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[quote=5outof5]You don't choose who you fall in love with. [/quote]

So you say that you can't fight/control it?

You don't choose who you fall in love with.

My cousin's cousin non blood related girl liked me. I found out about it from my step-brother because he use to pimp on so many girls, he even have a b*** list, what he calls it. At first I was irritated because I didn't feel the way she felt. I also felt kind of arrogant towards her. She came to my house one day with my sister and they had some ice cream. She asked me if I wanted some but I told her I didn't want any. She still insist and she went to get a bowl and gave me 3/4 of her cups leaving her with 1/4. I felt really irritated that time but I also felt sorry after ward to her because I was being a jerk and she didn't know what I know. Later after a couple months or so I just started thinking about her. I even felt like I was obsess with her. I stalk her FB and all. Anyways, it doesn't matter anymore. I have a gf now and its been 3 years since I've been so crazy in my minds for example, back then I couldn't sleep at all. I just kept thinking how easy it was for me now that I know her secret and I kept thinking and thinking but I never took the time to go confessed. Now she is talking with some mexican guy online and they have been webcaming. She even introduced me to him. I so wanted to steal her from him because it would be easy but that dude seem like a nice guy. I decided to give it up and now I am with my gf. She is the best thing that's ever happened to me. I am sleeping well now. Back then it took me over 4 hours to go to sleep. Sometimes I couldn't even sleep and had to go running in the dark.

Sometimes. I mean, I'm a nice guy -- I'm bad at rejecting girls -- so if they start liking me, I kinda just go with it.

i just assume everyone hates me and i'll never find love and will die alone

I used to do that when I was like 13 and insecure about myself. Now I'm kind of picky.

I like any girl that's the least bit nice to me. I think I'm either desperate or delusional.
There someone I talk to. She's really nice polite to me so I'm being all delusional and thinking she's really smart(which she is) and attractive. But deep down I know she's only nice in a professional way, probably nice to everyone, and she would never like me that way. And besides she's married lol.

Nope I'm quite picky sadly... gotta lower my standards and stop thinking too much.

A few times, yes.

Don't think of it as desperation. Sometimes I just realize how attractive someone else is once they start trying to het my attention.

I'm the opposite. I end up not liking the other person unless I genuinely like him back. haha

lol no. That's not how it works.

[quote=metaghost4]The girls I like eventually come to dislike me.[/quote]

wow ... what a shocker

Not really. I would only like someone, if I actually like someone.

[quote=Craftinrock]It's the opposite, if I like someone I expect them to like me too because I'm so great.[/quote]

you sound like @augustrain she's great and confident

I don't think so. Well there have been people who I liked for no apparent reason besides "attraction" and "infatuation", and eventually that led to me thinking they liked me, because of wishful thinking.