Who was your first love?
Read the title! Who were they? Where and how did you meet? What were they like? What attracted you to them? What did you admire about them? Share the details.
I met my first love at the age of 19. Having started University a while back, I lost touch with most of my friends and devoted all my free time to work and studying. After a good semester, I decided to give myself a break and hit up a few old friends. They talked me into hanging out like we used to and it was thanks to them that I met my first love. We hung out as a group, she said something, and without thinking I commented/replied to what she said and managed to get her attention. At the time, I had no intention of dating her, or interest in her in a romantic way. After chatting for a bit, we stepped away from the group to talk alone. We kept in touch for a while, before she started dropping hints of liking me. Eventually we started dating, though I was almost certain that this would be a short-term thing. Something told me that she wasn't too serious about a relationship - that she just wanted someone to flirt with, hook up with, etc. A few weeks later, we broke up, which was no surprise, but we ended up getting back together... which was a surprise. This repeated 3 or 4 times until I realized that I actually do like her. So yeah. Spent a year with this girl, but then she broke up with me.
The story got too long. Sorry. Uhh.. what she was like? Short, cute, sweet when she wanted to be, sassy almost 24/7, Rude sort of, short-fused, impatient, and a bunch of other stuff I willingly overlooked, bec. I liked her.
What I admired about her/what attracted me to her: Her passion for the thing she did, talked about, and lived for? I guess? She was a Psychology major. She was obsessed with Psychopaths, serial killers (she had an unhealthy obsession with them, which worried me), psychologists, and so on. Whenever she spoke about her home country (she was from the Philippines), she sounded so proud, happy, and elated. I loved how whenever we had arguments and fights, she would sometimes break out into her mother tongue and rage at me, bec. it was much easier to piece her thoughts together.
and so yeah. There you go. Now your turn.
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I have no problem saying my first love was (is, rahter) @aestheticlove Pretty obvious, but we met in maple like 5 years ago. Now we are together in real life ayyyy
We had a thing this year but he ended it cause he lost feelings for me. Kinda made me sad and wished he told me rather than ignoring me! But y'know what they say. Many more fish in the sea
I met him when I was 16 years old. He was on a 'just friends' date with a friend of mine. I saw them together and said hello. After that he was looking and smiling at me the whole time and at the end of the evening he came to me and asked my number. He was a really hot guy, everyone had a crush on him and he chose me He was my first love, gave me a necklace with Christmas which I still have. l was heartbroken when he dumped me after 3 months. (He was very insecure when I met him but then he realised every girl thought he was hot so he became a player </3) It took a while before I was over him since he came back and said he loved me everytime when he didn't had a girl. Even when I had a new relationship (my husband now) I still wasn't really over him. My husband knew that back then and gave me the time to figure it out. Hard thing was my husband and my ex became friends since they both love gaming Oh and not to mention 3 of my friends kissed him when I still wasn't over him. Ah well, when you're a teenager almost everything is the end of the world, even guy problems. And even though he hurt me, those 3 months we were together were great. We both moved on and he has a great relationship now too
i dated a guy and he asked for space and i was a psycho b*tch and now he rightfully hates me. learned a lot abt myself after that breakup + am now in a very good relationship heheeh
i never knew what love was until she dump me.
met in high school through a friend in seminar class.
that last arguing part sounded so cute omg.
if a girl is short and cute she has my heart <3
I've never had a love who is mine.
this girl
I like her she liked me
after a while we then talked on skype
then she added some random dude that I didn't know, she had so many interests with him
I felt left out
So I was quiet for the whole time. I was pissed off too, I would always respond to her in a quiet manner and whenever she asks me whats wrong I will just say "I'm tired". I then ended the call and went to bed, I got cheered up from a streamer named phantomlord. Thank god for him. If it wasn't for him I wouldn't have been able to sleep. But now I just don't talk to her anymore, one of her friends told me that she has dated many boys in the past and dumps them for another target, so I dumped her so it wouldn't have happened to me.
yet to meet mine
[quote=Plenair]She moved in one house down when I was 9. I saw her and fell for her figuratively and literally. Nine years later, I've exchanged words with her here and there but haven't really talked to her for 6 years. Other than being neighbors, we're pretty much strangers at this point. At this point I'm not sure if I still love her or I'm just obsessed.[/quote]
That's pretty much the situation with me and my first love. I mean, we've been broken up for 6 or 7 months, I guess, but we're pretty much just strangers. Have not talked in ages. She's over me, I know that for sure. But I'm still here wondering if I'm still in love with her, or if I miss the love aspect of the relationship, or if it was just me being in love with the idea of loving her, or what? I don't know anymore. Maybe it's just an obsession, which is definitely unhealthy.
Chanyeol and D.O. from EXO.
[quote=BridgeJump]Zack Effron[/quote]
What she said <3
Zack Effron
some girl in 7th grade
we went out and i broke up with her a month later
it was a good call since she turned out to be some gigantic weeaboo
Can't remember
I met her when I was about 13. I didn't really pay attention to her until the day we started dating. It seems like she liked me a lot, and she was good friends with my best friend. When I was at my best friend's place playing Halo 3, she was talking with him on the phone. One thing led to another and he handed me the phone while I was blowing up some alien baddies and told me I just got a girlfriend. So I said okay cool and told her to come hang out w/ us and she came and she gave me a smooch at the end and then I slobbered over her cheek the next day at school to repay her and then things went uphill from there until they went downhill and we broke up a year and a half later.
kyou fujibayashi
This girl.
We met.
We went out.
I moved.
We stopped talking as much.
I moved back.
She moved away.
She got a boyfriend.
I'm forever alone.