Girl Problems Help Please
I'm sure some of you remember me making a bunch of threads about a month ago about girls. A month later, I'm now more or less over my ex. I still want her in my life, but nothing she does really bothers me. This new girl and I are sort of a thing, and NOW my ex begins to tell me how she feels. I wanted my ex back for about 2 months after we broke up, and we broke up two and a half months ago. I went to Childish Gambino last night with this girl I like where we were holding hands, kissing, dancing, and being like a couple. My ex was there and saw us, then get super upset. I tried to talk to her and see if she was alright, but she smiled and said don't worry about it.
I feel bad because I know I'm the one putting her through pain, and nothing I can do is going to help. Last night, the night when she saw me with this other girl, she pours out all her feelings on how breaking up was a mistake and she wants me back, can't see herself with anyone else. I apologized and said I want to be friends, now she's extremely upset.
Someone make me feel not like bad person, please. </3
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you should just get back with ur ex behind ur currents back and when ur ex posts pics of you 2 on FB let them dual over your heart
[url=http://www.basilmarket.com/user/Gmayn/forum/threads]I read some of these. I'm sorry but they seem stupid to me o-o[/url]
just remember, she is a hoa for agreeing to brrak up. >.<
If you don't want her back then you're done. You're not responsible for her happiness, if she wanted you she should have worked to keep you. You guys broke up, she has no right to be upset over you moving on and being happy with another girl. You need to put her down or you'll end up upsetting the girl you're with right now.
just get over it. you wanted her (your ex) back and im assuming u told her (didnt see her other threads) and if she didnt get closure that is her problem.and how convenient is it that now she tells you all these things when youre with another girl? thats just bs
YOU are happy now with this other girl and that is what is most important. dont let he feelings bog you down, it's not your fault.
who cur you're with the new girl now and i assume you're both happy with each other. The ex will just have to get over you.
Turn off your phone for 3 days straight.
I don't remember your other thread(s). Who broke up with whom? I'm going to assume that since you wanted her back after the break up, she was the one who broke it off with you.
If that's the case, then why do you even care, man? Where was all of this 'I can't see myself with anyone else,' crap from her when you wanted her back? She only wants you back because she's jealous. Don't you see she's just an immature hoe? Don't take her back -- don't even be her friend -- because it's just going to bite you in the ass later. You got this new girl now -- you're in the process of forgetting about your ex! Don't throw it all away because she said something she didn't mean when she was hysterical; you and I both know you're better than that. She broke up with you, she didn't want you back when you gave her the opportunity -- leave it at that. Did she apologize when she put you through pain? Exactly. Girls are crazy and don't want to be held accountable for anything. If she really wanted you back, she would have done so before you found this new girl. I know you can do better.
Stay strong, bud. :^)
@mitarumetaro hehe
I don't want my ex back. I'm extremely happy where I am right now, but my ex is just pouring all her emotions out onto me. I'm not able to give back similar feelings, so my lack of words makes me feel like I could be doing something else. I made it clear I want to be friends with her and nothing more.
@ruew
Friends with the same friends, so we see each other quite a bit. I went to this concert with the girl I'm interested in right now, and my ex went with her friend who is good friends with the girl I was with. They decided to sit with us, but I wasn't going to let that stop me from making my move.
well to stop being down on yourself would require you to grow a pair and stop mopping around. Why do you even want this girl in your life if all she brings is drama? Why is she always at the events you are? do you live in a small town or something? or is she stalking you? i guess it could be common interests but every time you make one of these threads, she just so happens to be at the event you're at. Being friends with your ex usually isn't a good idea, especially in your situation.
move on, [url=http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=moSFlvxnbgk]let it go[/url].
Welp, man. That's kinda what happens when you resort to rebounds after like two months. You kind of burned a few bridges, but don't be too hard on yourself about it. Naturally, you needed an escape from that whole emotional stress because you felt lonely. I'd say you haven't done anything horribly wrong, it's just unfortunate to actually see your ex in that situation. What you need to do is avoid her for a good amount of time.
You should break up with your current GF, and just complain on basil about how you don't understand why both of them act the way that they do, and how they are just like every other girl on the planet. It's the only sensible thing to do. It's what @RitoPls would do.