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Basil what do I do

I'm pretty sure my friend with a boyfriend likes me more than her boyfriend.
She always tells me about how she doesn't feel good enough in their relationship or other stuff that's pretty depressing.
I want them to work out and don't want them to break up and junk, but I'm pretty sure she likes me.
I don't want to call her out on it in a serious way because if I'm wrong she might get mad, but what do I do.
Should I just let her flirt and junk while badmouthing the guy and see what happens? I'm not really sure, it just makes me feel weird.

April 4, 2015

17 Comments • Newest first

xdarkshynobi

It don't matter bro, IT DON'T MATTER. If you think she is sexy don't stop til shes in your car.

Reply April 5, 2015
Minarii

You seem to know what she is doing is wrong and from what you're telling us, she doesn't sound like a very nice person... This is a relationship between her and her boyfriend so it's their responsibility to work things out. If I were you, I'd figure out a way to distance myself from her. That way you're not disrespecting anyone or getting involved in what could potentially be misunderstood as an affair. Best of luck

Reply April 5, 2015
nindow

she sounds like trouble.

Reply April 5, 2015
pinoymystic

[quote=RitoPls]Girls are very selfish, and stupid.[/quote]

humans are freaking selfish. don't dare just point it at girls. some of you guys like to break hearts too.

OT: stop. and stop yourself from thinking selfish thoughts. let her be and let her choose to be who she wants. if she decides to break up with him and then later go onto you, then just wait. (i wouldnt advise that though because ive been in that situation and he went back to his ex.)

just let her decide what she wants to do.

Reply April 5, 2015
TheseNips

[quote=RitoPls]Girls are very selfish, and stupid.[/quote]

I hate girls.

Reply April 5, 2015
spireweb

@BrandonIsBack: it kinda is actually but if he wanted to get with her its better this way then to cheat

Reply April 5, 2015
BrandonIsBack

[quote=spireweb]thats messed up she's a no go, tell her boyfriend whats going on and let him do what he needs to do and after a good month or more after their breakup then you should go for her[/quote]

That seems a bit messed up too though.

Reply April 4, 2015
spireweb

thats messed up she's a no go, tell her boyfriend whats going on and let him do what he needs to do and after a good month or more after their breakup then you should go for her

Reply April 4, 2015
Carbyken

I probably talk to the boyfriend and ask what's causing this in the first place.

Reply April 4, 2015
Reticent

@BrandonIsBack: Does her boyfriend know about her emotional cheating. D: But, honestly. If you do like her, might as well go for her. But I still don't think she likes you. I really think you're just the advice guy since girls are stupid. She may even be using you to make her boyfriend jealous?
Goodlucky with the flirting.

Reply April 4, 2015
iDrinkOJ

Ask her boyfriend for advice.

Reply April 4, 2015
BrandonIsBack

[quote=Reticent]Do you even like her? O.o if it makes you feel weird, drop simple statements like "I really hope you and your boyfriend work out and don't break up"
It doesn't necessarily means she likes you, its probably her putting all her attention on you because she can't put it on her boyfriend since they have problems.[/quote]

I get along with her, I know we have good 'chemistry' or whatever you wanna call it. I don't dislike her, but I can't really say I like her because she has a boyfriend.
Like, I'm not saying I don't want to say it, I just don't really know how she'd act if she didn't have one or whatever...if that makes sense.

Reply April 4, 2015
Torque

error 420 you asked basil

Reply April 4, 2015
Reticent

Do you even like her? O.o if it makes you feel weird, drop simple statements like "I really hope you and your boyfriend work out and don't break up"
It doesn't necessarily means she likes you, its probably her putting all her attention on you because she can't put it on her boyfriend since they have problems.

Reply April 4, 2015
RitoPls

Girls are very selfish, and stupid.

Reply April 4, 2015
BrandonIsBack

[quote=betaboi101]If she cheats on him with you, it just goes to show that she'll cheat on you with someone else.[/quote]

That's true.
Although I don't know if she means to do it or if she's just pushing her affection on to me because she can't with him.

Reply April 4, 2015
betaboi101

If she cheats on him with you, it just goes to show that she'll cheat on you with someone else.

Reply April 4, 2015