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My self esteem is in the dumps. Need help

Girlfriend is superior in everything compared to me. Academics, sports, games and etc. I even prided myself on being gold 5 finally in League of Legends only to have her stomp me with her diamond account which I had no idea about.

If this goes on idk : ( halp

August 31, 2013

22 Comments • Newest first

xorisa

At least she's not superior than you in terms of strength right? Lol.

Reply August 31, 2013
lemoncandy

step it up then.. or find someone else who doesn't make you feel inferior.

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dr4g0ns1ay3r

Am I the only one that has no problem with this situation? Femdom yum

Reply August 31, 2013
Croodle

Your chance to write another story about it. <3

Reply August 31, 2013
DarkkBladez

[quote=ItsReal]Girlfriend is superior in everything compared to me. Academics, sports, games and etc. I even prided myself on being gold 5 finally in League of Legends only to have her stomp me with her diamond account which I had no idea about.

If this goes on idk : ( halp[/quote]

shes better than you at sports?

Reply August 31, 2013
MeshMage

[quote=ItsReal]Girlfriend is superior in everything compared to me. Academics, sports, games and etc. I even prided myself on being gold 5 finally in League of Legends only to have her stomp me with her diamond account which I had no idea about.

If this goes on idk : ( halp[/quote]

as long as you have the bigger p*nis it's fine

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isiah13

so your depressed b/c you became the women and she became the man? fair enough.

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Ineqt

[quote=Wallflowers]Shouldn't you be proud of her? If this is so important to you just catch up to her. Use it as a motivation. Seems like you're just mad and butthurt over the fact that she's more "successful" than you.[/quote]

I agree, the idea of a relationship is you two being on the same team. That being said, the other persons success should be good news for you even though it may be something you wanted yourself. In the end you're looking out for your significant others best interest along with your own. If she's successful be happy for her and use it as motivation to better yourself. If you turn a "friendly competition" into a rivalry then you'll be looking for a new girlfriend soon.

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xenonedge

gank her jungle and show her whos the alpha

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MapleFlow

At least she's still going out with you.

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icoleslawderp

Use her as an motivation.
Besides, whats wrong with a girl being better than you.

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pieshadowxx

I would love to have a super athletic and intelligent girlfriend who plays computer games.

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vengfulboi

Misogyny is clearly the answer to your problems.

Seriously though, that's nothing to fret over. She'll still like you anyways. Just don't show that your confidence is lacking.

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sellinscrolls

You shouldn't feel like being good at LoL is a good thing.

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cyberdudelol

You guys shouldn't hate on him. I mean, it's hard not to feel completely inferior in this kind of situation. If you honestly care that much, then spend your time studying or playing sports to get good at them. Or enter a whole new area of skill (like drawing, coding, etc) that you can exceed in.

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dracox5234

either you're really shallow or you're not as good as you think you are in any of the things you mentioned

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thiefguy3312

[b]slay the beast.[/b]

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Wanton

at least she doesnt hate you

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Liam

well cheer up, she hasn't broken up with you yet right? So there's something she still sees in you
like idk, you being you?

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TheseWalls

If you have kids with her you're vastly improving your families genepool

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Akatsuki0826

Push her around and slap her a few times to show your superiority.

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