How do I deal with my girlfriend? She is so unreasonable
I was talking to my boys, JD and JC and all tryna make plans for the later week blowing t he fireworks for victoria day and all. She got mad at me after I made it all and told me to cancel. She even told me she had plans with her girlfriends so im like ok w/e np. 1 day without u isnt so bad we can always eat dinner later on the day... she even agreed. in vengeance after the night happened she wrapped our toilet with surrand wrap and i took a leak and it went everywhere and i had to clean it up -.- not to mention she kicked me in my balls cuz she was "sleep talking and acting".
also she burns every photo i have with a girl or replaces their faces with hers... what do i do to make he runderstand she is too crazy but not her feeligns?
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Dump her.
She's an *insert swear word*
did not go well
ok didnt go so well but i tel u guise l8r
thx guys im talking to her tonight
Dude, if she were interested in you from the get-go, there wouldn't have been an "other" to beat you to it.
Besides, (from what I gathered from that post) she let the friendship end. I don't think that's a sign of interest. At all. Then again, I do recall you're thread about how you were detailing your summer and some fights y'all had (assuming it's the same girl). Safe to say you effed up.
She needs to calm down.
In all seriousness, if she's really this crazy, I suggest you call it quits as it's very hard to change a person (especially when they're this crazy). I'm going to sound rude, but i highly doubt you guys are going to marry each other anyway, so might as well end it now. However, idk you guys, so i'm not basing this off any "facts". Since you want to be with her that bad, maybe YOU should change for her? Don't talk to other girls and just listen to her? (sounds awful, but if you really want to be with her, then so be it).
@metaghost4 The more attention you pay to a woman, the less interested she'll be in you. Just show a bit of interest, but let her know that you could care less if she's in your life or not. Women like to be challenged. Or we could do what you did with your girl and end up like you did: Lonely.
OT: Why are people posting serious responses? This guy is obviously trolling, given how he wrote a long-ass story on the girl he was dating.
She's an obsessive freak and nothing good will come out of her. Leave her.
If this is like legit.. holy crap get away from her. She'll spell the end for you, just saying.
She doesn't sound like she's mature about the way she carries herself and doesn't appreciate you having time to yourself.. that's usually a major no-no for me in a relationship because I can't stand a person who wants me by their side 24/7.. I'm exaggerating, but I would say be honest with her and try to have a conversation. If she tries to blow it off, that's on her. It's up to you to decide what's a priority for you, and you're still young too - you have time.
@ExinityRebirth Agreed with guy. The TS is BSing in all aspects so obvious, stupid attention seekers. Retarded kids
OT: Look it's that attention seeker from the past. Who bloody wrote like over 20+ pages of stupid girls.
Mate, you don't have a girlfriend give it up. Who the F is bothered to replace 'their' face or burn photos.
Might as well write over 10000 pages of your stupid girl stories and retards will still believe it.
Inb4 retards quote me. Clearly the TS is a BS artist.
Get some Engrish lessons, your Engrish is horribad.
"I wish I was so cool like you TS, I wanna get some retarded F'd up fake gurlz just like yew. And have such great Grammarz!"
Oh please.. I ain't retarded to make up BS on Basil about stupid girls, grow up.. seriously.
Too bad no one even believes you.
[quote=ItsReal]also she burns every photo i have with a girl or replaces their faces with hers... [/quote]
And this doesn't raise any red flags for you? LOL.
If you let her do that,
I have no advice to give that you'd actually listen too.
Enjoy watching your relationship implode in front of you.
Maybe you'll learn something from this.
have angry sex
lol you're dating a nutjob
burned her house and flipped her off and made my dog take a dump on her fish pool and i had the last laugh...yep
like 2 weeks but we are childhood friends
@metaghost4: Yeah right?
ya man they gonna chop u like chop suiy and eat u for breakfast lunch and dinner =[ so scary
[quote=cchpm]Hey you are the guy who wrote a 20+ part story of her.
What the hell happened to your English ?[/quote]
ya daz me i gues i went full r tard u know. been like wat 5-6 months now
thx u guys im looking into exploring more options and combine them
[quote=Segumisama]Approach her and say "you are very emotional and tend to overreact when it comes to other females in my life. This makes me feel annoyed/mad/etc. and I do not like this. Is there anything that be done to remedy this?"[/quote]
I'm sorry but that is FARRRR too rational.
She seems crazy.
But we're on the internet and we don't know her personally, so there's nothing we can do unless you're WAY more specific; a level of specific that would take pages of writing.
It's really your judgment call, since we can't possibly know her. Maybe she's totally cool and you just have a way of accidentally making her sound bad. Who knows?
Hey you are the guy who wrote a 20+ part story of her.
What the hell happened to your English ?
she is effing messed up in the head
Is she hot?
My post is not short.
The easiest solution for ratchet females, leave them
The photo thing is just plain (insert word ending with ed) up.
go back to english class
Those are big red flags. Run.
Grab her firmly by the upper arm and just below the shoulders. Look her dead in the eye. Shake the hell out of her as violently as you can while yelling, "You're crazy! Chill the out you crazy broad!" Continue shaking her until she either calms down or passes out and calms down that way. It's worked wonders for me.
i can see your point of view but how should i have a calm and no hurt feeling conversation just filled with understandment of each others poitns of view?
[url=http://i.qkme.me/3pohd1.jpg]What I thought after reading this situation.[/url]
Well tell her that it's normal for couples to spend time apart with their other friends and it's healthy to. She was probably hurt when you told her that one day apart from her isn't bad.
i want it to work out man thats y ur advice isnt good
Break up with her.
im not going to break up with her over something so small... honestly shes worth fighting for man..
Approach her and say "you are very emotional and tend to overreact when it comes to other females in my life. This makes me feel annoyed/mad/etc. and I do not like this. Is there anything that be done to remedy this?"
loool wrapping the toilet. gotta try that. thanks man