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Was she joking or srs?

So, I know this girl very well, and today she said:
Do you love me?
I said totally, but im not really sure if she was serious or not. Was it an actual approach? o.o

November 1, 2013

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Kazno

[quote=VictorXG]@Thief9283
Seemed kind of jokingly.[/quote]

Well if you want to continue having a non-awkward relationship with her then you'd best approach this with a lot of caution, if she was indeed meaning it as some sort of joke and you ended up revealing you actually loved her she might get scared or something and not knowing what to do next as she probably doesn't feel the same way. I honestly don't know how to handle this stuff so well because sometimes like now you really can't know what her intentions are, maybe wait for a girl to post or something lol?
Goodluck

Reply November 1, 2013
Thief9283

@VictorXG:She might've been trying to see your reaction. Just see if she gives off signs of genuine interest, not as a friend but for a relationship.

Reply November 1, 2013
Thief9283

What was her tone like?

Reply November 1, 2013 - edited
VictorXG

@Irony I said Totally. I wasnt sure how to respond
@Kazno I think i like her. We were in Student Council and talking about last year, and then after awhile she asked me: Do you love me? Its totally ok if you do. She seemed to have a half-smile. Confusing </3

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Irony

What was ur response lol

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Kazno

I know exactly how you feel, that sort of crap which girls do really confuses the the hell out of me, especially if I like the girl.
Depends on the context of the conversation though, what were you guys talking about and do you think she likes you/do you like her? What was her reaction to what you said?
I probably would've said the same thing but in that situation...

Some girls just say that for fun or to get a reaction, not typically being serious about it at all.

Reply November 1, 2013 - edited
VictorXG

I meant close, sorry!

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