Would you date a pregnant girl?
It's something that came up at work, and I have been interested on everybodys responses and reasons about it lately.
Okay let's say you met this pregnant girl, and you're single. The babies daddy ditched her, doesn't want anything to do with the baby. You really like her, but she is currently pregnant. Would you put that aside, and still be with her, or what.
Personally, I think I would put it aside. I think when you can put that aside, it shows that you like them, for them. Not their looks or so. And I personally don't mind helping people who I care about out financially if it came to that.
What about you guys?
December 12, 2012
23 Comments • Newest first
Typo on the title. Supposed to be pregnant "woman" not girl.
OT: Not really I wouldn't.
awkward when the day the kid finds out you arent his/her dad
Dunno I'm no lesbian.
And probably not
Pay off my tuition and also take care of me and I'll think about it. :v
If I were a guy..I wouldn't even bother dating the pregnant girl.. She needs to take responsibility for her own child. I'm not even ready to raise a child myself..
I am in no way ready to play daddy, heck I have an almost phobia of long term relationships, hence my stint of 1-2 month flings.
@zoneflare2: Duuuuuude it's not me having the weird times. And it's your own fault since you're NEVER on MSN (aside from today lol) and I don't chat with people much on basil <.<
Helllll no.
@zoneflare2: o: < pfffft we don't even talk all that much compared what I used to talk to others lol
Uh no way.
Golddiggers
Depends.
[quote=GodCantHelp]No I wouldn't.
I'm 20 years old, and girls I like are usually 18-23 years old, so for a girl to be pregnant at that age she is in my eyes [b]white trash[/b].
In addition I don't like children, they revolt me. Wouldn't want to take care of someone else's kid either.[/quote]
White trash? HARSH, why would you think that? o.o
Sorry, I'm not hetero
[quote=ErvTheMan]That's what Im saying. Like financial wise and all that she can go seek child support from the babies daddy, but if like its near the end of the month and she needs like some formula or something. Id help her out, but I mean Id do that for even a friend. Like have the girl realize, you're there for her. Not the kid.[/quote]
She's a mother. She has a kid. If you're there for [i]her[/i], you can't ignore the fact she has to raise a child...
Unless it's a really casual relationship and you've established that's what it is, there's no getting around the kid; you'll have to accept the role of a father sooner or later.
[quote=metaghost4]If you care for her, you care. A kid won't make a difference. She just needs to know that I'm her boyfriend, and not the kid's father.[/quote]
That's what Im saying. Like financial wise and all that she can go seek child support from the babies daddy, but if like its near the end of the month and she needs like some formula or something. Id help her out, but I mean Id do that for even a friend. Like have the girl realize, you're there for her. Not the kid.
No, I don't want the responsibility of someone else's kid.
[quote=CrazeeFun]no cause i won't be able to F her[/quote]
Actually... *facepalm* never mind.
OT: That is a WHOLE lot of bagagge, both in a physical and metaphorical sense. Proceed with extreme caution. In the case it comes to this, which it most likely will especially if you're serious about her... are you ready to be a potential father figure, or maybe ultimately the actual (step) father of this child?
EDIT: For my personal answer, I suppose it would depend on the situation with the biological father. I don't mind children at all and would be more than supportive.
Personally, if I were a guy, probably not. She should have taken care to not get pregnant beforehand and I'd have to assume she's not the smartest person then (or that she doesn't have the best taste either). Also, I wouldn't wanna have to take care of another man's child honestly. at this point I'm not even ready for a baby myself and if I have any then I want them to be mine.
There's probably more reasons but I can't think of them atm I'm too tired
[quote=ErvTheMan]None of you are giving reasons. [/quote]
Maybe because you would help with the baby. Pay for it. Can't have fun with her because of the baby. Lots of reasons dude.
[quote=ErvTheMan]None of you are giving reasons. [/quote]
You didn't ask for one. So most people assume yes or no. Plus, reasons are obvious to the common person.
None of you are giving reasons.
Bad idea.