So this girl again
Hey remember me? ( http://www.basilmarket.com/forum/1944843/0/Help_with_this_girl.html# )
So anyways, I used the tip that most of you guys told me, and told that girl the truth that I just don't want to date her. Here's what happened:
Girl-"I want to make something more with this relationship"
me-"what do you mean?"
girl-"I really like you, and want us to start dating"
me-"look *insert girl's name here* you're really sweet, and very cute. Unfortunately I'm not interested with dating you, but I still want us to remain as friends"
girl-*a bit loud*"OK".
Then she stormed out. After getting my head straight 5 seconds later, I ran to look for her. I didn't see her, though.
I feel like I really hurt this girl, and I want us to still be friends, I'm not the kind of people who enjoy hurting others.
My question is, Basilers how can I still befriend that girl and make this situation not awkward?
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[quote=vi3tboi74]"I'm sorry if I hurt your feelings, but can we please stay as friends?" Then treat her to something, like ice cream or go to the carnival , and try to stay in the "friend-zone" smile and avoid mushy moments. Have fun so u can get rid of the awkward-ness o-o
btw, this chick sounds really weird.. I'd personally lose her as a friend.[/quote]
Thanks that's a nice tip. Even though she sounds weird, she's really kind and it's not even about having her as a friend I just don't want to have the guilt of hurting someone... But I guess you're right I'm not gonna try too hard, I'll ask her for ice cream and if she says no, I guess it's time to move on.
[quote=TheseNuts]she is really sweat?
ew lol[/quote]
Oh dear god I don't know how I looked over that one... thanks for pulling my attention.
You should say something like "I'm sorry my decision hurt you, but right now I just don't want a relationship with anyone. Can we stay friends for now? I don't want to lose you." And give her a hug or hug her while saying this and give her ice cream or something.
[quote=KilIerCombo]Shoulda settled in the middle as friends with benefits![/quote]
Never works. You either end up hating, or dating eachother.
And I agree that you told her what you thought, and if she doesnt want to respect that its her loss.
Don't try to comfort her or be her friend. If she was an understanding person/friend, she wouldn't have said a loud "Okay" and she wouldn't make you think that she felt hurt.
If you try and have her as just a friend you will be completely messing with the girls head. Leave her alone and move on.