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Have you ever

broken up with someone you really like because you know it was better for you? but still got sad?
and then made a basil thread because that's how much you're thinking about it?

Also how many people have you dated?

April 24, 2015

17 Comments • Newest first

Kiirori

nope, only dated 1 person, her parents forced us to break up lol.
pretty sure i'll be single for the rest of my life so i don't need to worry about any of this anymore.

Reply April 25, 2015
katrie

[quote=tiesandbowties]@katrie: you should kick his 7th grade butt and then rub it in his face in high school when you're dating a hotter boy[/quote]

haha I was kidding but thank you!

@grip25

@sammi awh

Reply April 25, 2015 - edited
Beloveable

ya did it cause ya had to so don't be sad about it. happened to me and I did it and I've never been happier! cheer up gurl there's plenty of more boys lining up to meet yaaaaaa

Reply April 25, 2015 - edited
Sammi

I don't remember ever being the dumper, only the dumpee.

Reply April 25, 2015 - edited
grip25

never dated, i only hookup at parties

an alpha would NEVER let himself be emotionally tied down by a girl.

Reply April 25, 2015 - edited
Shir

Nah, never happened like that.

And I've dated two people... That I count. I don't count every one, b/c some are a complete waste of time.

Reply April 24, 2015 - edited
tiesandbowties

@katrie: you should kick his 7th grade butt and then rub it in his face in high school when you're dating a hotter boy

Reply April 24, 2015 - edited
katrie

[quote=tiesandbowties]did u have a sad middle school break up katrie?[/quote]

yes my 7th grade boyfriend dumped me for an 8th grader

@idrinkoj I just knew he didn't like me nearly as much as I liked him
and there's a longer explanation with more contributing factors but this was the main one

Reply April 24, 2015 - edited
iDrinkOJ

no i'm always the one dumped and abandoned.
if you really like someone, why would you break up with them. doesn't make sense.

Reply April 24, 2015 - edited
pinoymystic

kind of, but not really. i knew it was best for me to break up with my second ex because i was just unhappy overall. we didnt do anything bad, but i didnt feel anything was helping me in that relationship.

i dated 3 guys. i was "in a relationship" with a guy two days ago for literally 2 days. i dont really count that one to be honest. hes nothing to me.

Reply April 24, 2015 - edited
ZetraDedd

No, I always pursue even if I know it'd be better to call it off

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Reply April 24, 2015 - edited
tiesandbowties

did u have a sad middle school break up katrie?

Reply April 24, 2015 - edited
NonSonoFronz

I just had to do that a couple months ago with my ex girlfriend of two years.
It's hard too because it all happened so quickly and suddenly and now she's changing like everything that were reasons why I didn't want to get back together with her.
Now I somehow jumped into another relationship thing with a someone who my ex was afraid I had feelings for during my relationship.
And my ex still wants to talk to me and crap and I'm sure this whole thing is so I ditch the person I'm currently with so I get back with her.

It's all just really weird in my life at the moment.
But I refuse to give her the satisfaction of having me back. That's what you get for "wanting to take a break to make sure I'm the one". Screw that.
You can't toss me aside so you get a free excuse to make stupid mistakes and then expect me to want to get back together like nothing happened.

Reply April 24, 2015 - edited
Killeem

ur pretty relax u can find next

idk over 8

Reply April 24, 2015 - edited
Slayinz

I've only had one real love interest,I say love interest because I don't really remember if it were serious or not.I say that too,because if I remember correctly she couldn't choose between me and some other dude.This was all a long time ago mind you.I realized it wasn't healthy and I stopped talking to her,because she was very indecisive and she was really dumb at the time.I think that's where my strong feelings began though,and she was my first kiss so I don't hate her.In the end it was all for the best.I don't know about your situation though.
I'm dealing with someone right now as well who I'd do anything for,and who I care about more than they'll know.I don't know what you're going through,but things are rocky between us right now too.I haven't been able to stop thinking about it either,so I sympathize with you OP.

Reply April 24, 2015 - edited
zigen

no but i dont think youre unjustified in feeling sad about it. There was a point in time where you cared for that person and they were what you wanted and endings are always sad anyway. Cheer up, you did what you thought was best and that's what matters.

Reply April 24, 2015 - edited