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I don't see anything wrong with that. That he still has it doesn't mean that he still has feelings for her. It can be just the memories or something. I still got the necklace my ex (we only were together for 3 months though) gave to me 8 years ago. I don't have feelings for him anymore but I just want to keep it

Just like every moment as carefree as you can without endangering others. Chances are you and him are only each others pasttimes but you can make beautiful memories to have flashbacks with when you grow old

[quote=halfway]Throw bae around as loosely as you used it in this thread and no one will take you seriously when you call them that!

OT:If he got a necklace with a girl when they weren't even together then I see nothing wrong with that. He had feelings for a girl that didn't have feelings for him and maybe he still does but regardless of that fact what is the necklace going to do? If he throws it away is that really going to make you happy and fix the problem? No. That's not going to change the fact that he's still communicating with the girl that rejected him and potentially has feelings for which seems to be the problem you have with him. I'm not saying that you're correct to feel that way because I really don't think you are, if you're in a relationship and you feel like your partner is into another person more than they're into you then that's a much bigger problem that you should be spending your time figuring out instead of an item he has from someone that's important to him. I think the necklace is extreme nitpicking by you if your real concern is if your boyfriend actually likes you or is with you because you're the next best thing. The necklace isn't the deciding factor in whether or not he's going to be faithful to you.[/quote]

I feel like this what I wanted to hear lol.But I'll drop it and move on . Thank you so much for your advice!

[quote=zentai]I wasn't really following but from what I comprehend you can do one of two things.

1. Find someone that actually has a better interest in you
2. Stand out to this guy more and get him to have more interest in you over her.

There was this girl in hs I liked and we were sorta in a flirtationship , she used to give me notes in math class (Grade 12 btw) Which I still keep, I don't have strong feelings for her anymore. But I can't really throw it away either not that it bothers me though.[/quote]
Thank you for sharing your experience! I guess I should've looked it that way

I wasn't really following but from what I comprehend you can do one of two things.

1. Find someone that actually has a better interest in you
2. Stand out to this guy more and get him to have more interest in you over her.

There was this girl in hs I liked and we were sorta in a flirtationship , she used to give me notes in math class (Grade 12 btw) Which I still keep, I don't have strong feelings for her anymore. But I can't really throw it away either not that it bothers me though.

[quote=RitoPls]I'll date you bae.[/quote]
Throw bae around as loosely as you used it in this thread and no one will take you seriously when you call them that!

OT:If he got a necklace with a girl when they weren't even together then I see nothing wrong with that. He had feelings for a girl that didn't have feelings for him and maybe he still does but regardless of that fact what is the necklace going to do? If he throws it away is that really going to make you happy and fix the problem? No. That's not going to change the fact that he's still communicating with the girl that rejected him and potentially has feelings for which seems to be the problem you have with him. I'm not saying that you're correct to feel that way because I really don't think you are, if you're in a relationship and you feel like your partner is into another person more than they're into you then that's a much bigger problem that you should be spending your time figuring out instead of an item he has from someone that's important to him. I think the necklace is extreme nitpicking by you if your real concern is if your boyfriend actually likes you or is with you because you're the next best thing. The necklace isn't the deciding factor in whether or not he's going to be faithful to you.

Why cant people either just use the names or simply just say their relation to the person instead of making up fake names or using letters?
OT neither of your have any trust in the relationship so you should break it off.

I'll date you bae.

[quote=CherryPop]I decided to use my stalking skills and sees he likes her pictures on Instagram and still has contact with her via social media

There's a story to how we got together, and I feel like he made his decisions because he didn't had that chance to be with her.
I asked him out, but he said to "He wanted try things out." Then like after a date I guess you could say it was "Official" I remember he said "It could be fun", as in a friendly way..

But I feel like he doesn't really return my feelings the same, but has his feelings for P and let it get the best of him. As it being more "what could've been".

But I don't know what I should do. I know I'm overreacting, it's only because I'm confused on what to do
Like what should I do[/quote]

A relationship is built on trust and communication.

he definitely still likes her imo