How to stop hating someone?
I hate some people. I just [b]hate[/b] them. Especially my classmate. I have 5 male classmates, and 1 other female.
She is a dork. She lies about me, probably because she is an outcast and I'm more popular than her. She tries to get attention by messaging people, camwhoring (while looking terrible) and acting tough over the internet. She pisses me off, her stupidity is so damn annoying.
I tend to be kind, I really love my friends. However, I really hate this girl and want to hurt her. But at the same time I don't. I don't want to be a grouchy asshole.
How can I stop hating people like her? I want to push her out of my life, but I can't as I go to a very small school. [b]ARGH[/b]
January 18, 2011
11 Comments • Newest first
If she's doing all that to you. She wants your attention. The girl is obviously jealous of you.
Dont lower yourself to her lvl. Just ignore her.
[quote=CalicoJack]Hahaha... Oh man, TS. Oh.. uh.. err wait... are you being serious? Cuz that's... that's a little scary TS. You sound like a mean person in that context, no offense intended.
OT: Instead of hating, befriend your enemies.[/quote]
I know I sound mean, and I don't want to be.. which is why I want to somehow stop hating this girl. I have no idea what to do, and like the person 2 above you said, it's impossible to ignore her..
My advice to you is: don't talk to her, you can't really ignore her if she's around you, if she's anything like the girl I knew she starts going psycho and you feel bad. If she talks to you put on a fake smile and pretend. Block her on IM, delete her off FB, KEEP her number on your phone so that when she msgs you, you know and don't reply.
[quote=ThiefCerenit]I'd just make fun of her in public. She'll either back off or piss off, which might cause her to make mistakes. hehe.hehehe.[/quote]
People do that to her already. I myself don't as the consequences would be bad. She's already fed her parents lies, and they complained to the school. The teachers of course believe her, because everybody dislikes her, so they used to give me the cold shoulder even though I get good grades and everything.
If I really [b]did[/b] do something to her her parents would probably stand in front of the whole school and announce how idiotic I am.. Yes, they're that protective over their daughter.
Just ignore her. Considering that she's unpopular, her opinion probably won't matter much.
[quote=Hyperstep]That's not going to solve a damn thing[/quote]
You only say that because you haven't tried it.
Ignore her completely and don't take her seriously.
Literally just ignore her. If she says something to you, act like she didn't say anything.
I personally don't think you should feel bad for hating her. It sounds like she deserves to be hated.
From the way you've described her, I can't really get myself to sympathize with you. I know you may hate this girl, but there's no need to put her down by calling her an outcast or a dork.
The only reason you're being bothered by her is because you're letting her get into your head. If you stopped associating with her, she'll eventually stop. By responding to her provocations, you're only encouraging her.
Well she seems very irritating from your description of her. Just [i]try[/i] to ignore her. She'll be out of your life for good once you graduate, unless you go to the same college or something.
Just ignore her and relax. When she talks to you, don't talk back or better, keep an opened mind.