Just broke up with my Girlfriend
Okay, so yesterday i broke up with my first girlfriend ever and i'm really, really, really sad at the moment. :'(
Do you guys/girls have any suggestion on how to get over it?
Thank you in advance.
May 26, 2011
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@danfresh666: Judging from your dislike of your ex's family time, I have the feeling that you're a tad bit clingy.
Don't worry, I'm sure someone will be willing to spend every waking second with you.
[quote=IAmDoomsday]That was a very good example.
Who does she think she is by putting her family ahead of a boyfriend she had for 4 months.
She's a terrible person and you are an angel.[/quote]
Now, i know that i can find someone better and [i]that[/i] person will give me enough love.
I think she was playing with you.
Get revenege by making out with her best friend and next BF
You watched justin bieber movie, leaving her was a wise decision.
[quote=danfresh666]I broke up with her because she never did an effort for our relationship and i was doing all the efforts. I watched Justin Bieber movie with her and many other things but she never did anything for me and we've been together for 4 months.
On the weekends, she never wanted to be with me [b]she was always with her family [/b]and she didn't care much about me.
I know i did the good choice but it was my first crush ever and i'm really sad because i had so much love to give to her and i don't know why she acted like that with me i was the best boyfriend ever. I did everything she wanted and i remember she said to me that she was really happy that i was in her life :'([/quote]
That was a very good example.
Who does she think she is by putting her family ahead of a boyfriend she had for 4 months.
She's a terrible person and you are an angel.
[quote=QoPunch]Get another gf. Isn't it obvious?[/quote]
Can't find one anywhere.. And i want to love a person before getting into the relationship.
i'm bitter now thanks you op.
[quote=Takeyashi]Maybe she didnt want her parents to know?[/quote]
Her parents knew it, but she didn't wanted me to go to her house. And she never wanted to go to my house.
its not like you get cheated on by a freaking hideous monkey, everyone keep throwing backup words to recover your once funny self, and even worse you know can only relate to one taylor swift song, and you once knew as one of the lookers at school can't get back into a relationship due to how pissed you are atm
that feeling after a few girls, you think you've found the one and shes a siut with an l.
seems okay to me
[quote=MSLovelyIdiot]Remember that you did it for a reason. It was for the best, and it's okay to feel sad.
If you feel sad, then feel sad It takes time to get over someone.[/quote]
Aww thank you.
OT: and yes maybe i should take a long walk to refresh ideas but i can't at 7pm because im working so i think i'll take a long walk tomorrow at 10am.
You probably scared her off by being clingy.
Anyways, just do other activities and try to get your mind off her. Eventually, you're going to get over it.
[quote=xNightAngelx13]Why did you break up with her?[/quote]
I broke up with her because she never did an effort for our relationship and i was doing all the efforts. I watched Justin Bieber movie with her and many other things but she never did anything for me and we've been together for 4 months.
On the weekends, she never wanted to be with me she was always with her family and she didn't care much about me.
I know i did the good choice but it was my first crush ever and i'm really sad because i had so much love to give to her and i don't know why she acted like that with me i was the best boyfriend ever. I did everything she wanted and i remember she said to me that she was really happy that i was in her life :'(
Remember that you did it for a reason. It was for the best, and it's okay to feel sad.
If you feel sad, then feel sad It takes time to get over someone.
This works when I broke up with my boyfriend. Even though I did it, I still felt sad about it. Maybe some regret. But just take a long half hour walk at around 7pm after supper. And let your mind relax and think about what it wants. When you come home, you'll feel a bit better and repeat if you want. We were 2 years together and I had to move back to Japan so I broke up to ease the thing, we're still good friends now but I remember being really sad about it.
Why did you break up with her?