I think I accidentally wrecked a relationship. any advice?
No matter what you guys think, this is not a troll thread, this actually happened to me
So yesterday I met this girl online, we talked for a little over three hours and during the course of that time we told each other we were single. So after it gets late into the night my internet becomes spotty due to my friends who were also on the same chatsite or something started playing Black ops2. So we add eachother on facebook, but I notice that she WAS in a relationship with someone, changed her profile picture, and has a TON of pictures with this one guy. I dont know if she did that all for me, or if they were actually in a relationship or not. She lives in Indonesia, and I live in California, I didnt mean to give her mixed signals and I bet that guy feels like absolute garbage right now. Any advice?
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@kneepad: LOL kid please don't be so high strong on this online conversation with someone who is countries away. Some stupid 2 hour conversation with a person in a relationship is not the same as life or death ESPECIALLY not the lives of THOUSANDS so seriously DONT EVER compare such a STUPID thing to a life. You idiot. -.- Death=/=ruining a relationship.
[quote=Dorks]She said she was single. You didn't do anything to ruin whatever was left of their relationship.[/quote]
lies
She said she was single. You didn't do anything to ruin whatever was left of their relationship.
@Pleb
We Vchatted for awhile,
@HastyHeist
Thanks man, right now I know I couldnt live with myself due to all the guilt if I did
@DragonBandit
With that logic would you nuke all of the middle east? Sure you would kill countless people but youd get rid of most of the terrorists! You wouldnt probably ever meet them anyway so why not!
How do you know "she's" not the guy?
[quote=metaghost4]I wish I knew a guy like you irl, there's a certain couple that needs to be broken up...[/quote]
Man, you're still on about it? Christ.
From my experience, you don't have anything to worry about. I met a girl online from Indonesia too. She had the EXACT same personality as me, EXACT. She told me that I was "the one" for her that she has been looking for all this time, blah blah blah, etc. I understood her but I had to let her know that she wasn't the one for me. That probably broke her heart and all but she's still fine, she was just glad that she now knows that a person like me existed, but on the other side of the world which is highly unfortunate.
Anyways, if I were to base her off other Indonesians, I'd say they barely go on facebook/barely use it. She went on it like, once a month, barely had any pictures, etc etc. She was probably caught up with school and most like hanging out with friends most of the time. They're really outgoing people. So I'd say that that chick that you are interested in probably hasn't updated her facebook for a loooooooooooong time. So just believe what ever she said/says.
Lol TS you will never see her who cares.
not really, idk, The pictures were super old, and her facebook looks like it wasn't used in a couple of years. Nevertheless its all really spotty.
Why are you hitting on girls in Indonesia?
She was obviously lying about how she was single then.