-op. But my crappy transcript and no notable experience makes me a low chance hire. I failed to find a position in the summer and had to return to my usual summer job at the factory. I can just imagine the sneers and jeers behind my back. I pretend I'm not bothered by this but I'm crushed and broken inside. I can't return there next year. It's a sign I've failed again. If I don't apply to enough courses, I'll receive an F in Co-op. So I half heatedly apply to jobs that I know I won't get just to fill the count; I just hope they don't do something stupid like picking me for things out of my league.

I get a week off before classes start. Since then, my parents have been criticizing my existence. I should be able to do what I want on my week off. Instead I'm called a hopeless case who can't survive in this world. They're right. I'll kill myself after graduation if I can't get a job. I'm already graduating late. I don't want anyone in my past to know what's going on in my life; I'm too ashamed. I've managed to cut all ties with my friends a few years ago to protect myself. If I can't get a decent job, I'll just work myself to the ground and make money to repay my parents who wasted money raising me. Outside I pretend to be fine but I feel completely broken.[/quote]

There's nothing to be ashamed of, I understand the feeling of having people condescend to you almost all of the time, but don't let them get to you that much. Even if you can't get a decent job right now, you still have many years in the future to still get your life back together; be it a few months, a couple of years, as long as you don't lose all hope in yourself, even if it really is extremely late. I know your life must be pretty tough right now but hang in there. I'm glad you were able to share your situation, though. Bottling up things to yourself too much sometimes is what destroys you the most.

Yeah I'm poor[/quote]

Get a job then save up some money from time to time.

Im not venting to the Internet
Honestly having a girlfriend in GENERAL makes a freaking problem, most if not all of my problems stem from having her in my life[/quote]

I'm guessing she's the source to most of the disputes you may be going through with your girlfriend? Is it that you two just don't agree and get along well with each other?

@kayfabe: Don't worry, I feel ya, bro.

@carlyxox: omg i've been through the same situation as you, they are all evil and want us to suffer with having horrible looking pictures.
Sep 05 2015
zetradedd Level 202 Broa Kaiser 4
@colinl101 na man. Here's a summary. We were together for a little while and I developed serious emotions for her. Then I moved far away for school. In order to be with her again I have to do a LOT, and it's very stressful. If I didn't have her in my life I wouldn't have to worry about anything as much really, I could go my own pace towards something that didn't require so much from me.

It's not a bad thing. She's my love, but she does make problems in my life.

There are a lot of issues resulting from the distance as well but fortunately I'm visiting her in a couple weeks, less than two weeks now(!) and I plan on flying out 1-2 more times this year, and at least once again sometime early next year.

I wish I didn't care so damn much about her. I don't know what the heck it is that infected me. I think about her all the freaking time, I want to be with her more than anything else, shes of great importance to me for some reason. We've gone through a lot and for some reason I can never freaking leave her.
Sep 05 2015
windowlegs Level 142 Kradia Buccaneer
Im not venting to the Internet
Honestly having a girlfriend in GENERAL makes a freaking problem, most if not all of my problems stem from having her in my life[/quote]

i thought you broke up with her?
Sep 05 2015
colinl101 Level 70 Windia Night Walker 3
@zetradedd: I'm sure she might feel the exact same way about you as you do with her. Even if it does stress you out a lot due to the distance between you two, it's the fact that you're still willing to be with her despite all of the problems that you two have been through.

It's great to hear that you're gonna be able to visit her in a couple of weeks, though. I hope things will eventually work out for you two, I send my best regards to you, good luck!
Sep 05 2015
xylyls Level 202 Windia Shadower See what games, anime & art xylyls is intoktempo
Just as @thenoob01 said, it is better to choose a major that you are going to enjoy doing and would want to continue pursuing later on in life. If there isn't an area you are definitely interested in, spend your first semester getting some general education requirements out of the way and filling up extra space with elective classes that you find interesting. Time your time to discover what really interests you, and then pursue it.

Also, I hate shipping too. They're always late for me >.<

There's nothing to be ashamed of, I understand the feeling of having people condescend to you almost all of the time, but don't let them get to you that much. Even if you can't get a decent job right now, you still have many years in the future to still get your life back together; be it a few months, a couple of years, as long as you don't lose all hope in yourself, even if it really is extremely late. I know your life must be pretty tough right now but hang in there. I'm glad you were able to share your situation, though. Bottling up things to yourself too much sometimes is what destroys you the most.

Get a job then save up some money from time to time.

I'm guessing she's the source to most of the disputes you may be going through with your girlfriend? Is it that you two just don't agree and get along well with each other?

@kayfabe: Don't worry, I feel ya, bro.

@carlyxox: omg i've been through the same situation as you, they are all evil and want us to suffer with having horrible looking pictures.[/quote]

I have a job. I have savings accounts, money in stocks. but I always want more.
Sep 05 2015
fradddd Level 170 Windia Hero
Getting a girlfriend problems
Sep 05 2015
megazord Level 81 Mardia Blaze Wizard 3 Justaway Guild
someone stole my package.
or the mailman never delivered it in the first place or they put it in the wrong address.
Sep 05 2015
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